Chance Embry (prettyboy model)

That video is incredibly hot. First off, Embry is utterly beautiful with the type of lean, lithe runner or swimmer physique that is, for me at least, the ideal of physical and sexual perfection, and he has a beautiful, handsome face and beautiful hair too.

Second, I am fascinated and awestruck in general and in this video by him in particular of the beauty, love and intimacy that exists by a man allowing himself to be anally fucked. It is an incredible gift of vulnerability, desire, intimacy and even sacrifice that he allows his partner to penetrate and fuck his anus. No matter what, getting fucked is going to hurt, not always, not forever, and not the whole time, but at least until you become adept at taking a man’s entire erect penis in your rectum to its full depth.

I don’t want to be a prude, but I find it really — and rather cruelly — ironic that it is the guys who most want to be fucked and are best at who are routinely called pigs, sluts or whores, while the man or men who are fucking them are supposedly what then, courageously noble pillars of rectitude, “real men”?

When I have fucked I have almost always topped (I haven’t bottomed since I first came out), and I have been grateful to every man who has let me share that with him.

I do get it … “dirty” talk, role playing and sex roles are part of the dynamics and fun of human sexuality for many people, but that part is not for me. I may not have loved every guy I’ve slept with, but as the saying goes I loved him the entire time I was fucking them.