A friend's wife confided

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

(sorry accidentally posted this in women's issues -- redoing it here)

The other day a friend's wife called me to ask about something. Later when just chatting she brought up his ED issues, and that she hasn't had an orgasm in years.

They are both early 40s and she's hot.

What do you think she expects me to do with this information? Talk to him? Come on to her?

 

[Jillang]

I think you need to ask her that question, nobody here can really answer that but unless you are in the medical field and she is just confused, you should tell her to see a doctor and get some ED medication. It's very common and embarrassing for him but not to the doctor or PA. If he is your friend and you think she wants something more like a physical relationship, you should consider what his friendship really means to you before you do anything.

 

[Patchos]

she wants the D!!!

 

[Snarky_succubus]

Does it matter what she wants? A good friend wouldn't humiliate the man by bringing this issue up without him having confided in said friend about it, nor would a good friend hit on his wife. Shame on her on either count.

 

[Chaotica]

Confused as to what ED has to do with orgasms... he can't get her off with his tongue? She can't masturbate?

And she never heard of Viagra?

Come on now...that is some serious bullshit. She wants your dick so it's up to you to decide what to do next.

 

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

Confused as to what ED has to do with orgasms... he can't get her off with his tongue? She can't masturbate?

And she never heard of Viagra?

Come on now...that is some serious bullshit. She wants your dick so it's up to you to decide what to do next.

I asked her lots of that. I guess he's a terrible pussy eater. And I asked about masturbation and she said 'I just love dick, masturbating isn't the same.'

I did mention that I love eating pussy and make my wife cum that way frequently.

I'm going to leave it be.

 

[justdoit]

If your willing, he can be taught, maybe he can watch you eat pussy. Porn is quite helpful to men. ED is no laughing matter. Guys love to make us go wild, I think he/they need to try new things. 30 plus yrs and it's better than it ever was. The thing that surprised me abt ED and low testosterone is that 45% of men deal with it around 40-45 according to a Urology study. So it is not just old folks.

 

[molotovmuffin]

I asked her lots of that. I guess he's a terrible pussy eater. And I asked about masturbation and she said 'I just love dick, masturbating isn't the same.'

I did mention that I love eating pussy and make my wife cum that way frequently.

I'm going to leave it be.

You shouldn't even be having that whole conversation with her. It's an invite and you took the bait to further it. She's not going to let it go.

 

[pink8611]

she wants the D!!!

I think you need to ask her that question, nobody here can really answer that but unless you are in the medical field and she is just confused, you should tell her to see a doctor and get some ED medication. It's very common and embarrassing for him but not to the doctor or PA. If he is your friend and you think she wants something more like a physical relationship, you should consider what his friendship really means to you before you do anything.

+1 to both of these.

I'm going to leave it be.

Sounds like a plan. If she's coming to you and confiding all that (if you all haven't previously had a friendship independent of her husband), anything beyond what's happened is bound to be messy.

 

[redz_rule]

I asked her lots of that. I guess he's a terrible pussy eater. And I asked about masturbation and she said 'I just love dick, masturbating isn't the same.'

I did mention that I love eating pussy and make my wife cum that way frequently.

I'm going to leave it be.

Yeah, I think that's for the best. The whole conversation was waaaaaaaaaay inappropriate and neither of you come out of it very well IMO. She was out of order bringing it up and you were out of order for not stopping it dead. Does your wife know about the content of this convo? I'd flip my shit if my husband was asking his friend's 'hot' wife if she masturbated and then sharing details of our sex life - it's too intimate. That's just my opinion though, for all I know she's cool with it *shrug*

 

[798686]

(sorry accidentally posted this in women's issues -- redoing it here)

The other day a friend's wife called me to ask about something. Later when just chatting she brought up his ED issues, and that she hasn't had an orgasm in years.

They are both early 40s and she's hot.

What do you think she expects me to do with this information? Talk to him? Come on to her?

Why did she bring it up with you, and not with a female friend? It's kind of a betrayal to make a fool of her husband like this.

Does it matter what she wants? A good friend wouldn't humiliate the man by bringing this issue up without him having confided in said friend about it, nor would a good friend hit on his wife. Shame on her on either count.

This.

 

[798686]

You shouldn't even be having that whole conversation with her. It's an invite and you took the bait to further it. She's not going to let it go.

That's if it's true. :redface: The second post sounds a bit...

 

[redz_rule]

Joll! Get out!!! You are about as convincing a woman as David Walliams *smacks bum*

 

[hot-rod]

I asked her lots of that. I guess he's a terrible pussy eater. And I asked about masturbation and she said 'I just love dick, masturbating isn't the same.'

I did mention that I love eating pussy and make my wife cum that way frequently.

I'm going to leave it be.

I think you just gave her too much information.....lol

 

[LaFemme]

How horrible! I would never humiliate someone I cared about by discussing this with a mutual "friend". You should have stopped her dead and directed her to a doctor. You were a really bad friend for this man to have. Imagine how you would feel if the situation was reversed?

And what on earth does the fact that she's hot have to do with anything? Is that a good excuse for you to let her humiliate her husband to you? To share inappropriate information with you? To allow you to brag about your supposed skills?

 

[Tactfulgal]

And what on earth does the fact that she's hot have to do with anything?

It's little details like this, casually slipped into stories, that make me question their truth. I'm not saying I know what's true, but saying she's hot changes the post from one of genuine concern, to one of erotic fantasy.

 

[LaFemme]

It's little details like this, casually slipped into stories, that make me question their truth. I'm not saying I know what's true, but saying she's hot changes the post from one of genuine concern, to one of erotic fantasy.

I tend to agree with you!

 

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

It's little details like this, casually slipped into stories, that make me question their truth. I'm not saying I know what's true, but saying she's hot changes the post from one of genuine concern, to one of erotic fantasy.

Thanks for everyone's feedback.

Actually if a friend's UNattractive wife had asked, I'd have just nipped in the bud.

Frankly the only reason I was asking here is because she's hot. And therefore I was curious about her motivations.