Have I ruined my dick?

[dutchman-90]

So for the past two/three years, I’ve been having issues with my penis: It hurts after I cum. It doesn’t matter whether it’s after sex or jerking off. Before i had this issue, i could jerk off several times a day and pain would usually set in after the 5th time. But even then it was a dull pain. These days even erections are painful sometimes (without coming). And I can only cum twice or three times in a day before the pain becomes unbearable. It doesn’t matter if I give my johnson some rest.
I’ve tried withholding sex/jerking for a month in the past to see whether the issue would resolve yet still felt pain after I jerked off. And it’s not like I grip too hard.

And as if that isn’t bad, it seems like I’ve been losing sensitivity as well. As you can imagine all this has an impact on my sex life.

Any idea what might be going on? I’ve thought of going to my doctor to get it checked but that’s a very daring step to take as one might understand lol.
Thanks in advance!

 

[Braunlow]

So for the past two/three years, I’ve been having issues with my penis: It hurts after I cum. It doesn’t matter whether it’s after sex or jerking off. Before i had this issue, i could jerk off several times a day and pain would usually set in after the 5th time. But even then it was a dull pain. These days even erections are painful sometimes (without coming). And I can only cum twice or three times in a day before the pain becomes unbearable. It doesn’t matter if I give my johnson some rest.
I’ve tried withholding sex/jerking for a month in the past to see whether the issue would resolve yet still felt pain after I jerked off. And it’s not like I grip too hard.

And as if that isn’t bad, it seems like I’ve been losing sensitivity as well. As you can imagine all this has an impact on my sex life.

Any idea what might be going on? I’ve thought of going to my doctor to get it checked but that’s a very daring step to take as one might understand lol.
Thanks in advance!

Painful ejaculation, also known as dysorgasmia or orgasmalgia, can range from mild discomfort to severe pain during or after ejaculation. The pain can involve the penis, scrotum, and perineal or perianal area.

Painful Ejaculation: Causes, Treatment, and More

If you experience mild or severe pain after ejaculation, know that you’re not alone. Painful ejaculation is relatively common and not necessarily a symptom of serious underlying health problems. With professional help, you can diagnose the issue and get proper treatment.

Is It Normal to Feel Pain After Ejaculation? Should You Be Worried?




See a urologist.

 

[jpdickhead]

When I was in my 20's I had Prostatitis & it was very painful when I got an erection let alone when I cum, felt like the underside of my dick was tearing.

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[silencium]

So for the past two/three years, I’ve been having issues with my penis: It hurts after I cum. It doesn’t matter whether it’s after sex or jerking off. Before i had this issue, i could jerk off several times a day and pain would usually set in after the 5th time. But even then it was a dull pain. These days even erections are painful sometimes (without coming). And I can only cum twice or three times in a day before the pain becomes unbearable. It doesn’t matter if I give my johnson some rest.
I’ve tried withholding sex/jerking for a month in the past to see whether the issue would resolve yet still felt pain after I jerked off. And it’s not like I grip too hard.

And as if that isn’t bad, it seems like I’ve been losing sensitivity as well. As you can imagine all this has an impact on my sex life.

Any idea what might be going on? I’ve thought of going to my doctor to get it checked but that’s a very daring step to take as one might understand lol.
Thanks in advance!

You already know the answer: See an urologist. They have seen many dicks and yours will be just one amongst them. Avoid seeing a doctor will just make the problem worse.

 

[BrianHollister]

So for the past two/three years, I’ve been having issues with my penis: It hurts after I cum. It doesn’t matter whether it’s after sex or jerking off. Before i had this issue, i could jerk off several times a day and pain would usually set in after the 5th time. But even then it was a dull pain. These days even erections are painful sometimes (without coming). And I can only cum twice or three times in a day before the pain becomes unbearable. It doesn’t matter if I give my johnson some rest.
I’ve tried withholding sex/jerking for a month in the past to see whether the issue would resolve yet still felt pain after I jerked off. And it’s not like I grip too hard.

And as if that isn’t bad, it seems like I’ve been losing sensitivity as well. As you can imagine all this has an impact on my sex life.

Any idea what might be going on? I’ve thought of going to my doctor to get it checked but that’s a very daring step to take as one might understand lol.
Thanks in advance!

soft johnson vit d oil very very light and use gently also chg your unders tighter if you wore looser or looser if you wore tighter.... try to get all excited and Chum without touching I've gotten good after several months I've gotten better wish you well mate

 

[techpump]

maybe some light prostate massage could help? you might have crystallized semen or semen that never really gets fully emptied out of your prostate and your urethra might have some issues at the base of your penis/prostate.

How is your urine stream? Strong flow or weak? Does it hurt a little when you pee? Does it burn inside sometimes after you cum?

It could be that cumming so many times a day for so long has upset your prostate and you aren't fully draining when you ejaculate. I'd see a urologist about this. My guess is super easy, light prostate massage could bring you relief. But that's just my take on it.

 

[freeballerlondon]

maybe some light prostate massage could help? you might have crystallized semen or semen that never really gets fully emptied out of your prostate and your urethra might have some issues at the base of your penis/prostate.

How is your urine stream? Strong flow or weak? Does it hurt a little when you pee? Does it burn inside sometimes after you cum?

It could be that cumming so many times a day for so long has upset your prostate and you aren't fully draining when you ejaculate. I'd see a urologist about this. My guess is super easy, light prostate massage could bring you relief. But that's just my take on it.

Professional here: more likely, the exact opposite. Many, many men experience issues when they cum too little, and it’s severely underrecognised/-diagnosed. With all this semen retention, ‘saving life force’ and ‘no nut’ nonsense we see a staggering amount of young blokes with all kinds of vague (and less vague) complaints due to them not releasing (i.e. cumming) as often as their bodies demand.

And also - underwear. Tight/loose: we are not evolved to wear underwear all day. To have our balls overheated all day.

I don’t have time to go over the previous messages, I was just triggered by the last bit, but I’ll re-address this topic later.

By the way, I see that @dutchman-90 hasn’t responded after his initial message?