Naked and humiliated men, the new fashion fetish in Europe
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It is a twist to the sexual game of domination in which women, dressed, have the upper hand over the male.
47As in so many other aspects of life, the role of women has also been changing, little by little, in the sexual field. The sexual revolution that began in the fifties of the last century, vindicating nudity and questioning the traditional role of men and women in the chapter on sexuality, continues its course in our days. That is at least what is evident by casting keep an eye on the new feminist porn that tries to change the point of view from which adult films are conceived, or movements like the CFNM (Clothed female naked male) in which the relations of force in sexual relations change sides.
A twist to the sexual game of domination in which clothed women rule the roost over their submissive men who, naked, only seem destined to enjoy relationships treated as an object of female sexual satisfaction. A game that In addition, it has a series of rules that must be strictly adhered to and that are based on the position of strength of women who, dressed in street clothes, objectify their sexual partner, stripping him of his clothes and denying him the possibility of touching at any time. to your dance partner, unless, of course, she allows it and under the conditions that this requires. Beyond the considerations that the CFNM can generate, the truth is that this type of new practice in which the submission change sides represent a radical reversal of the conception that women and men have maintained since the beginning of time in the sexual chapter in which the man, active, takes the reins of sexual practices over a woman, passive, minimizing the possibilities of pleasure for females.
Increasingly liberated in the sexual field from the stigmas that have been attached to women who openly acknowledged enjoying sex, many have decided to reverse the roles, take control of the situation and take the initiative that so many men have come claiming their partners for their own benefit. However, CFNM is not just a game for couples, since although on many occasions it becomes fun between two taking the preliminaries to another level, on others it becomes a practice groups organizing different parties and meetings in many of the main cities around the world in which groups of men and women decide to get rid of their sexual routine to enjoy new practices in which men adopt an exclusively passive role. Although there are many the sexologists who see in this exchange in positions of strength in sexual relations an incentive to provoke new sensations and enjoy another aspect of sexual activity, there are also those who emphasize the very fine border that exists between CFNM and sadomasochistic practices in which one person holds all the power and another is completely subjugated. What taken to the extreme can end up becoming a paraphilia.
In this sense, one can speak of a nice practice, in which both enjoy giving each other pleasure with the woman as conductor, or hard, in which the humiliation of the submissive is brushed against, endangering the parallel pleasure of both parties. involved in this erotic game. Along the same lines, Boys for Girls parties are also known in several European countries in which music, dance and the desire to break conventions come together in a kind of casting in which they are the ones who They decide which guy to stay with and start playing, carrying the weight of the action at all times and only doing what they want with them. Although sometimes the thing remains only in kisses and caresses, in others it ends with penetration, performing all this performance in public, taking this increasingly widespread erotic game one step further. In both practices, the CFNM and the Boys for girls, the key to enjoyment according to experts in sexology, is communication and prior knowledge of all parties involved in the relationship about the situations that can most excite the other, as well as what are their red lines so that we can talk about a healthy sexual relationship.
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