Blowjob Tips

[midwestdeepthroat]

I am surprised no one has mentioned this yet, but if you want to give a truly great blowjob, especially when it comes to deepthroating, learn to control your gag reflex. Nearly everyone has one, and I personally think it is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed of/by.

Depending on the size of the penis being sucked and depth you are swallowing, the gag reflex will come into effect at some point. Especially if you are sucking someone who happens to be well endowed. I find it helps to relax your throat and remember to breath when one is attempting to deepthroat a penis. Taking deep, slow breathes through your noise while you are swallowing is key. And if you are a novice cock sucker, swallowing the penis slowly also helps diminish the gag reflex. It usually takes a ton of practice/experience to get to the point where you can be skull fucked and have your throat pounded relentlessly.

Speaking of, one of the best ways to learn to control your gag reflex is simply through practice. As silly as it may sound, the more cock you suck, the better you will be at it. And if you are not able to suck a real penis, I find it helps to practice on a fake one. Use as life like a dildo as you can find and slowly work your way down it. I find that can really help you get used to the feeling and sensation of having something in your throat you are not fully swallowing and helps get you past the choking sensation. As they always say, practice makes perfect, whether it be the real thing or an imitation.

And when it comes to the gag reflex, I have often found many guys are turned on by it. Or they like seeing someone choke and struggle taking their cock. I think they enjoy the confidence boost of knowing their cock is so "big" someone has a hard time handling it.

 

[dcrawford84]

Are you up for a new house or are you only getting coal.

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I'm definitely down to try for a new house/car at a minimum I'll be getting $100

 

[Thomas82]

Have had some BJs with a cooling effect when she had a menthol lozenger in her mouth

 

[evolution]

Anyone got any really good earth-shattering blowjob tips or techniques to get a guy off. So much so they come back for more?

Video tutorials would be interesting to see.

Read their body language.

you're reading conflicting advice here like include the balls, & avoid the balls.
You need to figure out what works for the person you're with & they don't always know what they like best (like the guy who said he doesn't like blowjobs) .
If their hands are not involved it suggests they may be bored. If they're pushing your head, your teeth are probably scraping. If the hands are on the back of your head, they like it & want to be deeper in you. If they're holding your head & 'pumping it' on their cock - great job, faster please.

Listen to the moan, the gasp in their breathing, them forgetting to breathe, a sudden tensing (teeth error), them melting into the bed.

Many said eye contact, but if you're doing well - sometimes the recipient's eyes are closed as they focus on the inputs from their cock.

One thing I hate. It works, but I only put up with it, to the suckers enjoyment of the moment. I hate when someone puts the head in their mouth & use their hand to j/o the shaft. That's not a blow job, that's jerk-off with tidy ending. Everyone is different, but IMO, the only place hands have in a blow job is working the balls. In a b/j, the cock is a hands-free zone.

Each guy is a little different, read the guy & do what his body tells you it likes. The body knows better.

 

[Cokksukker_David]

Are you up for a new house or are you only getting coal.

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A house for sure. Easily

 

[halcyondays]

One tip I learned when it was done to me is to cup the guy's balls gently--no squeezing, just let them rest--between thumb and last two fingers in the palm of my hand while my straight index and middle fingers press gently against his perineum, aka taint, the erectile issue between the base of the scrotum and anus. His prostate gland is interior to the perineum and is stimulated by my two fingers resting against it or even moving slightly.

I blew a massive load in the mouth of the first guy who did this to me. His other hand was around my shaft but not stroking. I'm more than a couple handfuls so his mouth held not much more than my head, his lips sucking and stroking it.

Except for those who don't like/want their balls touched this has worked well for me especially with guys who are too long to fit entirely in my mouth.

If a guy's cock fits in my mouth I'll take all of it. I like to caress thighs and belly or hold hips or backs of thighs while a guy pumps my mouth. As others have said here it all depends on the guy being sucked and what he likes.

Lots of good tips in this thread. Communication is key.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

Another good tip to consider when sucking a man that is uncut. Before you start pulling the skin back it's good to ask if it goes back. Some guys foreskin doesn't retract all the way and it can be painful if you try to pull it back more than it will go.

 

[ARNX]

I am surprised no one has mentioned this yet, but if you want to give a truly great blowjob, especially when it comes to deepthroating, learn to control your gag reflex. Nearly everyone has one, and I personally think it is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed of/by.

Depending on the size of the penis being sucked and depth you are swallowing, the gag reflex will come into effect at some point. Especially if you are sucking someone who happens to be well endowed. I find it helps to relax your throat and remember to breath when one is attempting to deepthroat a penis. Taking deep, slow breathes through your noise while you are swallowing is key. And if you are a novice cock sucker, swallowing the penis slowly also helps diminish the gag reflex. It usually takes a ton of practice/experience to get to the point where you can be skull fucked and have your throat pounded relentlessly.

