Bi guys down to chat?

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I’ve always been more attracted to straight guys, but recently I’ve realized that I get turned on more watching guys get pleasure from girls than guys. Usually involves me “imagining” I’m the girl, but I still find myself so much more turned on by this or guys solo than multiple guys together. I’m not extremely feminine but can be at times, but being 6’ 3” and 230 pounds I usually end up being “bigger” than a lot of guys interested in me, and I feel like that leads to more feminine guys being attracted to me, which is fine, but not usually what turns me on the most. I’d rather be the more submissive and bratty one. And lately watching a girl be pleasured by multiple guys and imagining I’m her is really what turns me on the most. I personally wouldn’t probably enjoy it, but putting myself in her place in my mind really turns me on. Tbh I’m not sure if I’m wording all of this correctly, I tend to be more shy and not as open about things he like this and haven’t really discussed it with many people. So basically I was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Or if any bi guys may be down to chat or something. I hope this doesn’t sound as lame as it feels but I thought I’d give it a shot!
 
I’ve always been more attracted to straight guys, but recently I’ve realized that I get turned on more watching guys get pleasure from girls than guys. Usually involves me “imagining” I’m the girl, but I still find myself so much more turned on by this or guys solo than multiple guys together. I’m not extremely feminine but can be at times, but being 6’ 3” and 230 pounds I usually end up being “bigger” than a lot of guys interested in me, and I feel like that leads to more feminine guys being attracted to me, which is fine, but not usually what turns me on the most. I’d rather be the more submissive and bratty one. And lately watching a girl be pleasured by multiple guys and imagining I’m her is really what turns me on the most. I personally wouldn’t probably enjoy it, but putting myself in her place in my mind really turns me on. Tbh I’m not sure if I’m wording all of this correctly, I tend to be more shy and not as open about things he like this and haven’t really discussed it with many people. So basically I was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Or if any bi guys may be down to chat or something. I hope this doesn’t sound as lame as it feels but I thought I’d give it a shot!
Similar issue because I’m very hung. But I’m attracted to more masculine dudes. Dm me if you want to chat
 
I’ve always been more attracted to straight guys, but recently I’ve realized that I get turned on more watching guys get pleasure from girls than guys. Usually involves me “imagining” I’m the girl, but I still find myself so much more turned on by this or guys solo than multiple guys together. I’m not extremely feminine but can be at times, but being 6’ 3” and 230 pounds I usually end up being “bigger” than a lot of guys interested in me, and I feel like that leads to more feminine guys being attracted to me, which is fine, but not usually what turns me on the most. I’d rather be the more submissive and bratty one. And lately watching a girl be pleasured by multiple guys and imagining I’m her is really what turns me on the most. I personally wouldn’t probably enjoy it, but putting myself in her place in my mind really turns me on. Tbh I’m not sure if I’m wording all of this correctly, I tend to be more shy and not as open about things he like this and haven’t really discussed it with many people. So basically I was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Or if any bi guys may be down to chat or something. I hope this doesn’t sound as lame as it feels but I thought I’d give it a shot!
I understand where you're coming from.

A lot of the scenarios that turn typical gay men do not turn me on. I usually like to involve a woman, or make my gay experience more about dick size/dominance.

I really get hard watching a woman lust after another woman.

Another thing that is different about me, is that I like to play with dudes while he's inside of a woman.

It's all complicated. I just go with what I like.

I think more bisexual men are wired a little differently than hardcore gay men. No one is right or wrong --- we do not control what makes us get boners.
 
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I’ve always been more attracted to straight guys, but recently I’ve realized that I get turned on more watching guys get pleasure from girls than guys. Usually involves me “imagining” I’m the girl, but I still find myself so much more turned on by this or guys solo than multiple guys together. I’m not extremely feminine but can be at times, but being 6’ 3” and 230 pounds I usually end up being “bigger” than a lot of guys interested in me, and I feel like that leads to more feminine guys being attracted to me, which is fine, but not usually what turns me on the most. I’d rather be the more submissive and bratty one. And lately watching a girl be pleasured by multiple guys and imagining I’m her is really what turns me on the most. I personally wouldn’t probably enjoy it, but putting myself in her place in my mind really turns me on. Tbh I’m not sure if I’m wording all of this correctly, I tend to be more shy and not as open about things he like this and haven’t really discussed it with many people. So basically I was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Or if any bi guys may be down to chat or something. I hope this doesn’t sound as lame as it feels but I thought I’d give it a shot!
HMU man. Down to chat. It’s tough to find someone to talk to who understands the struggle of a bi guy.
 
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I’ve always been more attracted to straight guys, but recently I’ve realized that I get turned on more watching guys get pleasure from girls than guys. Usually involves me “imagining” I’m the girl, but I still find myself so much more turned on by this or guys solo than multiple guys together. I’m not extremely feminine but can be at times, but being 6’ 3” and 230 pounds I usually end up being “bigger” than a lot of guys interested in me, and I feel like that leads to more feminine guys being attracted to me, which is fine, but not usually what turns me on the most. I’d rather be the more submissive and bratty one. And lately watching a girl be pleasured by multiple guys and imagining I’m her is really what turns me on the most. I personally wouldn’t probably enjoy it, but putting myself in her place in my mind really turns me on. Tbh I’m not sure if I’m wording all of this correctly, I tend to be more shy and not as open about things he like this and haven’t really discussed it with many people. So basically I was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Or if any bi guys may be down to chat or something. I hope this doesn’t sound as lame as it feels but I thought I’d give it a shot!
I'm an older guy who had a couple threesomes with my wife who no longer wants any sex and I'm thinking now that I would love to be on the recieving end of these cocks. PM me if you want to chat.