Bigger/Smaller than your own dad? (18+)

[ConstantinLaufer]

So what was it like being smaller?

I'd feel less worthy, humiliated, embarrassed.. It wasn't only pointing it out for a laugh, but also calling me girly names and such. And at the same time I'd be horny AF with the whole situation, and that gets it all even worse, lol

It would happen every summer, for a few years, until families kinda drifted apart. I was always torn between looking forward to and dreading those weeks at countryside.

 

[deleted21221101]

I'd feel less worthy, humiliated, embarrassed.. It wasn't only pointing it out for a laugh, but also calling me girly names and such. And at the same time I'd be horny AF with the whole situation, and that gets it all even worse, lol

It would happen every summer, for a few years, until families kinda drifted apart. I was always torn between looking forward to and dreading those weeks at countryside.

So were your cousins that much bigger than you

 

[ConstantinLaufer]

So were your cousins that much bigger than you

well yeah, tho couple years older too.. but difference was obvious. Youngest cousin was my age, and he was at least an inch longer.. and thicker too. :/

 

[deleted21221101]

well yeah, tho couple years older too.. but difference was obvious. Youngest cousin was my age, and he was at least an inch longer.. and thicker too. :/

I see family can be the worst sometimes. I was a dick to my older bro when I outgrew him.

 

[ConstantinLaufer]

I see family can be the worst sometimes. I was a dick to my older bro when I outgrew him.

True. Dammit.. can't even begin to think how bad it was for him + being the older one.

 

[deleted21221101]

Yeah he was only about 4 in and I was 6

 

[ConstantinLaufer]

Ouch.. I'm bout 6 now, so I get it. Hope he handled it all cool.

 

[deleted21221101]

He did for the most part

 

[Pepijn]

For me the nudity was a good thing. Gave me confidence and made me aware that there were different sizes and shapes. Nothing to be ashamed of. Family and friends should be safe.

 

[ConstantinLaufer]

For me the nudity was a good thing. Gave me confidence and made me aware that there were different sizes and shapes. Nothing to be ashamed of. Family and friends should be safe.

I agree, and today i think the same about nudity, but when its your closest ones its about how they set it all up and introduce you to it.

Being called out for being under/almost average, from the early days and just for fun.. they just didnt have the right approach Id say, lol

 

[Dangercurve]

Um, well summer breaks at the country side back then, full extended family in one house, sharing beds..
+ partially growing up in eastern europe can do that I guess, lol.

I went through something similar, the family met in a small lake house twice a year, sharing with the cousins was quite revealing

 

[ConstantinLaufer]

I went through something similar, the family met in a small lake house twice a year, sharing with the cousins was quite revealing

oh, revealing! thats a new way of looking at it, for me.. didn't feel like it back then, for sure.
I thought I was in a parallel universe while there, every time, especially when it starts to get dark and its time for bed, hmh.

 

[deleted24145831]

Did anyone ever talk about dick size with their son or dad?

Yep! Frequently from a certain age to a certain age. It came naturally with camping, backpacking, being out in nature, etc. and me growing up. All of it was natural and was a great time of growing up.

 

[deleted24145831]

See my birth father wasn’t my actual dad growing up. He was technically step dad but he was my dad. I never had that relationship with my dad. I did however have it with my mom, who was very young but that’s another story. She was the open one, the one I could ask anything to, the one that encouraged nudity and comfortability when dad was at work.

Sames or similar re: mother. My father was around but only on occasions like trips, long weekends, etc. It was because of his job.
Mom taught/demo'd the important stuff.

 

[G Man]

Me too. I have a 2.5" hardon microdick and dad is massive around 8 inches. sucks!

 

[G Man]

I feel your pain. I’m even smaller than you, 2 inches hard as a rock and my dad swings over 7 inches soft and nearly 10 inches hard.

 

[deleted24145831]

For those who have been lucky/unlucky enough to learn their own dads dick size, are you bigger or smaller than he is?

How'd you find out and does he know? How does your dad feel/how'd he react when he found out?

Great thread you started, and I know there are similar ones.

I'm a little bigger than my dad hard, but we look very similar flaccid. Hard I'm around ~8" depending on arousal level and ~5.5" soft if the room or the weather is warm. He's a little shorter hard, so I'd say 7.5" or so and a little longer soft, so ~6" flaccid if we were both nude in the same weather/conditions. Our sacks, mind you, are the same size, hang the same, and are feature-to-feature almost identical twins

Parents had a "non-Western" philosophy of child rearing so there wasn't a lot of covering up after showers and baths, so I knew every freckle and detail of every angle of my parents and saw them still nude a lot in certain situations (sunning by pools, lounging at home, camping, etc.) even after I moved out as a young man in my 20s. I also started going to the gym with my dad before college so saw him around other men, too, and got an idea of how rare anything over 6" hard is, especially when you're almost that length soft like he was. More places and situations, but those are some gists re: dad.

He's proud of what hangs between my legs and we just never were really ashamed of letting them swing this way and that walking around or setting up a campsite or walking in a secluded park, etc. I know it's not the "usual" way people see their family members but it was just the way it was.

I learned (from mom of all people!) that dad's ejaculate volume was huge, and I have a high volume as well, so even that is genetic. Fascinating.

 

[KeptFromManhood]

I feel your pain. I’m even smaller than you, 2 inches hard as a rock and my dad swings over 7 inches soft and nearly 10 inches hard.

Dude, it totally sucks, right? we were that close to a having one of our own.

 

[deleted15017651]

I saw my dads dick because he tends to walk from the shower to his room with no towel.
He was way bigger than me, granted it was only his soft but even soft it honestly might be as big if not bigger than my hard.
Made me jealous that I didn't inherit it, he doesn't know how small mine is in comparison, at least I think and hope he doesn't.

 

[deleted24145831]

I saw my dads dick because he tends to walk from the shower to his room with no towel.
He was way bigger than me, granted it was only his soft but even soft it honestly might be as big if not bigger than my hard.
Made me jealous that I didn't inherit it, he doesn't know how small mine is in comparison, at least I think and hope he doesn't.

Man, he'd never love you any differently! Dads don't love someone based on package - not to worry there, mate. I'm guessing this was a bit of time ago? Still have any opportunities to share with him?