Speaking of, one of the best ways to learn to control your gag reflex is simply through practice. As silly as it may sound, the more cock you suck, the better you will be at it. And if you are not able to suck a real penis, I find it helps to practice on a fake one. Use as life like a dildo as you can find and slowly work your way down it. I find that can really help you get used to the feeling and sensation of having something in your throat you are not fully swallowing and helps get you past the choking sensation. As they always say, practice makes perfect, whether it be the real thing or an imitation.

And when it comes to the gag reflex, I have often found many guys are turned on by it. Or they like seeing someone choke and struggle taking their cock. I think they enjoy the confidence boost of knowing their cock is so "big" someone has a hard time handling it.

Love this advice! I need a regular to train me how to throat properly until I’m perfect

 

[ARNX]

One tip I learned when it was done to me is to cup the guy's balls gently--no squeezing, just let them rest--between thumb and last two fingers in the palm of my hand while my straight index and middle fingers press gently against his perineum, aka taint, the erectile issue between the base of the scrotum and anus. His prostate gland is interior to the perineum and is stimulated by my two fingers resting against it or even moving slightly.

I blew a massive load in the mouth of the first guy who did this to me. His other hand was around my shaft but not stroking. I'm more than a couple handfuls so his mouth held not much more than my head, his lips sucking and stroking it.

Except for those who don't like/want their balls touched this has worked well for me especially with guys who are too long to fit entirely in my mouth.

If a guy's cock fits in my mouth I'll take all of it. I like to caress thighs and belly or hold hips or backs of thighs while a guy pumps my mouth. As others have said here it all depends on the guy being sucked and what he likes.

Lots of good tips in this thread. Communication is key.

I always work on the balls either with my hands or my mouth. Never had complaints I probably love worshipping balls more than cock and that’s saying a lot

 

[yaleshere]

I always work on the balls either with my hands or my mouth. Never had complaints I probably love worshipping balls more than cock and that’s saying a lot

I have super sensitive balls and do not want them to be touched during blowjob - I kinda jump if they are fondled with.. (must be ptsd from watching a ball crushing video once in my teens) so I usually let the person know who is blowing me about it before we act!
I would say - just ask what they like/dislike.. before doing the deed.

 

[ARNX]

I have super sensitive balls and do not want them to be touched during blowjob - I kinda jump if they are fondled with.. (must be ptsd from watching a ball crushing video once in my teens) so I usually let the person know who is blowing me about it before we act!
I would say - just ask what they like/dislike.. before doing the deed.

Yeah definitely respect them and their decisions. Luckily I’ve not come across anyone like that yet. The last person I blew absolutely loves his balls sucked hard so I was in heaven lol

 

[steveh9]

I like to play with their asshole when sucking their dick - always helps them shoot off

 

[agissoviwfet]

Yeah definitely respect them and their decisions. Luckily I’ve not come across anyone like that yet. The last person I blew absolutely loves his balls sucked hard so I was in heaven lol

I’m the same haha. I absolutely love sucking balls, provided the other person is into it as well!

 

[steveh9]

And i love to have my head held on their dicks with them really fucking my mouth

 

[Heavyballs34]

Are you up for a new house or are you only getting coal.

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Never mind those, he'll be giving me a fucking palace and pvt island with my skillz...

 

[opinionman]

Never mind those, he'll be giving me a fucking palace and pvt island with my skillz...

I love this!

 

[damnimbi]

Don't think this was mentioned, but good suction. Regardless of how enthusiastic you are, if you're barely sucking and being too passive/soft, it's going to go soft. The worst I've received were from women (and men) that were enthusiastic, enjoyed it, but I could barely feel anything.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

Don't think this was mentioned, but good suction. Regardless of how enthusiastic you are, if you're barely sucking and being too passive/soft, it's going to go soft. The worst I've received were from women (and men) that were enthusiastic, enjoyed it, but I could barely feel anything.

Probably one of the single most important factors that a lot of people fail to think about. I had a guy suck me and he was new to it but he wanted me to guide him in how to be good. I had to tell him to slowly apply more pressure with his lips until I told him the sweet spot for me.

 

[ds35mm]

Have an Altoid in your mouth, it works wonders!!!

 

[Infernal]

Have some passion for sucking cock.

1. Watch the teeth.
2. Don't treat it like a piece of glass. His dick isn't going to break in your mouth. Grab his cock and shove it into your mouth. If you're too rough, he will let you know.
3. Don't forget the balls. They like to be licked and gently sucked too
4. Don't forget the rest of his body. Let your hands roam. Rub a nipple, or give it a light pinch. Run your hands up his back or down his legs. Reach your hands around and grab his ass cheeks. Rub them, squeeze them, or use them to pull him towards you. You might get lucky and be able to finger him if you approach his hole slowly.
5. If you're skilled enough, shove it down your throat every few strokes.
6. Vary the rhythm. The same up and down can get boring. Stroke with your hand while you lick the head. Run your tongue up and down the shaft while you look up at him.
7. If that's your thing, enjoy the reward that he gives you and swallow it all. If not, then take pleasure in watching his huge load shoot all over the place.

If you don't put the effort into it with some enthusiasm then it's just a chore to get him off.