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[LB69]

Me and my wife are older and so she does not have a lot of wetness even if I go down on her first. I am 7.50 " X 7"++ and she says I am just too big for her. My problem is she does not like for me to use lube because she says it feels sticky. If I do not it hurts her when I go in even when I slowly puncture it and go deep and wait for her to adjust. It hurts me due to the dry friction that eventually happens. I end up raw and sore the next day and so does she. This pain tends to prevent us from having sex as often as I like (I want and need it at least 2 x a week) When I use different types of lube I still have not found one she likes whether it is silicone or gel. Has anyone found a lube that is not sticky after awhile but stays lubricated. I tend to last a long time and sometimes have to re-lubricate to keep from getting raw and keeping her from being raw also.
Any help would be appreciated so my wife will not complain about my insists on having sex. She says she does not need it anymore!!!! I do Thanks

 

[cofrader]

Me and my wife are older and so she does not have a lot of wetness even if I go down on her first. I am 7.50 " X 7"++ and she says I am just too big for her. My problem is she does not like for me to use lube because she says it feels sticky. If I do not it hurts her when I go in even when I slowly puncture it and go deep and wait for her to adjust. It hurts me due to the dry friction that eventually happens. I end up raw and sore the next day and so does she. This pain tends to prevent us from having sex as often as I like (I want and need it at least 2 x a week) When I use different types of lube I still have not found one she likes whether it is silicone or gel. Has anyone found a lube that is not sticky after awhile but stays lubricated. I tend to last a long time and sometimes have to re-lubricate to keep from getting raw and keeping her from being raw also.
Any help would be appreciated so my wife will not complain about my insists on having sex. She says she does not need it anymore!!!! I do Thanks

Are you well hydrated? It's always a good advice on older people and hopefully related.
Try with a lighter formula your pharmacist could advice you on that. take you time and if you need more moist make it part of the game.
Perhaps a shower afterwards could help with that feeling.

 

[LB69]

Are you well hydrated? It's always a good advice on older people and hopefully related.
Try with a lighter formula your pharmacist could advice you on that. take you time and if you need more moist make it part of the game.
Perhaps a shower afterwards could help with that feeling.

Thanks, yes we both drink a. lot of water daily, I will ask my pharmacist for some ideas, it is just a little embarrasing since they are all women and know my wife and do not want her to know that I asked. You know how women talk and she would die if i told her I asked. Depending when we make love I sometimes take a shower, if not i will use a cream to help with the chapped skin. That helps but although the tightness of her pussy feels good at first it just gets dry and then after 15 -20 minutes it is chapped. thanks again for your help.

 

[GallusMeus]

You may want to try KY-Gel, also look in to using natural oils as a lubricant. What Can You Use Instead of Lube?

 

[eltoro45]

Wet platinum. Silicate based instead oil based. Little dab goes a long way and won’t leave your cock or her pussy an oily mess. Great for a fat cock.

 

[LB69]

Wet platinum. Silicate based instead oil based. Little dab goes a long way and won’t leave your cock or her pussy an oily mess. Great for a fat cock.

thanks for the advice i will buy some.

 

[Mike hung]

Liquid silk is a very good all rounder, nothing beats dumping a good load on the pussy first though.

 

[notthatguy]

My precum is the worlds best lube. Luckily I produce it by the boat load.

 

[LB69]

My precum is the worlds best lube. Luckily I produce it by the boat load.

Unfortunately, I do not produce enough to lube my manhood. I need a lot, lot more.

 

[chiseledblackmale]

Silicone bases lube is less sticky. I like Swiss Navy and it’s pump

 

[LB69]

thanks

Silicone bases lube is less sticky. I like Swiss Navy and it’s pump

 

[Oldcowboy]

Got to using Crisco in the calving barn for difficult births. You can buy it in 4 pack sticks, like butter.
Good slickum! Maybe take a stick or portion thereof, insert and let body heat prep area?

Ps—-had a pretty large crew of both sexes—seemed like they went thru quite a bit….

 

[RedDevilCock]

Sliquid is an awesome company!

 

[Magnum10x2]

Tried a few dozen...
Swiss Navy Water-Based Lube is good. I happen to like gel and dislike thin lubes.

