Am I weird or it’s it normal to have a gay fantasy about a friend?

[Los213]

How’s it going yall? Well since I was banned from Reddit over some BS, I’ve really been needing an outlet to vent my sexual thoughts.

I recently saw a mechanic who’s becoming a good friend of mines at a dealer, and he’s been working on my car I believe since late 2023.

Long story short, after asking him what parts I need coming up, he offered to buy one for me at the end of the month. He’s even invited me to his house, well when he sends his address. He even offered to teach me some stuff about the part I need that’s going to be replaced.

Well I’m bi, so I tend to look at guys at times when out, watch gay porn, etc… from what I’ve seen he’s straight, if you never know these days who’s into what idk .To set up the last part I’ll mention he’s getting divorced from his wife, has kids too, but they’re far away. It’s been a really bad divorce from what he’s told me, hate that he’s going through that.

Am I weird for having a gay fantasy that he would rather me give him a blowjob as payment instead of taking my money. Tbh I’d be down to suck his dick as one way to try and help him feel better, and make him feel good. It would be my thank you for all the kind things he’s done for me at the shop, looking out for me, and my cars work.

 

[Jimmyjimmyjames]

Doesn’t sound weird at all. It’s just a fantasy after all. It’s when people start getting too attached to their fantasies when it gets weird.

 

[Stephenmass]

Before I realized who and what I classify as, I definitely remember my first gay crush. At that point in time I had not had my first experience yet (over 18 years of age btw) but I knew I loved being around him. In my case I knew not to cross that line as I enjoyed his company too much to risk the friendship. Still to this day one of my best friends.

 

[Troy71]

Not weird. NO

 

[AlexB8]

It’s only weird if you tell him (or others who know him) about it or if you get fixated on it to where you can’t accept that it probably won’t happen.

 

[WilliamG]

I kind of chuckle when I read "gay fantasy". There's a lot of guys out there (at least in my online/cruising world) that list themselves as "straight curious". Try and hang with the guy for a bit to get a vibe. You never know...

 

[elklindoxxx]

How’s it going yall? Well since I was banned from Reddit over some BS, I’ve really been needing an outlet to vent my sexual thoughts.

I recently saw a mechanic who’s becoming a good friend of mines at a dealer, and he’s been working on my car I believe since late 2023.

Long story short, after asking him what parts I need coming up, he offered to buy one for me at the end of the month. He’s even invited me to his house, well when he sends his address. He even offered to teach me some stuff about the part I need that’s going to be replaced.

Well I’m bi, so I tend to look at guys at times when out, watch gay porn, etc… from what I’ve seen he’s straight, if you never know these days who’s into what idk .To set up the last part I’ll mention he’s getting divorced from his wife, has kids too, but they’re far away. It’s been a really bad divorce from what he’s told me, hate that he’s going through that.

Am I weird for having a gay fantasy that he would rather me give him a blowjob as payment instead of taking my money. Tbh I’d be down to suck his dick as one way to try and help him feel better, and make him feel good. It would be my thank you for all the kind things he’s done for me at the shop, looking out for me, and my cars work.

Is it normal? Depends on who you talk to.

We have straights attending jerk off sessions at our local JO club. They want to explore what it's like being with other men. The curious types limit their activities to masturbation. I've never had any intercourse with the straights...nor am I aware of any of the other gay members who I know, have engaged in intercourse with them either...