I'll just answer that for ya here.
For the record, I understand the frustration of the other ladies currently posting in the thread, but honestly these questions are preferable to the ones like some of the misogynistic shit we've seen so far this summer. I'll take this over that shit any time. Having said that, OP... keep in mind that there are indeed few ladies who frequent the forums anymore, and the ones who do get bombarded with a lot of repeated questions ect.
I myself want my pussy to get a little attention before he goes poking around the backside. It's not absolutely necessary, I like ass play generally... but my pussy is, well.. My Pussy. It's just not something I *don't want to have played with when I'm having a sexual encounter.