 

[lapdog2001]

Wet platinum. Silicate based instead oil based. Little dab goes a long way and won’t leave your cock or her pussy an oily mess. Great for a fat cock.

I concur on Wet Platinum! I've been using it for many, many years now and it does the jobs very well. I've tried numerous lubes like KY Jelly, silicon and water based lubes. I was in a long term relationship where we had to use condoms and she very easily got very wet, but the condoms tended to dry her out.
My current relationship (wife) get wet internally but not externally so using Wet Platinum on my head and top of my cock usually means sliding balls deep into her on the first stroke with absolutely no discomfort for her or me. We haven't had a chafing incident since we've been using Wet Platinum.

My precum is the worlds best lube. Luckily I produce it by the boat load.

Like the original poster, not every man produces precum or not a lot of it. I probably produce precum 1 out of 500 times I have sex, so lube has been an essential part of my sex life for decades!


Also look into lubes or gels that are specifically made for women with the same issues as your wife. I've heard of a Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) medicated cream that's meant to be used vaginally (not orally) so it doesn't interfere with the woman's body chemistry or hormone balance, and only helps the vagina produce natural moisture and protects delicate vaginal tissues.

Another thing I saw only in passing is a CDB or THC based vaginal cream that supposed to do the same thing

 

[LB69]

I concur on Wet Platinum! I've been using it for many, many years now and it does the jobs very well. I've tried numerous lubes like KY Jelly, silicon and water based lubes. I was in a long term relationship where we had to use condoms and she very easily got very wet, but the condoms tended to dry her out.
My current relationship (wife) get wet internally but not externally so using Wet Platinum on my head and top of my cock usually means sliding balls deep into her on the first stroke with absolutely no discomfort for her or me. We haven't had a chafing incident since we've been using Wet Platinum.

Like the original poster, not every man produces precum or not a lot of it. I probably produce precum 1 out of 500 times I have sex, so lube has been an essential part of my sex life for decades!


Also look into lubes or gels that are specifically made for women with the same issues as your wife. I've heard of a Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) medicated cream that's meant to be used vaginally (not orally) so it doesn't interfere with the woman's body chemistry or hormone balance, and only helps the vagina produce natural moisture and protects delicate vaginal tissues.

Another thing I saw only in passing is a CDB or THC based vaginal cream that supposed to do the same thing

Thanks I will look into the other options. I have been using different silicone products and they are much better than the other water based lubes. I tend to like the ones without taste or flavors. My wife does too! Thanks again.

 

[LB69]

I got wet platinum and used it last night and my wife and I were very pleased with how it works and how it last a long time without having to relube. Of course after awhile neither of us were thinking about it because it kept us friction free. Thanks for the suggestion.

 

[Intellectualmeat]

Me and my wife are older and so she does not have a lot of wetness even if I go down on her first. I am 7.50 " X 7"++ and she says I am just too big for her. My problem is she does not like for me to use lube because she says it feels sticky. If I do not it hurts her when I go in even when I slowly puncture it and go deep and wait for her to adjust. It hurts me due to the dry friction that eventually happens. I end up raw and sore the next day and so does she. This pain tends to prevent us from having sex as often as I like (I want and need it at least 2 x a week) When I use different types of lube I still have not found one she likes whether it is silicone or gel. Has anyone found a lube that is not sticky after awhile but stays lubricated. I tend to last a long time and sometimes have to re-lubricate to keep from getting raw and keeping her from being raw also.
Any help would be appreciated so my wife will not complain about my insists on having sex. She says she does not need it anymore!!!! I do Thanks

Okay it sounds like there are multiple issues here, but focusing on the lube. Try organic coconut oil. I use it 95% of the time and it’s amazing.

 

[LB69]

Okay it sounds like there are multiple issues here, but focusing on the lube. Try organic coconut oil. I use it 95% of the time and it’s amazing.

I tried that and although it is not a bad flavor, she did not like it ?????

 

[Intellectualmeat]

I tried that and although it is not a bad flavor, she did not like it ?????

She didn’t like the feel? Or the taste? If it’s the taste just don’t use it for any oral play. If she doesn’t like the feel then it won’t work so the search continues.