Bigs dicks are sometimes a curse

[bigboy9239]

It's exactly that and it's not the best feeling to have at all. It kinda compounds on everything. I feel pressured into sex because people think oh i heard you have a big dick let's do this, and then when I finally give in, I get rejected sometimes, so them I'm left unsatisfied and also I feel like I left the other person unsatisfied as well.

I think it's more of the fact that your dick has a curve in it...and that is sort of unusual looking. It may scare people for the reasons I stated before. No matter how big you are, there is someone out there that can take you. I have a friend who is 10 1/2 inches and sometimes it's almost 12..and he has a wife that seems to never have a problem with his size. So I don't think the size alone.

 

[physicaly]

Hi! My dick is not big but I think I understand the problem: as a versatile guy sometimes some dicks are too big to feel pleasure and not only pain. I understand that some people fantasized huge cocks but sometime they are too big.
Also I once met a couple of guys who considerared their dick too much, they felt watched as " just the one with the big cock", and used only for some more "extreme" sex. Also one of them felt emberassed cause he was worried that people think he is always horny. I don't know how to help you, but I understand you and I'm sure you can find someone who can enjoy you completely

 

[SmallDguy]

Agreed.

I would gladly switch with you.

It cant be worse than having 6" with mediocre girth. At least from a hetro standpoint. Vaginas can take a lot more than an anus.

 

[SmallDguy]

I think it's more of the fact that your dick has a curve in it...and that is sort of unusual looking. It may scare people for the reasons I stated before. No matter how big you are, there is someone out there that can take you. I have a friend who is 10 1/2 inches and sometimes it's almost 12..and he has a wife that seems to never have a problem with his size. So I don't think the size alone.

Your friend can earn an easy $10,000. There is a challenge here that will give him the money if he can prove it. Don't even need to show his face.

 

[skaterboiz]

If I wanted to brag, I'd come here and post it and be over with and no, not everyone knows that. People see it and go hell no, they say the curve is weird, they would rather be with one more aesthetically pleasing etc. And on the flip side, there are others who love that and just see that as my one defining character trait. And you come here talking about humble bragging and penile transplants in Asia as if those are cheap are easily accessible. I just wanted to share how I feel so a royal fuck you dude

There are thing you can take to change the curve to more straight. Talk to your doctor. Also, every guy wants to go all the way in. you are going to need your partner be in a position that it does not go as deep. I you make a plus sign in terms of your bodies their legs over yours you can control depth much better. You also need some sort of "stopper, I am not huge but I have been with virgins who think 8 inches is a mile. Once in frustration, I ties a sock around my dick at the base and it could go as far as the sock let me go, but I felt like I was going all the way in, you seriously need something like that so you dont have to stop your hips from going forward, that actually seems to cause pain in my back. Try several socks (seriously) and see if that helps. I have no idea how you would make some sort of sleeve, but you would not be helping your partner.

 

[bigboy9239]

Believe me when I tell you , having a huge dick isn't all its cracked up to be. My wife had an old boy friend who, when soft, hung a couple of inches below his boxers, she said was at LEAST 10 inches, and very thick, but it never got really hard, just hard enough to put it in her, and she had to fuck him on the steps to controls how deep he went. It just wasn't comfortable any other way. So...be careful what you wish for.

 

[deleted13888921]

I once had a girlfriend who really put this into perspective: "You guys think your big cocks are gonna hurt us? Try having a baby coming out!"
Makes a guy really humble doesn't it?

 

[Rican84]

Why no pics?

 

[jiggysmalls]

If I could I honestly would. It's led to many semi awkward conversations and comparisons over the years, and I'm from a small island so amongst school.or different groups like the queer community, word travels alot and it kinda fucks with your mental. I struggle with my cock image a lot

Man I WISH I was you. I would sell my dick for $2k for head.

 

[jiggysmalls]

Believe me when I tell you , having a huge dick isn't all its cracked up to be. My wife had an old boy friend who, when soft, hung a couple of inches below his boxers, she said was at LEAST 10 inches, and very thick, but it never got really hard, just hard enough to put it in her, and she had to fuck him on the steps to controls how deep he went. It just wasn't comfortable any other way. So...be careful what you wish for.

I personally could not marry a woman who told me this story. My dick is too small to ever forget that story.

 

[bigboy9239]

I personally could not marry a woman who told me this story. My dick is too small to ever forget that story.

Well...I've been married to her for 44 years...and she didn't come right out and tell me this...we were talking one night about sexual things after watching some 3-some porn with John Holmes and a hung black guy, She told me she had always wanted to have a 3 some with a really hung guy in her pussy....and I asked her what was the biggest she ever had. Believe me, I'm not huge...but I can hold my own...and lets face it, giving her what she wants for 44 years....ain't bad.

 

[3790721]

He is just humble bragging. Everyone knows there are no real downfalls or disadvantages to being big. It is just a way to brag to the world about it without saying it straight out.

What a stupid thing to say. I can't fuck my bf anymore because he can't take my dick. That's no downfall for sure.

 

[TallNHguy]

The issue outlined in this thread is real - not for me personally, but was/is for an old college friend and a local buddy here in rural NH. My college friend isn't overly long, but he is EXTREMELY thick - we're talking thicker than a soda can. Oral satisfaction is impossible for him. No one I know could ever get more than just the head of his cock in their mouths without gouging his cock with their teeth - a feeling he simply hates! My local buddy is just massive - long and thick plus he gets as hard as a steel rod. When his cock slams into your 2nd sphincter it hurts like hell. I'm sure there are some that could take either of these guys, but it's not common. Additionally, the issue of "I heard you have a big cock" (thus I want to have sex with you) is VERY real. My local bud says it's the same as having lots of money - he questions everyone's motives as to why they are even talking to him. Sadly, he trusts no one - at least not at first.

 

[VIIby5]

Other than in the most extreme cases it is far from a curse at least from a hetero viewpoint and likely most gay ones too. When I was younger all the women heard I have big one and wanted to have sex with me. What a nightmare what was I to do. In my dreams!!

OP, would you rather be ignored or worse rejected for not being big enough like has happened to me?

 

[satyr]

Hey guys, I'm Jace, and I'm from a small island in rhe Caribbean and I have a huge curved cock. That's how I feel like everyone I've ever had sex with describes me and as such everyone who hears that wants to have sex with me because of it. Until we start having sex and they just can't handle it. I thought it was just because I was bad at sex but im not. Turns out that having these assets that are great on their own are a challenge to possess together. Monster cock, good. Curved Cock, great. A monster curve, good in theory but hardly no one can handle it.


Am I alone in thinking this?

I feel ya mate. Big dicks might be golden tickets to get some pussy/ass but especially with ass they're proven impractical.
I had experienced bottoms in the past who couldn't handle it, but again there were some experimenting tops who struggled but took it like champs.

 

[Wine0]

Hey guys, I'm Jace, and I'm from a small island in rhe Caribbean and I have a huge curved cock. That's how I feel like everyone I've ever had sex with describes me and as such everyone who hears that wants to have sex with me because of it. Until we start having sex and they just can't handle it. I thought it was just because I was bad at sex but im not. Turns out that having these assets that are great on their own are a challenge to possess together. Monster cock, good. Curved Cock, great. A monster curve, good in theory but hardly no one can handle it.


Am I alone in thinking this?

Hey, I’m a girthy guy, so I know what rejection feels like!

Just wondering…. you didn’t say which way your curve was. Have you have tried to fuck with the curve going up towards the prostate? You might have to do it from the side.