Carl Nassib—first Out Active Nfl Player

Are you kidding? He's going to be a superstar. This gives the Raiders tons of positive publicity. I know -- it's hard for me to process too, since things have changed so fast -- but having the first out active player is a coup. Not downplaying fan homophobia -- it exists -- but at the same time, no one in a position of power gives a shit what that (diminishing) segment of the fan base thinks.
And, I'm not attributing any of this to the goodwill of anyone in a position of power (pretty sure a bunch of them are ginormous homophobes), but when it comes down to it they are cold hard businesspeople first and foremost. The segment of hateful fans is no match to the new outreach & business opportunities (read: cash) this will generate. Even a large part of the traditional/conservative fandom would simply don't care, or not care enough to stir up shit, so it's a sum win for them.

But, regardless of all these analyses there is the possibility it will all go wrong for him, which is what make his stand so courageous. We can't ever imagine what it's like for him to be the first, but because of him so many after him will find the path easier. That's why we cheer on him today.
 
Oh I have no doubt Carl Nassib will be playing this fall. This was easily the best "coming out" I have ever seen. The refreshingly straightforward and unambiguous statement of "I'm gay." The generous donation to, and spotlight upon the essential Trevor Project....the Instagram pics with his Mom, Grandmother and little nephew.... the broad statement of support from Roger Goodell, etc. Plus he has never been on Twitter.

And he is incredibly handsome....like a better-looking Gronkowski. Those shirtless pics. Perfect.
 
Are they like regular sized people next to him??? If so, he’s huge! And so damn sexy.
He's massive. And has a good head on his shoulders. I like that he wants to promote financial literacy w/ his teammates. People here are maybe going to whine that he's a republican because he's talking about being fiscally savvy. I don't know maybe he is. Who cares as long as he's not a Trumpy as$h*le. He seems smart kind and decent to me

 
Michael Sam said that he want the only one and people looked at him sideways and yet 7 years later...:emoji_eyes::emoji_eyes::emoji_eyes:

This is good for representation. Not all gay men are alike have have the same interests. We are everywhere and need equal representation.

Lastly, can I make a request? Can we not bash him for being able to pass for straight. The closet and the lies are a burden no matter who is dealing with it, or how effeminate the are or not.
 
Michael Sam said that he want the only one and people looked at him sideways and yet 7 years later...:emoji_eyes::emoji_eyes::emoji_eyes:

This is good for representation. Not all gay men are alike have have the same interests. We are everywhere and need equal representation.

Lastly, can I make a request? Can we not bash him for being able to pass for straight. The closet and the lies are a burden no matter who is dealing with it, or how effeminate the are or not.
The people who bash someone for suffering less are miserable SOBs. That he can so easily pass as straight, continue to play ball and not make waves is why this is worth celebrating. And as others have pointed out, his simple video posted to Instagram is hardly the way to capitalize on his newfound fame if he wants to (compared to, hem, Underwood). He is confidently walking his own path, with all that he is, and we're just here to cheer him on it.
 
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He’s definitely attractive and he seems like a good catch [pun]......I hope his team mates don’t treat him any different since he’s been looking at their dicks for years now without them knowing his sexuality
 
He’s definitely attractive and he seems like a good catch [pun]......I hope his team mates don’t react him any different since he’s been looking at their dicks for years now without them knowing his sexuality


And let’s face it, Carl Nassib is fukin seksi. :heart_eyes:
 
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This is huge for the sport. An active player coming out is brilliant. His donation was incredibly supportive and welcomed. Honestly, this is everything you should be doing as a wealthy man coming out. What you don't do is team up with Amazon to sell us TV's and headphones for Pride Month and only come out because of a book deal/Netflix deal, Colton....
 
Is he arab

I have known a number of people with the last name Nassib and they have all been Lebanese-Americans. Yes, Nassib is an Arabic name. As far as I know Carl and both of his parents were born in the US and so he probably had a grandparent or great-parent who came to the US from the Middle East.
 
I am going to be very curious to see how his teammates respond, how opposing players respond and how the fans respond.... and I will pay particular attention to see how long he's going to remain in the NFL. Will he be forced out in one way or another? It should make no difference but as we know it certainly can.
Hun, they probably knew way before this was ever public. Just bros being blowin bros in the locker room shower.
 
Can we not with the locker room fantasies? But yes, teammates frequently know way beforehand. Some of these players may be male homophobic or anti “gay”, but there have been tons of guys who’ve been “out” within the locker room/organization just not publicly. It’s beneficial to him (and other male “queers” in the NFL, NBA, MLB, NHL, etc) that he’s already established in the league but isn’t near retirement.