relationships

Pretty much every long term relationship I’ve been in has been atypical in some way or another. Wether it has been with a men or women I’ve been somehow drawn to odd partners and odd relationships. My first being a controlling sugar daddy when I was 18, then woman who had been a sex worker bit...

I have had 3 serious relationships and thought I loved them all but till I got to my last ex who was a part-time model and hospital office worker then one day just watching her make the dinner it was like someone hit me with a baseball bat I had never felt sutch intense feeling for anyone in my...

Hi. Long time listener, first time caller. I have been in a committed relationship for a little bit over a year now with someone I've been sleeping with for almost 4 years. Basically, we were in an open relationship for awhile but locked it down during quarantine. At the beginning it was great...

How did you find out? Do you see him any differently to how you saw him before? What if you were the friend in question? Have the relationship dynamics changed?

What does a gay cis man have to do to earn a gay/bi/pan trans man's love?

Hey so I am a 23-year-old gay cis man and I want to have a family someday, but I do not want to adopt. I think trans men are really cute and handsome, but I have a question on dating and developing relationships. So is there a general opinion on how trans men feel about getting pregnant? Or...

Using "they" as the pronoun because not all relationship histories are heterosexual... If anyone was wondering. Kinda a threefer/nuanced question. -If you have a really strong interest and or desire to live out a certain sexual act with a new(er) partner and they don't consent do you at any...

Super new to the site, but thought it wouldn't hurt to give this a try.. As a little backstory, I am 22 years old and have never fallen in love until this past summer. My teenage years were spent heavily in the closet and my college years were spent trying to navigate my new life as an out gay...

I have a confession to make I feel like I should talk about something that's been eating me up recently. I'd usually talk about this in therapy, but I had to quit therapy a few months back bc of money issues (last semester of med school, can barely afford a bottle of water). Here we go I had...

i´m latino and the other day was talking with a friend and i told him that i wouldn´t date anybody that isn´t a mixed race latino. he was little bit shooked because he said that the way i said it sounded a little bit racist, but i know i´m not. What do you guys think? my perspective is that is...

It might have been covered already on here but something that I often end up feeling is being torn between wanting a real monogamis relationship with a sweet guy and moving in together and building a life together, and then there's this side (when I'm horny of course) who just wants to be the...

Hey! Well... I’ve been chatting with a German guy and I live in Belgium, we are planning to meet soon and we are trying to collect a list of things we’d like to do together in the future Example: - Have sex in a snowed place. - Exchange our native languages. - Visit Cologne. - Nude camping...

SF here 27 years old 5’11 Techie black bottom Looking to see what’s out there I encourage everyone to post here if they are looking for someone special during this pandemic.

How does everyone feel about a wandering eye ? If you were in a committed relationship. Would you be hurt by your partner checking someone else out ? How would it affect your relationship ? I'm curious to know if anyone has experienced this in their relationships.

So looks wise I'm what most people would call a twink, I don't try to be, it's just my body typing. Of course I have insecurities, but for the most part I'm fine with myself. I'm a swimmer, so it's not like I want to be a bodybuilder or change my appearance. But something unusual about me is...

This thread is mostly curiosity and boredom so yeah... I have this friend I've known for a few years and he's bi. He told me a while back he had a crush on me. Ever since then he would be more "hands on" and make remarks about us being together. Every time we would hang out he'd end up asking...

Not a psychologist. Not an expert. Not anything anyone could consider as someone in the know on this at all. Though from my personal experiences this rings true for an insane amount of people i've met over the years and myself. So i figured why not try to bring it to other people's attention...

I have a high sex drive, love sex and am a very sexual person but this is only obvious with the right person. I think i choose and attract insecure guys even the bigger ones iv'e had. Must be going wrong somewhere haha And it may be me but it seems the whole world is casual and when people are...

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This thread is motivated by reading a thread in the women’s only section about nice guys. Please take time to read through the thread in the women’s section before responding in this thread. You can find the original in the women’s only section here: You dont like a nice guy? When you...

Hi all, My partner and I are in the process of opening up our relationship. I've been doing a lot of thinking and reading on the topic. I'd love to know from any of you what advice you have. What's worked for you? What hasn't? I definitely want to make sure we think and plan so that way we can...

I've been in a relationship with my partner for 15 years now. It been sexless for 8 but it's only in the last few years I realised I don't love him, but feel a huge sense of responsibility towards his future safety and well-being. We are well off as a couple, and have a luxurious home but my...

I'm asking this question to women because I've gotten a lot of mixed signals lately from many women. I get a lot of compliments, so while I'm not trying to brag I certainly don't think it's me being ugly. How can I tell if a woman is truly interested in sex, a connection, or a relationship...