Asking to a bottom man

[Ciprofan]

Hey guys! I'm 21yo and I'm trying to figure out my gay position, like if I'm top or bottom... Sometimes I like the idea of being fucked by a dick, and I did once, but was so uncomfortable to me, I didn't like the sensation of feeling full like I wanted to go to the bathroom but that was so long ago, like one year ago, and currently I've been trying playing with myself y I can't with that sensation XD but I really like the idea of being a bottom and be fucked, how do you guys feel about this sensation or how was your experience with this? Think about this like I'm a bottom beginner XD I would like to hear your opinion or history. Bye xoxo

 

[Topher the Gopher]

In my experience, I did have that "I have to poop" sensation the first few times, but it didn't bother me and eventually I didn't feel that way at all anyhow. If it's that important to you, I suggest regular practice and see how you feel after a few good sessions. Just remember to always go slow at first and use plenty of lube.

 

[mmaromo]

Always use lube... start slow. Go a couple nights with one finger then slowly work your way up to a dildo over the course of a week or two.

Also if needed, increase your water and fiber intake, this will not only keep you cleaner, but it will improve your overall digestive health and will help with any discomfort. For me, I take Metamucil capsules, just one in the day and one at night, and it works wonders.

Most importantly, get comfortable and relax and you'll start enjoying it more.

 

[Topher the Gopher]

Always use lube... start slow. Go a couple nights with one finger then slowly work your way up to a dildo over the course of a week or two.

Also if needed, increase your water and fiber intake, this will not only keep you cleaner, but it will improve your overall digestive health and will help with any discomfort. For me, I take Metamucil capsules, just one in the day and one at night, and it works wonders.

Most importantly, get comfortable and relax and you'll start enjoying it more.

I recently started taking Metamucil, albeit a generic brand and the kind you dissolve in water. Tastes like Tang, really, and after one glass I already felt overall better.

 

[Brodie888]

I'd say you probably have bottom tendencies but you simply need more experience and someone who is an experienced top to show you the way.

 

[ILoveGames48]

The thing about sex.. I was bottom at first then became versatile.. so if I meet a guy wanting to top I am ready and if meet a guy wanting to bottom.. I am unready..

The guys that say it makes them feel like they wanna poop when getting fucked.. you’re having slid into your ass going the opposite direction of what comes out.. so muscles triggers and wants to feel like pushing it out

For while it will feel like that but I actually enjoyed that feeling.. I actually thought that was how being fucked was supposed to feel .. ..


I would suggest buying g a dildo.. not a monster dildo but a basic 6 inch one really skinny thickness ( they call them prostate massagers these days ). Get some lube and give it a whirl..


Even the last time I was penetrated as he went in it felt like them days wanting to poop.. but used more lube makes the guys cock not push against those muscles.. but slide along with them

 

[theplayerking]

Hey guys! I'm 21yo and I'm trying to figure out my gay position, like if I'm top or bottom... Sometimes I like the idea of being fucked by a dick, and I did once, but was so uncomfortable to me, I didn't like the sensation of feeling full like I wanted to go to the bathroom but that was so long ago, like one year ago, and currently I've been trying playing with myself y I can't with that sensation XD but I really like the idea of being a bottom and be fucked, how do you guys feel about this sensation or how was your experience with this? Think about this like I'm a bottom beginner XD I would like to hear your opinion or history. Bye xoxo

I’m versatile. I get fucked no so much because I enjoy the physical sensation of having a dick in my ass, but because I really get off on the idea of having a man inside my body. The psychological aspect of sex is very powerful and there’s nothing wrong with it being a primary source of pleasure when you’re getting fucked, at least initially.

I also suggest learning how to douche and getting a medium sized butt plug to train your hole. If you douche and insert the butt plug for thirty minutes every other day you should have a nicely trained beginner fuck hole in a couple of weeks. Like any physical exercise, the trick is repetition and consistency.

 

[theplayerking]

I’m versatile. I get fucked not so much because I enjoy the physical sensation of having a dick in my ass, but because I really get off on the idea of having a man inside my body. The psychological aspect of sex is very powerful and there’s nothing wrong with it being a primary source of pleasure when you’re getting fucked, at least initially.

I also suggest learning how to douche and getting a medium sized butt plug to train your hole. If you douche and insert the butt plug for thirty minutes every other day you should have a nicely trained beginner fuck hole in a couple of weeks. Like any physical exercise, the trick is repetition and consistency.

 

[MeatStickSupreme]

The thing with bottoming is the pleasure builds up over time. The first few minutes something is back there it might hurt a little bit and it might feel like you need to use the bathroom. But the hornier you get and the more you stimulate your anus and prostate the better and better it feels until it builds up to a point where youre getting this incredible sensation that radiates from your prostate through your whole body. You just need to get over that initial hump of awkwardness and discomfort.

What really helps is prep, prep and more prep. Use the bathroom, take a shower, do a quick douche if youre worried about making a mess. And abstain for a few days. You want to be as horny as possible. The more horny you are the better it will feel.

Before hooking up with a guy, try practicing on your own. Buy some dildos or an aneros if you can afford it. Next is to get comfortable. Lay in bed in a comfortable position. and get to relaxing. Because the prostate sensations are subtle at first if youre tensing up your other body parts or youre not comfortable it will be hard to focus on the feeling you want to build on. Next, take it really slow and use lots of lube. If youre not used to anal, rushing things or being tense back there can make things painful. Next, load up some porn and go to town. Explore the sensations. Some guys have their prostates further up, some closer to the exit. Explore and see what works for you. Try different positions, different angles, different sizes of toys different rhythms. That way the next time you see a guy, you know exactly what to tell him to rock your world. Thats also another key thing. Communicate, communicate communicate. Let him know if you want him to go shallow, deeper, slower, faster. Tell him what works for you and you both will have a really good time.