Sure, explicit sex and nudity is great, but as someone who initially thought of that as a taboo because of my environment, which caused me to come out of the closet really, really late, seeing subtle and "accidentally" homoerotic moments between hot men on TV (I watched a lot of realities and movies growing up) was what really got me going. Fortunately it's been a long time now since I've accepted my orientation and sexuality fully. However I still find myself revisiting those memories and moments of underlying homoeroticism different types of media. Like I mentioned in the beginning: explicit is always great! Buuut... I still love being turned on by something that provokes me without being too explicity. The mystery of it all plays a huge part on it for me. Like when a guy stretches and his shirt rides up and you get only a peek of half of his taunted stomach. Your heart (and something in your pants) throbbing as you keep watching wondering how much will the shirt ride up. Never revealing the full torso, just enough to keep you wanting more, thinking about where that happy trail is leading... That kind of antecipation is just thrilling, and I was wondering if some of you guys are like me as well and what was your biggest/favorite example of accidental homoeroticism in media (i'm emphasizing media because I still feel kind strange talking about real, anonymous people you know in real life, especially if you are providing pictures of them, so let's focus on celebrities that consented to the use of their images in visual media). Descriptions, pics or videos are very encouraged by me hahah
My favorite one has to be a scene between James Spader and Shannon Presby in a little film from the eighties (one of the most homoerotic decades imo) called The New Kids. James is playing a hot, evil blond who torments the main character (Shannon) who turns out to be a tough guy who won't let those humiliations continue, so to put a stop on it, he breaks into James' house at night and finds him sleeping wearing only a small, tight speedo with a nice bulge. Lean, muscled torso and legs exposed. He wakes him up and immediately covers his mouth, stretching James' torso and threatening him with a blade. He then proceeds to make him stand up, ties and gags him with a sock in his mouth and keeps throwing him around the room like a rag dall while trash-talking him and it's so humiliating and hot. It ends up with him throwing James back on the bed and sitting on top of him as he steals his money. That was one of the first scenes that made me realize I was gay growing up. I revisited it a lot, always feeling that first time excitment.
My favorite one has to be a scene between James Spader and Shannon Presby in a little film from the eighties (one of the most homoerotic decades imo) called The New Kids. James is playing a hot, evil blond who torments the main character (Shannon) who turns out to be a tough guy who won't let those humiliations continue, so to put a stop on it, he breaks into James' house at night and finds him sleeping wearing only a small, tight speedo with a nice bulge. Lean, muscled torso and legs exposed. He wakes him up and immediately covers his mouth, stretching James' torso and threatening him with a blade. He then proceeds to make him stand up, ties and gags him with a sock in his mouth and keeps throwing him around the room like a rag dall while trash-talking him and it's so humiliating and hot. It ends up with him throwing James back on the bed and sitting on top of him as he steals his money. That was one of the first scenes that made me realize I was gay growing up. I revisited it a lot, always feeling that first time excitment.