Arran arogundade

i don’t get it.. why only speak about ‘a person’ instead of ‘a fucking hot big booty gal’? he has to be bisexual, the least.. i dunno.
You maybe reading too much into it. There many now, of especially of this post 1981 generation, use gender neutral pharasing. I noticed observing my younger relatives and friends when speaking of who their are seeing they mainly say person instead of saying he or she. I never asked them why.
 
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You maybe reading too much into it. There many now, of especially of this post 1981 generation, use gender neutral pharasing. I noticed observing my younger relatives and friends when speaking of who their are seeing they mainly say person instead of saying he or she. I never asked them why.
I notice a lot of that now especially, the gender neutral phrasing, but usually it turns out they are dating someone of the same sex...or both. ;)
Some people tend to do that in an effort to keep people out of their personal lives. I just bluntly tell them, it's none of your business.:laughing:
 
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I notice a lot of that now especially, the gender neutral phrasing, but usually it turns out they are dating someone of the same sex...or both. ;)
Some people tend to do that in an effort to keep people out of their personal lives. I just bluntly tell them, it's none of your business.:laughing:
In my experience people you are explaining who they are dating it is mostly the opposite sex.
 
I notice a lot of that now especially, the gender neutral phrasing, but usually it turns out they are dating someone of the same sex...or both. ;)
Some people tend to do that in an effort to keep people out of their personal lives. I just bluntly tell them, it's none of your business.:laughing:


No a lot of times it really is bc girlfriend/boyfriend doesn’t really convey the depth of the relationship but no one has the money to get married. Partner/life partner/soulmate is really catching steam and not just because of the rise of awareness for trans and non binary individuals. Relationships are changing. Think about it — You can live with your bf/gf for years, share bills, pets, etc., not have 40-50k to spend on a wedding and calling them the same title as a couple that’s only just started regularly dating seems to not really convey the interconnectedness you share with that person. Imo hookup< fwb < gf/bf< Partner (all the new age terms) < spouse.

Btw Arran has dated women in the past. He never really posts on his insta but the woman will tag him in couple posts (@tiachristofi & @meg_farrow93 recently no idea if they dated and for how long but chances are they were at least hookups).
 
No a lot of times it really is bc girlfriend/boyfriend doesn’t really convey the depth of the relationship but no one has the money to get married. Partner/life partner/soulmate is really catching steam and not just because of the rise of awareness for trans and non binary individuals. Relationships are changing. Think about it — You can live with your bf/gf for years, share bills, pets, etc., not have 40-50k to spend on a wedding and calling them the same title as a couple that’s only just started regularly dating seems to not really convey the interconnectedness you share with that person. Imo hookup< fwb < gf/bf< Partner (all the new age terms) < spouse.

Btw Arran has dated women in the past. He never really posts on his insta but the woman will tag him in couple posts (@tiachristofi & @meg_farrow93 recently no idea if they dated and for how long but chances are they were at least hookups).
It was just a comment. I wasn't insinuating his sexuality.
 
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i don’t get it.. why only speak about ‘a person’ instead of ‘a fucking hot big booty gal’? he has to be bisexual, the least.. i dunno.

He is at the very least bisexual, I’ve known hot chicks who have tried to chirps him and he hasn’t even batted an eyelid... well good luck to him ❤️
 
He is at the very least bisexual, I’ve known hot chicks who have tried to chirps him and he hasn’t even batted an eyelid... well good luck to him ❤️
Well that's based on our opinions. Which are based on how stereotypically the society usually views LGBTQ+ people. Just because his nice, soft, doesn't go for every skirt he sees, and keeps his confidentiality doesn't mean his not straight. As queers we fight for the world not to use our characters to define orientation (e.g femininity doesn't not equal being gay/bi). I'm not at all "coming" for you. All I'm saying is that if the man ain't saying anything than there's nothing to say or talk about. We'll just appreciate his good looks.
 

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Well that's based on our opinions. Which are based on how stereotypically the society usually views LGBTQ+ people. Just because his nice, soft, doesn't go for every skirt he sees, and keeps his confidentiality doesn't mean his not straight. As queers we fight for the world not to use our characters to define orientation (e.g femininity doesn't not equal being gay/bi). I'm not at all "coming" for you. All I'm saying is that if the man ain't saying anything than there's nothing to say or talk about. We'll just appreciate his good looks.
AMEN! :innocent: