mark carter
Superior Member
- Joined
- Feb 7, 2016
- Posts
- 4,391
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 7,518
- Points
- 158
- Location
- London (Greater London, England)
- Sexuality
- 90% Gay, 10% Straight
- Gender
- Male
So I subscribed and then I DMed him saying I would so suck his cock while he was working out. Then he sent me a voice message threatening that he would KILL me if I ever did that.
I admit I was in the wrong for saying that. I honestly thought he was bi/bi-curious. But I didn't appreciate being threatened like that. Not a very appropriate way to treat a paying customer. Also I don't understand why straight guys think it's acceptable to take money from the gay community and then get bat shit crazy when guys try to come on to them.
I admit I was in the wrong for saying that. I honestly thought he was bi/bi-curious. But I didn't appreciate being threatened like that. Not a very appropriate way to treat a paying customer. Also I don't understand why straight guys think it's acceptable to take money from the gay community and then get bat shit crazy when guys try to come on to them.
mark carter
Superior Member
- Joined
- Feb 7, 2016
- Posts
- 4,391
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 7,518
- Points
- 158
- Location
- London (Greater London, England)
- Sexuality
- 90% Gay, 10% Straight
- Gender
- Male
He used to be on Grindr where he 'rented' himself to men for a lot of money. Then he got banned. He has done videos with other guys but very lame stuff. He says he is straight and got a bit aggressive when I messaged him but threatening to kill someone is disgusting and unacceptable.
He seemed like a really angry person and quite honestly, to receive a threatening voice message like that was very unsettling for me. Needless to say I hit the unsubscribe button on OnlyFans and unfollowed him on Instagram.
mark carter
Superior Member
- Joined
- Feb 7, 2016
- Posts
- 4,391
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 7,518
- Points
- 158
- Location
- London (Greater London, England)
- Sexuality
- 90% Gay, 10% Straight
- Gender
- Male
He does have a lot anger issues. You did the right thing. We don't need threatening behaviour
I mean honestly I am not defending his violence towards you, but I can understand why he may be pissed. Like he said he's getting tons of messages everyday. I would be overwhelmed too. I spoke to him a couple of times in the past (like 3 years ago) and honestly he was super nice. Maybe hes going through some shit right now. Oh and btw, why cant you have cake and eat it too? Whats the point of having cake if youre not gonna eat it?
His entire income is based on thirst traps, gay baiting, and escorting. He doesn't get to complain about receiving horny messages lol I could understand if it was outside of his "work" environment but when people are literally subscribing to your OF the interacting through messages is basically part of the package.
I think a more relevant point though is would he have reacted in that way to a female customer? Probably not.
Exactly! You said it much more eloquently than I but that's precisely the point I was trying to make but couldn't express it as well. Why is he gaybaiting people with thirst traps on Twitter/Instagram, and then getting offended when gay men take the "bait".
Sex workers shouldn’t expect sexual harassment due to their line of work either. Just because someone does what they want with their body, it doesn’t give you the right to message someone on instagram about sucking their dick lol. Not justifying his message but like, you’re not the wholly innocent party either.
I never said I was innocent. I literally said in my comment above that I regret saying what I said and I take responsibility for it. Learn how to read before quick finger pointing.
Sending horny messages on a work platform used to gay bait isn't harresment.
These only fans people openly invite and encourage interaction with their followers because it drives sales.
The messages were sent on Instagram for one, you can see from the screenshots so it’s not on a platform used for sex work.
Also, just because someone gets their dick out on the internet, it doesn’t mean you can send them explicit messages. Bit rapey that some are of the mindset because they are consumers they are then entitled to do and say what they want.
You realize he advertises his OnlyFans A LOT on his instagram and also posts a bunch of thirst traps in his IG stories, which again he uses to advertise his OF page.
And as I mentioned now already twice, I owned up to my mistake, took responsibility for it and apologized. What more do you want from me? To crucify me? Why don't you admonish him for resorting to violence...geesh.
IG is literally used to promote his OF.
To repeat, sending horny messages to people gay baiting, I.e. taking the bait, isn't harassment. You don't get to provoke a situation and then complain about it.
The fact that you think it is trivialises actual harassment.
Well said, he has 2 insta accounts, the one messaged was his PT WORK insta, nothing to do with any sex work, and neither does this account advertise it either - show some respect...
