When I was in my 20's, I used to cum a lot and shoot quite far. It was kind of my thing and my sexual partners loved seeing it happen. This happened both if I was jacking off or getting fucked in the ass. In my late 30's now, I find myself putting out very thick cum that oozes out of my dick or at most shoots to my belly button area. It does not seem to be hydration related and I can't really say I have changed my diet much in these years. Are there others this has happened too? I wonder if my prostate is enlarged and so there is more resistance in the output of cum through its path. I very much still enjoy my orgasms but I'd love to see that cum thin out and travel the distance...
Change in cum fluidity and shooting distance
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Unfortunately I don't have any answers but also have the same experience. Just wanted to let you know you aren't alone.
As for distance maybe doing kegels will help. I don't know if it will help the thickness/consistency but it should help you shoot a bit harder and further than you do now.
It's the opposite for me. When I was younger I wasn't much of a shooter. I'm in my mid 20's now and my cum is thinner, not as white and I shoot far away. I don't know what has changed but I've been enjoying it so far.
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It changes over time as we age. When I was younger it was very white and I could shoot it really far. It wasn't uncommon for me to hit myself in the face with it. In my 30s I went through a period where it was really thick, sometimes gelatinous and it came out in thick clumps. Now it's thin, cloudy, and hitting my chest is a surprise.
I'm mid 30s and can relate, i led a very casual sex life through my 20s and every woman i slept with commented on my abilities to cum like they'd never seen before, i still produce a good amount but it more so oozes out no compared to the distance i could shoot in my 20s
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I'm only speaking of masturbation and the rare hand job to completion, as 99% of my orgasms have been deep inside the woman I was with at the time.
My cum viscosity and shooting distance varied a lot even when I was younger, depending on how long it took for me to reach orgasm, and how long it had been since my previous orgasm. The longer I am aroused and the longer it takes to cum, the greater the volume and distance in most cases. I've had cum barely dribble out of my slit, and one time shoot 2+ feet straight up into the air, when a girlfriend gave me an extended blowjob/handjob while I was lying on my back. That one surprised us both!
I think besides age, and arousal level, it could also be hydration level and probably genetics as well.
All I ever really cared about was actually cumming, so the volume, distance and consistency of my cum really doesn't matter.
My cum viscosity and shooting distance varied a lot even when I was younger, depending on how long it took for me to reach orgasm, and how long it had been since my previous orgasm. The longer I am aroused and the longer it takes to cum, the greater the volume and distance in most cases. I've had cum barely dribble out of my slit, and one time shoot 2+ feet straight up into the air, when a girlfriend gave me an extended blowjob/handjob while I was lying on my back. That one surprised us both!
I think besides age, and arousal level, it could also be hydration level and probably genetics as well.
All I ever really cared about was actually cumming, so the volume, distance and consistency of my cum really doesn't matter.
I'm well out of my 20s now but looking back I remember in my latter teen years while still living with my parents, my cum was often pretty thick. At that time I had discovered how to edge (within one session, not over multiple days as some guys to) but I didn't get to go for long marathon sessions. The morning was particularly time constrained and that's when my cum was the thickest with a really strong white colour.
As I went into my twenties I also moved out of my parents' place which meant I then had much more privacy and could masturbate as often and for as long as I wanted to. The longer edging sessions definitely had an effect with the cum seeming higher in volume but definitely being thinner and definitely shooting much further. Hitting my upper chest was really common and having it go over my shoulder happened reasonably often.
I'm in my 50s now and I can still sometimes get it that far but not as often - it has to be a pretty long session to do that.
Same for me. In my 20s, I could put an eye out. One of the first times with the man who would eventually become my husband, we were in bed and he was fingering me when I shot. I was halfway down the bed, but it shot way past my head and splattered on the headboard. But nowadays, in my 50s, no way. It rarely goes anywhere, and it has been that way for a while. I think it's just part of aging. But hey, the orgasms still feel awesome, so I manage! ;-)
Same, when I was younger not much of a shooter. Now older and shoot.
I'm in my late 60s and would say that my cum is definitely thicker than when I was younger. My prostate fluid is very viscous and slippery but the full-blown cum is thick.
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I have always cum a lot, but it’s less than it used to be. I can still get a few thick ropes but I used to nut for 60 seconds it felt like.
Love that : ... could put an eye out ...
I've never been much of a shooter but when I'm super turned on, then it can happen. It was in my thirties when a casual hookup with eight inches had the nob against my arse and I spontaneously cum and shot my load over my head (I was laying in my back at the time)...
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I’m not seeing any solutions here, but I used to be able to cum for distance and volume well into my 40s. The “cumming right at you” video on my profile was recorded less than 10 years ago. I’m 56 now and I can get close to that if I abstain for a few weeks and edge for a few days, but it’s not nearly the same. I blame aging, of course, but also a stent I had put in for a kidney stone a few years back.
I've never heard of any valid solutions to things like this. I'm the same age as you, and I just take it as part of life's changes. As long as everything keeps working and feeling good, I'm happy.
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Yeah, I didn’t think there were any solutions but I’m hoping the more we talk about it, the better the chance of someone piping up with one.
"abstaining for a few weeks and edging for a few days" is not a solution in my book -- would much much rather jizz daily with thick consistency
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Nope, it’s not a solution at all and I’d rather do the same. But has been stated here again and again, that just doesn’t happen as you get older."abstaining for a few weeks and edging for a few days" is not a solution in my book -- would much much rather jizz daily with thick consistency
It's perfectly natural, even if somewhat disappointing, to experience changes in ejaculation as men age.
I also when I was younger could both cum volumes and shoot both more forcefully and with multiple squirts.
By my thirties, I began to notice the first signs of diminishing returns as well as a general minor lessening of libido. Nowadays, I'm mostly a dribbler with usually one good spurt if I haven't come in two or three days, with a much rarer second one if I'm really horny. It definitely doesn't travel as far as it used to and can no longer hit my chest or the bed, depending upon position, and will just run down to the base of my cock or in my pubes. The volume has definitely decreased but can still be varied depending upon many factors such as last time I got off, horniness, as well as diet and supplement use.
While I do miss the visual appeal of a large, powerful shooting orgasm, both for myself and the wife seeing it, but I've accepted it and it doesn't bother me too much. While sometimes I still get a welcome surprise when I ejaculate, at this point in life it's more about physical over visual quality. Not to mention, since I almost never masturbate or come on my wife anymore, 99% of my orgasms happen inside her pussy or mouth and thus I don't notice such minutia.
I also when I was younger could both cum volumes and shoot both more forcefully and with multiple squirts.
By my thirties, I began to notice the first signs of diminishing returns as well as a general minor lessening of libido. Nowadays, I'm mostly a dribbler with usually one good spurt if I haven't come in two or three days, with a much rarer second one if I'm really horny. It definitely doesn't travel as far as it used to and can no longer hit my chest or the bed, depending upon position, and will just run down to the base of my cock or in my pubes. The volume has definitely decreased but can still be varied depending upon many factors such as last time I got off, horniness, as well as diet and supplement use.
While I do miss the visual appeal of a large, powerful shooting orgasm, both for myself and the wife seeing it, but I've accepted it and it doesn't bother me too much. While sometimes I still get a welcome surprise when I ejaculate, at this point in life it's more about physical over visual quality. Not to mention, since I almost never masturbate or come on my wife anymore, 99% of my orgasms happen inside her pussy or mouth and thus I don't notice such minutia.
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