brotha_lover_friend: I have read up and check around on jelqing. I just started myself a few weeks ago and it seems at the very least it is giving me harder a firmer erections. Still looking for more gains. Anyhow, to answer your question and finish my statement its seems the consensus from what i have heard form other "jelqers" and websites, and it seems that they all agree that you shouldnt come a few hours prior to jelqing or a few hours after jelqing.