Chase Parker

He finally removed the word 'bi' from his Twitter bio, because he's not bi at all and I love that :heart:
Lol I've given up on how people now choose to identity. Sexuality has kind of been hijacked. I used to call myself gay, but in the last few years I've seen gay social media people and prominent gay OF creators have sex with woman and still say they are gay. So I've gone old school and now just say I'm homosexual or I'm a same sex attracted male which is just wild to have to say.. but it's 2024.
 
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Lol I've given up on how people now choose to identity. Sexuality has kind of been hijacked. I used to call myself gay, but in the last few years I've seen gay social media people and prominent gay OF creators have sex with woman and still say they are gay. So I've gone old school and now just say I'm homosexual or I'm a same sex attracted male which is just wild to have to say.. but it's 2024.
Yeah, I also find it weird how incredibly fluid sexuality has become lately. Actually not so much that, after all sex is just sex and if you’re doing it for pleasure rather than reproduction it doesn’t matter if you’re fucking someone of the same gender or not, but the need for people to label everything. But then I’ve never understood why people get so hung up on what others do in the bedroom to begin with. I’ve personally never felt that the fact I am sexually attracted to men rather than women defines me as a person anymore than any other characteristic like the color of my eyes or my height.
 
Yeah, I also find it weird how incredibly fluid sexuality has become lately. Actually not so much that, after all sex is just sex and if you’re doing it for pleasure rather than reproduction it doesn’t matter if you’re fucking someone of the same gender or not, but the need for people to label everything. But then I’ve never understood why people get so hung up on what others do in the bedroom to begin with. I’ve personally never felt that the fact I am sexually attracted to men rather than women defines me as a person anymore than any other characteristic like the color of my eyes or my height.
I think like what you like and do who you like, but don't say you're a gay man and then proceed to have sex with woman because it's diluting what means to be a gay man. I can't look at "sex is just sex", one because I'm only attracted people of the same sex, men biological ones also at that. And two I have to have some sort of spark to have sex with someone, one night stands and hookup culture does ZERO for me. But I agree my sexuality is the last thing I want people to think of me for. But I also don't want to be bracketed with people who say they are gay men but fuck woman. Or be all over twitter calling it gay sex all while eating clunge.
 
Lol I've given up on how people now choose to identity. Sexuality has kind of been hijacked. I used to call myself gay, but in the last few years I've seen gay social media people and prominent gay OF creators have sex with woman and still say they are gay. So I've gone old school and now just say I'm homosexual or I'm a same sex attracted male which is just wild to have to say.. but it's 2024.
Your depiction regarding sexual fluidity coming from gay guys these days is rubbish if you put them in front of those who claim to be straight even after sticking dildos up their asses, letting guys suck their dicks and even having anal sex just because they complain it's for money , not for pleasure, here in my city this happens so often among these self-proclaimed straight men, but we should look less at identities and more at actions, which is what defines us, trans people say they are men and women after transition surgery but are they? naturally not but they think they are and behave in everyday life as if they were so whatever, who cares? lol
 
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Your depiction regarding sexual fluidity coming from gay guys these days is rubbish if you put them in front of those who claim to be straight even after sticking dildos up their asses, letting guys suck their dicks and even having anal sex just because they complain it's for money , not for pleasure, here in my city this happens so often among these self-proclaimed straight men, but we should look less at identities and more at actions, which is what defines us, trans people say they are men and women after transition surgery but are they? naturally not but they think they are and behave in everyday life as if they were so whatever, who cares? lol
I think maybe you've missunderstood Which part is rubbish many "gay men" or so they say are having sex with biological woman that's just a fact. I also want to inform you no heterosexual man is having sex with other men PERIOD. I know alot of gay men like to think this Is the case, I went through this stage in my late teens and early twenties.... thought I was the bees knees pulling a "straight lad". BUT THEN I GREW UP. Straight men don't have sex with other being the very reason they are straight. If a man sleeps with other men money included he's gay or bi... the trans debate I'm nit getting into.
 
