- LB69,
We have been using a silicone someone recommended and it is working pretty good. No tastes and does not hurt her going in as much in the beginning, which was always the problem. Thanks
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She should talk to her ob/gyn about getting Imvexxy. Its an estrogen insert into the vagina. My wife needed this a few years ago and it allowed us to have sex again. Its likely, I'd say certain, she's beginning or is in menopause. Low libido and dry vagina, sounds like my wife before HRT for menopause. Now my wife is a river again. She is so wet from HRT she quit the Imvexxy because she was dumping grool all day long and irritating her pussy from the extra wetness!!
Also your wife should take this supplement called Slippery Box. Its slippery elm bark and it helps mucuosa linings lubricate, aka, the pussy. Its helping my wife, its been good for women for a while now.
She should also take supplements for her pH balance in her vagina. She should take Metagenics Ultraflora Women's. Its bacteria like in yogurt but it targets the vaginal pH and helps balance it. This helps with wetness and especially discomfort. For the last I don't know, maybe 13-15 years now, I can't cum in my wife because it gives her a bladder infection. Every damn time we've tried, same result, she needs antibiotics. She'll go 6 months no UTI and one cum from me inside her, off to the doctor. But now, she's been on this Ultraflora stuff once a day, I've cum in her twice and its like I never did at all. I just pumped a massive load into her a few nights ago and by now she'd be burning. No sensation or anything remotely like a UTI came on. Its like a miracle!!! I mean she loves when I shoot on her and I love it too, but every now and then for the emotional intimacy it brings, cumming in her and us cumming together is just mmmmmmmm so good. Like Monday night lol!!!!
These are my suggestions instead of lube. If she's got her libido down, she won't lubricate and her pussy is not engorged with blood so that means painful sex. Period. If she's even the slightest bit horny she'll have a better time. And foreplay isn't enough. She's got to have the mood for it, and the blood will start flowing.
Also your wife should take this supplement called Slippery Box. Its slippery elm bark and it helps mucuosa linings lubricate, aka, the pussy. Its helping my wife, its been good for women for a while now.
She should also take supplements for her pH balance in her vagina. She should take Metagenics Ultraflora Women's. Its bacteria like in yogurt but it targets the vaginal pH and helps balance it. This helps with wetness and especially discomfort. For the last I don't know, maybe 13-15 years now, I can't cum in my wife because it gives her a bladder infection. Every damn time we've tried, same result, she needs antibiotics. She'll go 6 months no UTI and one cum from me inside her, off to the doctor. But now, she's been on this Ultraflora stuff once a day, I've cum in her twice and its like I never did at all. I just pumped a massive load into her a few nights ago and by now she'd be burning. No sensation or anything remotely like a UTI came on. Its like a miracle!!! I mean she loves when I shoot on her and I love it too, but every now and then for the emotional intimacy it brings, cumming in her and us cumming together is just mmmmmmmm so good. Like Monday night lol!!!!
These are my suggestions instead of lube. If she's got her libido down, she won't lubricate and her pussy is not engorged with blood so that means painful sex. Period. If she's even the slightest bit horny she'll have a better time. And foreplay isn't enough. She's got to have the mood for it, and the blood will start flowing.
- LB69,
Wow, thanks for the suggestions, my wife has finished menopose, but everything you describeing is just like my wife. She gets UTI and burns after we have sex. I never thought it was from my cum. I will have her check with her doctor to Rx these meds. Thanks again for the knowledge, maybe this will get us back on multiple sex weekly. It has been a dry period at times. Cannot wait to get her back on track. Thanks!!!
No problem! We didn't have sex for 14 months. Trying to enter her when she thought she was ready for cock was like me trying to push my cock into a bag of sand
its a horrible analogy, but that's what it was like. She hated it. I did too. UTI might be just from sex, not cum in her, but it sure seemed to be connected for us. She needs to wash up after sex without soap, and then pee. Peeing and then washing just gets bacteria into her freshly cleaned out urethra after peeing; peeing cleans it out perfectly. But the supplements are all over the counter, except Imvexxy, and all of them will help her. Good luck, it takes time man, but be patient and hopefully you'll have comfy sex again!!- LB69,
It is good to know that I am not the only one that has had this problem and am glad that I may have had the luck to find someone that can help me. The doctors just do not always understand the trama of not being able to have comfortable sex with someone it is trying on the mind and body. The physical contact with someone you love is so satisfying. Masturbation is just not the same or a solution. Thanks for the great advice, cannot wait to get an appointment with her doctor. Have a great fucking week, cannot wait till my wife and i can get back on a regular fucking routine. Self service get boring.No problem! We didn't have sex for 14 months. Trying to enter her when she thought she was ready for cock was like me trying to push my cock into a bag of sand
You got it! My wife's doctors ran her through the ringer, she saw a "baby maker" ob/gyn who wasn't really caring of my wife's, or my own, needs. Finally found a menopause-oriented ob/gyn and it was like a completely different professional medicine altogether. I got treated like I was the one who wanted sex, and my wife should've just been happy not having it. But she wanted it as bad as me! Just wasn't working for her. Good luck you'll do fine!
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