Concern Over Penis Size

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As someone who suffers from body dysmorphia (specifically related to my penis), I can say that it is not as simple as “getting over it“. I’ve read tons of information online, and know statistically that I am well above average. However, that knowledge doesn’t prevent my neurodivergent brain from fixating on my size and wanting it to be bigger.

I believe it is important to remember that most people struggle with some sort of insecurity, and it isn’t always rational. Extending some kindness and empathy to others won’t cost you anything, and could have a huge impact on someone else’s life.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

As someone who suffers from body dysmorphia (specifically related to my penis), I can say that it is not as simple as “getting over it“. I’ve read tons of information online, and know statistically that I am well above average. However, that knowledge doesn’t prevent my neurodivergent brain from fixating on my size and wanting it to be bigger.

I believe it is important to remember that most people struggle with some sort of insecurity, and it isn’t always rational. Extending some kindness and empathy to others won’t cost you anything, and could have a huge impact on someone else’s life.

I have extended a hand and shown kindness to a few guys on here who have body dysmorphia. I still try to show empathy and help them see that it isnt quite as bad as they feel.

But unfortunately they find their fellow men who also have body dysmorphia or have the idea that all dicks are much bigger than studies, info and such. They get their preconceived thoughts and ideas reinforced by each other and well... its a lost cause at that point. Until they are able to stop and introspect and reflect and acknowledge biases and such, NOTHING will get through to them. It's sad and unfortunate and I wish I could help.

The only way to get through to them is for the really truly small guys who are comfortable with thenselves, talk to them. Have them compare. Have them tell their stories of success. The body dysmorphia guys are easy to dismiss any advice or comforting from guys with big dicks and average. But I never see them do so to guys with more below average and small dicks.

 

[Perfectsix]

There’s no shame in being small and I speak from experience being a long term naturist and hung like this

 

[mrmuscle17]

Sometimes I feel concerned about mine too. What do you guys think about mine?

 

[VIIby5]

There’s no shame in being small and I speak from experience being a long term naturist and hung like thisView attachment 99867881View attachment 99867891

Going by your name I assume you are 6" erect. Do you consider 6" to be small then?

 

[Perfectsix]

Going by your name I assume you are 6" erect. Do you consider 6" to be small then?

No I don’t, although I’m nearer 5.5” nowadays- I am very small when flaccid but am a significant grower.
However, most people only ever see us in our flaccid state and so I am entitled to say I am concerned regarding my size as it has attracted a lot of attention over the years, not always of a positive nature