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I knew I'd get some flak!
Seriously though, your boobs aren't that big - I know most main stores in the UK & figleaves.com- gorgeous perhaps.:biggrin1:
The girls I'm talking about were at least twice your size, & yes they were staggeringly perky, buoyant, & real, because they had a really thick band with which to support the weight. They never took their bras off except for showering & shagging.
I only wish I had pictures to prove it. I could give ones myspace page where you can clearly see them, but that would reveal my lugubrious identity & past.
Point being - if your bra straps cut into the skin, & you're not doing some form of manual work or exercise - you're wearing the wrong bra, have it adjusted incorrecty, or it's a piece of crap!
They aren't designed to cut in - & nowadays there are so many variants on large sizes. Maybe you should volunteer to be a test model for bra makers - at least then you could bawl out the men who engineer the structual support. Perhaps the technology isn't increasing as quicky as bosom size?
Maybe you're choosing fashion over comfort - though there a huge number of bigger size girls out there
40 per cent of Australian women wear a bra with a cup size DD or bigger | News.com.au
There's a whole other arguement from feminists that says that women don't need to wear bras at all, & that seems to be backed by some medical research, though I can't say that I believe it.
My GF's are a 36G, so not massive, & hers used to dig in & give her back pain before she changed the size & straps.
Before I'm bawled out, let me assure you that I've taken off an ungodly number of bras - & of course would want a woman to feel comfortable, or better yet sexy, in what she wears. It's just I've literally seen so many women in the wrong size (stooped, running over, bulging under, sore etc), I had to take an interest, especially when they started talking about unnecessary risky surgery.
Princess Tasha - wow. I can't even see the scars:smile:.
Back to the OP - Ive never met any woman with a D cup or more, who actually wanted bigger boobs, but all of them would like them to be or remain perkier.
And yes, all guys would like their cock to be a little bit bigger, or at least hard on demand, legendary staying power, a knot of veins for the G spot, sensational throbbing orgasms, & half a pint of cum.
We all want the impossible!
I've been fitted several times at bra shops. Very uncomfortable to have a band that tight. Go back and read my response in this thread where i gave you an example of how a band doesn't hold up the breasts, it just simply keeps the bra under the breasts and keeps it from riding up when you tighten the shoulder traps to lift the breasts.
Either way the shoulders are carrying the weight of the breasts, whether the band is tight or not. All large breasted women have been properly sized and measured a few times in the store or bra stores and we aren't typically wearing the bras they recommend because- 1 they might not be the shape of cup we want (for example i dont want pointy boobs) i dont want any other bra color but white, and im NOT going to spend that type of money on a bra.
I sweat way too much to only own 1 or 2 bras. I also don't think that big breasted women should be forced to wear bras. If they don't want to they shouldn't have to.
I go braless 80% of the time, the other 20% is in a sports bra so i dont have to try to work out the proper cup size. I can just about a dozen Xl sports bras and make out with what i could spend on 2 expensive bras. I'm not into hand washing and hanging them either.
My breasts sag, as all large and natural breasts should, i've gone years without what you'd call a "proper" bra and i still have awesome looking boobs.
I think you should be fitted for a tight banded bra and wear it all the time and tell us how awesome it makes you feel day after day. You'd also notice the shoulder straps regardless of the tightness of the band- it's physics, the shoulders are holding UP the breasts and the band is holding DOWN the bra underneath the breasts so breast tissue doesnt fall out of the bottom.
Unless im going to get some Mademoiselle Rouge's Sexy Bra Charity going- I wont be wearing anything from Fig Leaves anytime soon. There's no way im paying those prices for a bra.
Aren't you also the guy who measures the amount of fluid your girlfriend squirts and tries to tell the rest of us ladies how to do it? I think so, I'm getting a little tired of men telling us ladies what we should be doing. Just because you sat in on a bra fitting doesn't mean you know anything about how uncomfortable ANY bra can be when you wear it on your skin all the time. Just because you've dated women who have big tits and wore the right or wrong sized bra doesn't mean I am or someone else is. All bras suck- all of them. Some of them are just less sucky than the others.
And your commentary about how you know all about it because you've taken off an ungodly amount of bras- fuck that- how many bras have you put on, dressed in a shirt and actually left the house all day for work and had the bra not be on your mind where you are constantly bothered and adjusting it. What is comfortable when you put it on might not be comfortable during certain activities or after many many many hours.
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