I think maybe you've missunderstood Which part is rubbish many "gay men" or so they say are having sex with biological woman that's just a fact. I also want to inform you no heterosexual man is having sex with other men PERIOD. I know alot of gay men like to think this Is the case, I went through this stage in my late teens and early twenties.... thought I was the bees knees pulling a "straight lad". BUT THEN I GREW UP. Straight men don't have sex with other being the very reason they are straight. If a man sleeps with other men money included he's gay or bi... the trans debate I'm nit getting into.
No? lol, if they are not straight in the original sense of the word if that exists then it fits into the 'variant' called bicuriosity which is the same as heterosexuality but in this there is a greater level of interaction with people of the same sex sexually speaking in periods of life without being interested in maintaining serious relationships with them, just sexual but remaining solely fond of women, the Kinsey scale best defines these fragments of sexualities
 
No? lol, if they are not straight in the original sense of the word if that exists then it fits into the 'variant' called bicuriosity which is the same as heterosexuality but in this there is a greater level of interaction with people of the same sex sexually speaking in periods of life without being interested in maintaining serious relationships with them, just sexual but remaining solely fond of women, the Kinsey scale best defines these fragments of sexualities
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The fact is that there is no one who is 100% nothing, it's just that we put everything people do under 'lgbt' labels, but sexuality or sexual activities go beyond acronyms, not all people want to fit into groups
Oh honey I'm 100% homosexual like trust I've got the mariah carey barbie to prove it.
 
Oh honey I'm 100% homosexual like trust I've got the mariah carey barbie to prove it.
According to your profile it is, but that's what I'm talking about, this same structure of defining sexuality in lpsg profiles in percentages really applies in the real sexual life of each of us lol
 
Lol I've given up on how people now choose to identity. Sexuality has kind of been hijacked. I used to call myself gay, but in the last few years I've seen gay social media people and prominent gay OF creators have sex with woman and still say they are gay. So I've gone old school and now just say I'm homosexual or I'm a same sex attracted male which is just wild to have to say.. but it's 2024.

Speaking from experience…I would argue that it’s a more complicated matter than you’re suggesting. Bisexuals — and especially bisexual men — are often damned if we do and damned if we don’t. If we say we’re bisexual, people think we’re just too afraid to fully commit to coming out as gay. If we say we’re gay but then we hook up with a woman afterward, people think we’re gaybaiting because “no gay man would ever have sex with a woman” or whatever. If we say we’re straight but then we hook up with a man afterward, people think we’re in denial because “no straight man would ever have sex with another man” or whatever. A lot of people just firmly believe that bisexuality is a myth. And when you’re referring to sex workers in particular, as you did in the above comment, there’s an extra issue of fans getting turned off as soon as they find out someone isn’t a “gold-star gay” or whatever. I can think of quite a few porn stars who started out exclusively making gay content then eventually dared to film themselves having sex with a woman, only to get blasted on social media for doing so. And the abuse is even worse if they also hook up with people who are transgender.

My point is that some people — especially those “in the public eye” — might just find it easier to say they’re gay because they know that’s what their fans want to hear. (See the comment about Chase’s bio that started this very conversation.) And there’s also the matter of sex versus romance — some people might prefer to have casual sex with one group of candidates but have romances with another group of candidates (“heteroromantic” and “homoromantic”) and might therefore feel more comfortable using the sexuality label that aligns with their romantic preference.

Sorry if this sounds like a lecture. Maybe you already knew all of this. I just wanted to point out that it’s not as black and white as you’re making it out to be. If someone you perceive as bisexual is claiming to be gay, that doesn’t mean you have to stop using the word. Lots of actual gay men have sex with a woman at some point (while closeted, for instance) but never identify as bisexual. No one’s going to get a real gold star for being a “gold-star gay” — it’s not that important; it’s just sex (maybe not to you, but to many other people, especially from the younger generations).