attraction

  1. R

    Later in Life Gay Awakenings

    Guys who have had gay awakenings later in life (20+), what was it that did it?
  2. A

    Sexuality

    If sexuality is determined by what attracts us, why are there people who need to experiment to know their sexuality? for example straight/gay people who found out they are bisexual only after experimenting. In theory, shouldn't one already know what attracts him/her?
  3. studmuffintop

    Why do I not feel attractive but get a lot of compliments?

    Hello, Let me start by saying I'm very confident in myself and actually love myself very much, I have realized lately that I don't feel attractive despite getting complimented in public and online. I don't necessarily think people are lying to me or just being nice. I just don't understand how...
  4. bigboaster

    Any bisexuals who consider themselves "50/50"?

    Any of you attracted about near equally to men/women? Or know someone who is? The way people talk online sometimes, they make this sound like it's super common but in my own personal life this definitely isn't the case. Guys usually swing a bit more towards girls/guys at least a little bit...
  5. SilverDadBottom

    Pop Quiz: Identify the Dad Bods +

    Since the term “dad bod” entered the lexicon’s almost a decade ago, it seems like people have divergent definitions. I’m also wondering if men who are attracted to men share similar ideas with heterosexual women, and anyone else attracted to men. Which of the following, if any, would you...
  6. bigboaster

    Gay guys who actually find gay men more attractive?

    Well do y'all exist? I'm only half joking but seriously it's maybe 90 % more common to find gays who are not attracted to/exclusively attracted to straight men. Any of you out there who are the opposite of that?
  7. W

    Photo Matthew Settle in ATTRACTION (2000)

    Mr. Settle was mentioned by Bluebailey in the Hot Muscle Dads thread, but I've been advised that the following images are "off topic" for that thread (I guess 'cause he wasn't yet a "dad" in 2000). So, I'll try again here, since I couldn't find his nudie bits on display in any of the other lpsg...
  8. B

    Short hung guy. Invisibility/Fetishisation

    Hello everyone! As a starting point, let me share a bit about my experience. I’m a 28yo white man living in central europe, 1,70 m (5’7”), fit yet rather skinny, with dick size at 21x15 cm (8,25x6 in.) and quite introverted/reserved. When I go to cruising bars and remain in the less sexual...
  9. JayPR

    What type of men are you attracted to most and why?

    To give context on the options: Pretty boy: it's all about a pretty face, usually a boyish look, kind of a twink but not necessarily, also can be any age (Matt Bomer is a pretty face at 44 years old) A male model with a slim body and pretty face fits here (Harry Styles, Timothee Chalamet, Jaden...
  10. D

    Are Muscular Guys Only Into Other Muscular Guys?

    As a slim twink type who has been into muscular guys since I can remember, I haven't been able to meet any muscular guys who were attracted to non-muscular guys. At the most, I've seen that they can sometimes be into big bear types but for the most part it seems like most if not 99% of them are...
  11. T

    22M: Am I really bisexual?

    This post may be long but please, leave a comment if you manage to read the entire thing. I would greatly appreciate it. Hopefully, I'm in the right area of the forum. I'm going to be as honest as possible . I'm a 22 year old guy and ever since I was a kid, I can remember being attracted to...
  12. T

    22M: Am I actually bisexual?

    This post may be long but please, leave a comment if you manage to read the entire thing. I would greatly appreciate it. Hopefully, I'm in the right area of the forum. I'm going to be as honest as possible . I'm a 22 year old guy and ever since I was a kid, I can remember being attracted to...
  13. bigboaster

    Why Are (some Of) Y'all Obsessed With Straight Men?

    Pretty straight forward. What's with the frothing at the mouth about them? What about them is supposedly "more of a turn on" than a gay man?
  14. P

    The Graduation Party

    I had been dreading this past weekend for so long. My only nephew has graduated high school and I missed the ceremony because of work and I was determined to make the party. Beer would be flowing, thanks to my brother and food would be great, since my sister-in-law and her family did the...
  15. JayPR

    Grindr And Dating/hookup Apps: Do You Ignore Messages When Not Interested?

    I'm curious about this topic because I was the kind of person that never ignored messages on dating apps, even if I was not interested. I used to respond, a short conversation, good manners, you can meet great people as friends. If the person started hitting on me, I would just say: “Thanks, but...
  16. 4

    Male Attractiveness

    So, when it comes to male attractiveness (and I mean gay male, straight male, bi male), what are the traits the draw a guy to you? Is it body, Is it mind? Just curious.
  17. spaj8987

    Attraction To Women With Deep Or Deeper Voices.

    Are you also attracted to women with deep voices. I watch the expanse a lot. Like a lot a lot. And every time Shohreh Aghdashloo is on screen and speaking i am mesmerized with attraction. She's also a very physically attractive woman too. So am i the only one pulled towards these kinds of women...
  18. JayPR

    Is It Hypocrite When Unattractive Gay Men Just Want To Date Attractive Men?

    Let me explain. I've met a lot of gay men (especially those considered "below average" in the look department) who complain about how other gay men are so shallow when looking for a romantic partner because they focus on physical appearance and don't pay attention to good men who are beautiful...
  19. hunglowcolorado

    What Is The Attractive Male Equivalent To Women Wearing Yoga Pants?

    Question: What is the attractive male equivalent to women wearing yoga pants? - Meaning, I find women wearing yoga pants extremely attractive. I see them on a daily basis, and they continue to get my attention every single time. What is the male equivalent of this? What do you see men wearing...
  20. TallHung

    Straight but attracted to masculine men

    This is a question for the 100%-90% straight men. Who among you find men attractive but have no interest in having a sex with men or sexual intimacy? What do you like - what do you notice? I like the male body, nice asses, well developed arms, beards, etc, and sex appeal (whatever that is)...