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Long story short:
Went to a site looking for a regular weekly bud. Put the ad up and someone responded. We both wanted the same thing and we talked for about two weeks.
Last night he texts for me to come over, but wants a face pic. I don't give out face pics at all, because I don't want it coming back to haunt me, because I'm not out of the closet.
So, he agrees to meet. I go to his place and he opens up the door in a jockstrap. He basically is nervous, so I open up and tell him my sexual history. Still not enough, so we talked about jobs and I tell him where I work. He's also drunk.
My vibe was that he's clearly gay, but not out or doing anything about it, but some of the questions he asks me are just plain stupid.
"during a blowjob, when do I blow?"
Anyhow, we both get off. He gets super quiet and then hugs me. We part ways and I tell him, I'll text you later.
I text later and he says that I'm unattractive to him. I tell him "I wouldn't have hooked up if I knew it was a one time thing". He responds with "oh well, that's what you get when you don't give out a face pic".
Is it me, or could he have easily told me this as we were chatting away?
I'm devastated at this point. This guy was perfect, because he wanted the same thing I do. I have looked for over six months, before going through countless false responses, before I met this guy.
I just don't think it's worth it anymore. It will be hard, because I consider myself 50/50 at this point, but I have no luck with girls at all. I'm also in my 40's and my age isn't helping the situation.
Any advice?
Went to a site looking for a regular weekly bud. Put the ad up and someone responded. We both wanted the same thing and we talked for about two weeks.
Last night he texts for me to come over, but wants a face pic. I don't give out face pics at all, because I don't want it coming back to haunt me, because I'm not out of the closet.
So, he agrees to meet. I go to his place and he opens up the door in a jockstrap. He basically is nervous, so I open up and tell him my sexual history. Still not enough, so we talked about jobs and I tell him where I work. He's also drunk.
My vibe was that he's clearly gay, but not out or doing anything about it, but some of the questions he asks me are just plain stupid.
"during a blowjob, when do I blow?"
Anyhow, we both get off. He gets super quiet and then hugs me. We part ways and I tell him, I'll text you later.
I text later and he says that I'm unattractive to him. I tell him "I wouldn't have hooked up if I knew it was a one time thing". He responds with "oh well, that's what you get when you don't give out a face pic".
Is it me, or could he have easily told me this as we were chatting away?
I'm devastated at this point. This guy was perfect, because he wanted the same thing I do. I have looked for over six months, before going through countless false responses, before I met this guy.
I just don't think it's worth it anymore. It will be hard, because I consider myself 50/50 at this point, but I have no luck with girls at all. I'm also in my 40's and my age isn't helping the situation.
Any advice?