I do think there's a difference between just jacking off with a buddy and getting more sexual by sucking, and yeah a lot of guys fantasize about straight bud jerk turning into a blow job of whatever. I like to keep the two activities separate, tho' I couldn't tell you why. I've been to jack off clubs many times, and I like that dynamic a lot.
Can straight men be jerkbuds?
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Another upvote here.
I totally agree with everyone saying putting a label on a relationship with a friend makes no sense. I have no jerk buddies, and havent had since my teens when like a lot of men me and my close friends were curious, hella horny and couldnt access porn easily, meaning we had to share it!
Havin said that, I love the idea of having a good friend I can chill with, watch a film or a football game, relax, be comfortable clothes free (I do enjoy nudism btw) and could share sex stories/fantiasies/thoughts and enjoy getting off together. I'm not attracted to men, but I like the idea of opening up with a good buddy and that's a side of intimacy I'd find fun to share in the right circumstances I think.
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I believe so. I think it comes down to preference. Same as asking a friend out to lunch -- it won't work unless both of you can agree on the cuisine and what not.
I couldn't disagree with you more. I have had many many jack off sessions one on one and in groups (the New York Jacks, college gym saunas) and one of the primary attributes is a real and genuine sense of camaraderie: It's as if you feel "Finally! Here's a guy who understands what it's like to jack off." There is no self-centeredness at all
can't relate to the idea that jerking with another dude is about "broness" or bonding or whatever. couldn't care less about validating heteronormativity. that said, I love jerking with other hung guys. it definitely feeds into the narcissism of my own cock, but stroking with another hung guy is pretty much my only interest in men. I'm rarely even attracted to most conventionally attracted dudes, my sole focus is in knowing if they're as big or bigger than me. mutual stroking is fun, the occasional oral session has been hot as well, but I fucking hate kissing. Literally have never enjoyed making out with another man or other intimate kind of moments. dunno if this counts as bisexuality or just cock-sexuality, if you will. in general it's extremely difficult to find another guy who fits my criteria, as they usually want to take it an extra step. i've topped twice ever and couldn't stay hard, simply not into fucking men. sexuality is so strange.
I actually get all this. For some reason, sucking cock can be ok but kissing might not be. I guess that latter is more about the actual emotional connection.
I can also understand jacking off together just to do that with another guy: Camaraderie or Homosocial are two terms for that. I too have tried to fuck guys twice, and both times it was a turn off. As you say, sexuality is strange, even inexplicable.
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If a straight man couldn't have a jo bud, then there is very few straight men. Back in my day, it's said around 50% of guys had at least jerked off with another guy. I'm sure with the internet availability of porn, todays numbers are much higher. 85 to 90% of men identify as straight. Not hard to figure out.
I totally understand what you are saying...I have a few j/o buds but I make it clear I'm not looking for oral or anal..just buds jerking....I'm okay with mutual stroking but that's about it. But I am curious about one thing. In you pics and videos you have guys sucking you. If you're not into that, why do you have pics of that occurring and saying they are good cock suckers?
As a straight dude that jerks off with other straight guys I'm 1000% sure that straight guys can be jerkbuds.
I do have vids of gay guys getting me off. But I like the connection with another straight guy who just wants to stroke. I've shared girls and had my dick sucked with other guys. But It'd be cool to find another guy who just wants to stroke and not find it gay to just stroke to porn together
I think so, would just come down to preference. Every guy does it at some point, so why not just do it with someone else if you have the chance
Yes man! This is my exact feeling too!
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There been so much fuckin bullshit said here by guys apparently either cryptogay or some other way not secure with their sexuality lmao... Let's get it fuckin' straight once and for all - it ain't gay to j/o with your bros when you're all str8, for fuck sake! It's actually super straight cuz you're all comfortable with urselves and don't consider doin' anything gay together... It's more gay (if you really wanna think of it like that) to be afraid of chillin' with ur bros naked together.
Glad to see most straight dudes over here seem reasonable enough to say it's fine and also hella fun. Chillin together watching porn or a game, boozin and whatever else lol, while being all naked and stroking, that's bro bonding at it's finest. No chicks, just bros, feeling comfortable and cheeky, showing off their strokin techniques, shooting shit about girls and sex in general, commenting on the porn, comparing their turn ons/offs... Chill as fuck. And yes, u can look at all the cocks and muscle for however long u like, same as all men do in gym or pool locker rooms and communal showers... It's just what men do!
Glad to see most straight dudes over here seem reasonable enough to say it's fine and also hella fun. Chillin together watching porn or a game, boozin and whatever else lol, while being all naked and stroking, that's bro bonding at it's finest. No chicks, just bros, feeling comfortable and cheeky, showing off their strokin techniques, shooting shit about girls and sex in general, commenting on the porn, comparing their turn ons/offs... Chill as fuck. And yes, u can look at all the cocks and muscle for however long u like, same as all men do in gym or pool locker rooms and communal showers... It's just what men do!
Well said
Were you being Ironic? : )
Some buds who always have had sex with women and consider themselves straight , sure will be wondering whether their 'horniness' in this situation comes from the women in the porn movie or also from the things they can 'see' around (cocks, erections, language,...)
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Is it wrong to answer the question truthfully? Would it be preferable if everyone thought and answered the same way? Is the forum intended to be more than comforting reassurance for people?
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This is ask straight and only then and the op can answer.
Why gay, bi and no response profiles are compelled to answer here is a mystery, the truth is out there but not relevant for us.
On his effort the op developed great techniques for picking up gay men. Eventually he will get it.
Why gay, bi and no response profiles are compelled to answer here is a mystery, the truth is out there but not relevant for us.
On his effort the op developed great techniques for picking up gay men. Eventually he will get it.
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