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No honey, he made it very clear at the beginning of this conversation that he's always been attracted to women and that it could shock us with this revelation. He's not bi curious, he said in very clear words that he is genuinely attracted to women, he's aware of what he likes, he just doesn't feel so deeply romantically attracted to women. He is a bi-homoaffective guy (a guy who is sexually attracted to both men and women, but only romantically attracted to men). That doesn't make him a gay man. He just uses the term gay as something vague, like saying he's vegan and still eating meat haha
at the end of the vid he literally said "I wouldn't consider myself bi", he still sees himself as a gay man, but just not 100% and he is open-minded about it.
 
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I know he said he doesn't really enjoy bottoming but these thirst traps could summon the top in anyone
 
I didn't know that haha and all this time I thought he was super gay because from what he said in his videos you could swear he was absolutely gay. Sometimes I feel like the existence of really gay men is a rarity or has entered the process of extinction, guys who are really gay are probably the new blue whale hahaha

I clocked that he probably wasn’t legit homo in every way when I started watching his vids a couple years ago. Also, he said that he’s had some “feelings” or “affections” towards women before. He didn’t use the word “attractions”. But honestly, at least 50% of gay-presenting people aren’t truly and thoroughly homo throughout their lives. This idea of people “lying” about being “gay” is mostly silly. So much of the world still brands every guy who’s into people that’s not cis women as “gay”. While as male queerdom becomes more generally accepted we see more guys who are not 100% inherently homosexual in every way being out. That’s a reflection of progress. But queers dealing with fluidity or questioning or switching up identities have always been a thing. While “gay” has always been more of an identity you either embrace or don’t. Only in recent years have people obsessed with “gay” having to mean being entirely homo in every way.

Identity politics, sociology, fluidity, preferences, lifestyle, ego, sex drive/extent of libido, the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum- all these things are incredibly wide and individual and impact how people present themselves. Yet, we stay caught up in who’s “gay” or not. It’s all tired and dated. More people are just accepting and understanding how vast sexuality and the spectrum and journeys are. Believe me, there’s way less 100% “straight” and heterosexual men in the world than you think.
 
I clocked that he probably wasn’t legit homo in every way when I started watching his vids a couple years ago. Also, he said that he’s had some “feelings” or “affections” towards women before. He didn’t use the word “attractions”. But honestly, at least 50% of gay-presenting people aren’t truly and thoroughly homo throughout their lives. This idea of people “lying” about being “gay” is mostly silly. So much of the world still brands every guy who’s into people that’s not cis women as “gay”. While as male queerdom becomes more generally accepted we see more guys who are not 100% inherently homosexual in every way being out. That’s a reflection of progress. But queers dealing with fluidity or questioning or switching up identities have always been a thing. While “gay” has always been more of an identity you either embrace or don’t. Only in recent years have people obsessed with “gay” having to mean being entirely homo in every way.

Identity politics, sociology, fluidity, preferences, lifestyle, ego, sex drive/extent of libido, the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum- all these things are incredibly wide and individual and impact how people present themselves. Yet, we stay caught up in who’s “gay” or not. It’s all tired and dated. More people are just accepting and understanding how vast sexuality and the spectrum and journeys are. Believe me, there’s way less 100% “straight” and heterosexual men in the world than you think.

None of this is to say that there aren’t many dudes who purposely lie about their sexual dimensions, their preferences, their fluidity, their love life, their lifestyle, where they are in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. More than women, male’s sexuality and sexual behaviors are greatly connected to ego and sociology. I’m just saying that identities, sexuality, the spectrum, psyches and ego are way more complicated and individual than a lot of people get. And they always have been.
 
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