Confessions of a Wrestler (back again)

Q: Do you think you always had exhibitionist tendencies, or do you think they came from sexual experiences? Or both? Share your experience/perspective in a comment below. I’ve always found my own reality interesting in comparison to other guys. I would be interested in hearing about your own self-analysis.

A:I said natural show-off. I grew up in a naked house, but I knew I always loved it. I think with sexual experience was just understanding it better. I love being naked even from a young age. I never feared locker rooms and being on a team only made me more comfortable and open. if im naked, hard or soft, i enjoy being seen by others in their lust, jealousy, envy, desire or just another bro. Different experiences feed my exhibitionism. being naked alone in the woods to jerking off in front of a group of 70 guys at a bath house and casually walking around the locker room at the Y. they all feed the same thing for me.
 
Q: What are you techniques and strategies for figuring out if another guy in the steam room is a fellow bator?

A: I guess mine has been an evolution over time. I'm mostly into showing off. I feel like there are four types of guys in the sauna and steam room at my gym.

1. Guys in shorts that are not interested at all.

2. Guys in towels a 50/50 shot.

3. Guys in towels that are misplaced (over their lap, holding them over their dick, not secured around their waist) 70% interested.

4. Naked guys you know the second you see them. Old Naked guys (60+) are normally not interested. Younger naked guys are either two ways, either totally not into it and comfortable with their bodies or mildly interested and showing off. Both never touch their dicks.

When I was younger I would go into the sauna or steam room with a gym towel, folded in half lengthwise, around my waist. Just enough for me to sit on. depending on what was going on and where people were sitting depends on who does what. For me to see if it was cool, I start off with a towel adjustment, move my package under my towel. If someone does the same, I untuck my towel around my waist and keep it sitting on my lap and sitting on it, never go bare-ass to the bench in the sauna/steam room. After untucking, if I get another signal, I reach under my loose towel and adjust my cock. Usually at that point the formality ends but my next step is to take my towel off and set the part in my lap next to me. That usually get things going.

Two things changed the way that I enjoy the sauna/steam room. You can read the story in the comments section of my profile. The other was shortly after that experience. I was at my home Y and I had a friend I would casually talk to in the steam room. He was from Holland and in his 40s. He was the second type of naked guy, mildly interested. We had casual conversations about workouts and swimming and guys in the locker room. He would make comments about my dick and we were the only uncut guys around. Over several months we slowly progressed in our small talk about our dicks and being uncut. He would make comments and I knew he had some interest. I attempted a few times to jerk off with him but he never did anything. He would comment on my dick being chubby or hard. He would tell me it was impressive, he was hung too, and we would swap stories about being big. After my comment section experience, I came back to my home Y with a new found confidence and my buddy from Holland showed me the ropes. I filled him in on what happened and asked him pointers about just being naked in the steam room. His tips were, ditch the full size towel and use one of the quarter towels in the weightroom it is just perfect to sit on. His balls and cock rest on the towel when he sits so he told me to make sure there was room for your dick or hang it off the side. if you get hard when you don't want to be, don't freak out and don't address it. Act natural, because it is, bodies do that and if someone calls you out on it, just say you are sorry, tell them 'it happens' and ignore them.

Now I go towel free and never going back (but with the quarter size towel to sit on). I haven't worn a towel in a little over two years and it is the best, steam feels better, sauna goes longer and feels more comfortable. A few guys have joined in, maybe 5 or 6 have dropped the towel.

Currently (or when the gym reopens) I feel like I call the shots when in the steamroom and sauna. Going toweless kinda gives me superpowers to control the situation. Usually it only takes one or two signals and stuff starts happening. I'll start by wiping my hand down my chest or cuping my dick and balls. I'll start chubbing up at that point, so I'll just give my dick a simple-single tug in my hand down the length and that get things going. I've gotten popular, so most guys that mess around at this point know me and what goes on. I have had six guys (seven including me) fill the steam room and all jerk off together. It is rare to get more than two or three other guys. I mostly like it when guys watch. I’ve had a few guys jerk me off a little and one guy gave me head for like two seconds, but it isn’t for me. I like for guys to watch me and tell me what they like. Most of the time I shoot my load seated, but a few times I’ve been standing up, when it is safe, and shot my load across the room. Once or twice I’ve cum on a guy, but intentionally. A few times guys have been aggressive. Grabbing my dick, touching me when I don’t want to be touched. A few guys have tried to suck my dick without asking and one guy attempted to sit on my dick without asking. So there have been some down sides to my popularity.

Holland knows what I do, and he is cool with it. But he doesn’t join in. I have jerked off in front of him before and he talked to me until I came. I asked him if it was okay if I got a load out, and he was cool with it. He commented the entire time I was jerking off. How big my dick was, my skin, body, and encouraged me the entire time. It was one of the best exhibition experiences I had ever had. He has also sat in a few times and just watched but nothing else.

Sorry, long story, but I wanted to get it out.
 
Hey [name], thanks for the question: " I’m curious if there is a scenario you have fantasized about but haven’t had happen (or haven’t been able to make it happen)? Like, your ideal, ultimate fantasy."

I have had threeways in the past but I am wanting to do more. Ive done a MMM and MMF. Both were great but I want a more open experience with a MMF experience. Most of the fucking centered on the girl and me and the other guy didn't touch. I almost had a MFF in college but covid killed that possibility. So i guess more and better experiences.

I also want to do more public/exhibitionism stuff. I want to fuck in front of a group of people and have them watch.

I want to fuck in an orgy. line pussy and holes up and fuck and unload as much as I can.
 
Hey [name],

Thanks for the question. Generally, no. I don't think the locker room smell has ever done anything for me. Being close to guys during a match, sometimes you get a nose full of BO, it happens, but that has never really gotten me going. I will admit, that I have gotten turned on by a guy's smell. I like when my fuck buddy smells after working out or after a day at work (he works for a landscaping company). He can walk in the door and I can smell the cross between his sweat and cut grass.

One time, I had a slight crush on a guy in HS and after practice I got ahold of his tshirt. I took it into a stall in the locker room and jerked off with it to my face. He wore it under his singlet at practice and the build up of sweat and BO, he smelled so good. I have yet to find someone that smells that good to me.
 
Q: I'd love to hear the details about your mixed 3-way on Thanksgiving.

A: The Thanksgiving three-way was a little wild. My fuck buddy was hanging around and we were playing video games. I had a few high school hook ups that were wanting a fuck and I had a few over and I fucked them while he was in the closet. Me and him had fucked a few times that day so I was feeling satisfied. I got a text from another girl looking for a fuck, but I wasn't feeling it. I was going over to the main house where my parents were hosting Thanksgiving dinner and I told her to come hang out. I left for dinner and my buddy stayed to meet girl number three when she arrived. I told him to fuck her if she wanted to, I wasn't interested. After dinner, I came back to my room and found them both in my bed. They had just fucked and she was still fingering herself. So I jumped in to finish the job. I put a condom on and started fucking her, my buddy watched for a little bit, got hard again and he started to get head from her. I fucked her doggystyle until I came in the condom, he finished again in her mouth. she got what she wanted and go out of there.

This was before my first time fucking a girl without a condom. I am still super careful fucking pussy without a condom. When I took off the condom I noticed cum on the outside of the condom. Found out my friend fucked her without a condom and came inside her and then I fucked her with a condom on. A few weeks later she was pregnant and tried to say it was mine. It wasn't. Got my buddy into a lot of hot water, his girlfriend left him and he had to pay for an abortion. I was mad at him for being so stupid but it was fun for a little bit.
 
Q: You said the first guy you fucked was a wrestling teammate. ********************?

A:*********

Q: Did it happen spontaneously when you two were fooling around, or had you talked about doing it beforehand?

A: I think it was more planned on his part. he was looking in the showers after practice more than the other guys and he started talking to me in the showers. He was captain my freshman year of hs. We talked a few times in the showers after practice, that lead to hanging out, hanging out became video games at his place in the basement. Video games became watching porn together. Porn lead to being hard around each other, then we started jerking off together and eventually hand jobs then blow jobs and finally trying to have sex a few time and then we were fuck buddies. It took about a month to go from the showers to fucking. It took a few trys for him to loosen up to fuck him but it were like rabbits until he graduated.

Q: Did you wrestle as foreplay?

A. We were in two totally different weight classes. In the early days we would spar and grapple in his basement. He showed me moves, I think it was mostly innocent at the time, but I think he really wanted to touch me and didnt know how.

Q: Did you become fuck buddies after that?

A: Yup. about six months we were fucking almost daily. After he graduated it was a rare during the summer and when he left for college we never hooked up again. I think he had fun in college, insta makes it look like he did. He graduated and joined the marines. He was like a big brother to me, he was in charge everywhere he went. He was popular and I really liked being around him and having that older figure. I think he liked the ability to be with someone that he could let his guard down with for just a minute but then still be in charge afterwards. I think it was the closest I have ever been to a relationship. It is the only time I have ever been monogamous
 
Q: You say you're an aspiring dad. Assuming that means you'd like to have a younger buddy

A: Don't know exactly, I unsure of what my goal is. I think I like aspects of the dynamic. Maybe one day a 'dad' to a younger guy (18+) could be fun, but I'm not sure.

Q:what's the youngest you would want him to be?

A:I'm 20 now so no lower than 18. At this point, every guy has been my age or older so I can't say from experience if younger is what I'm after. I guess I need to explore some more. With girls, I've done the younger thing when I was in my teens and it was okay.

Q: Would you like to be a real dad? Would you raise your son nude as your dad did for you?

A: I think so. I made it out of my teens (first in the family) without a kid so I guess I can wait some more. I think I would raise my sons like my dad did. My brothers did similar style with their sons. I think it made me more comfortable with my body and I would want to pass that along to my sons. I would like to wait until I'm out of college to have a kid, but I think I'm okay with not being married. I don't see myself with the wife and kids thing, it could change. From my porn collection, you can probably figure out that I am really getting into cumming inside and breeding. It is dangerous, I know, but if it really came down to it, I think I would be okay with a kid. Three guys on my team have kids, it doesn't seem so bad.

Q: You say you never saw your dad hard. Would you want your son to see you hard?

A: If I did have a hang-up it would be that it took me a while to be comfortable with my size and getting hard. Middle school was difficult, and it might have helped to have that normal experience. I don't think I would hide it, but I don't think I would do it on purpose. I've been hard around my dad, growing up an NRB happens and if you are asleep on the couch and wake up it happens. I know he saw it, but he never commented or made a big deal about it. It was probably for the best. Dicks get hard for no reason, making it a normal thing would help make it less of an embarrassment.

I don't remember ever seeing my dad hard. I feel like it is something that I would have remembered but it is also entirely possible that when I was younger I didn't understand or I just missed it.
 
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Q: You and your roommate sound like the perfect situation. Have you ever shared a girl together?

A: Thanks for your question, dak!

He has a girl friend from high school they have been together for years so I don't think that is happening. We jerked off to pussy porn a couple of times together but nothing major. We have fucked girls at the same time. He normally sleeps at his girl friends apartment and is in our room two nights a week. She is never over here. A few weeks ago, I had a girl over and we had finished our fucking for the night and I was asleep. My roommate and his gf stumbled in drunk from a party and crashed at our place instead of driving back to her place. When they came in it woke me and the girl I had over, but I went back to sleep. After a while I was woken by the girl in my bed. She had her hand on my chest shaking me and whispering in my ear:"I think they are fucking". I came to my senses and sure enough my roommate and his gf were starting to hook up with her moaning. My girl looked at me and said: "what do we do?" I said: "nothing, good for them". she responded with: Oh, I was thinking something else. As she responded she wrapped her legs around my leg and I felt her wet pussy on my leg. she said: Maybe we could try to beat them.

Challenge accepted.

I tore the sheet off of us and put her on her back and ate her pussy out. I didn't know how long it took for them to figure it out but eventually the noise levels started to go up and at some point all four of us knew we were fucking. I put on a condom and my girl started riding me. I looked over and my roommate was getting ridden too with his gf's tits bouncing up and down in the dark while my girl rode my dick. We eventually finished up with shouts, screams, and cum and settled down and fell asleep. The girls left at some point in the morning and me and my roommate woke up around noon. We didn't say much to each other about it, but a high five and a 'nice work' between us was all that was needed.
 
1. Are you into gear? Jocks? Harnesses?
A: Im mostly a naked guy, not opposed to it. I've worn a harness before, but they are expensive.

2. Where do you like to unload after a bate?
A: unload meaning cum? If Im jerking off, it is in bed or at my computer and I normally cum pointing towards my chest and wash it off in the shower or wipe off with a towel or dirty tshirt. I like the idea of spraying cum everywhere but the mess and cleaning up kills the idea.

3. Have you ever been to a JO party?
A: Im going to say no. I have jacked off with guys in groups and I went to a bath house and jerked off for guys to watch but never an organized event.
 
hey [name], thanks for your question.

Q: are you/have you been sexually attracted to your dad or brothers?

A: no, I think the dad stuff on here is more interaction with guys that are older are more comfortable with bate on here than guys my age. Guys my age seem to be silent when they bate and on mic, older guys talk more and interact.
 
Q: So just curious, have you taken underwear from a dad?

A: In middle school I was taking my dad's underwear and wearing them. Two types were the best. He had a pair of white jockey boxer briefs, the flap in the front was a turn on to me. He also had a few pairs of bikini underwear. They were basic colors with a thin stripes going across. They were made of really thin t-shirt like material and they were really comfortable. The stitching was on the side so it was just the stretch of the fabric holding my cock up. The way the fabric would hold my dick made my dick feel heavy and huge. I loved them, would give anything to find another pair. I did have to sneak them into the laundry, my dick would leak precum in them so I couldn't put them back. sometime between middle school and high school I gave up on underwear for the most part and now I'm commando most of the time, but I miss the thrill of taking his underwear. No idea if he knows I did that.
 
Hey [name],

Thanks for your question. I am a top, never bottomed, but have had my ass ate out. I've never fucked a girl's ass, only PnV with girls. Have yet to find a girl that adventurous. Ass and pussy both have their place, and both are good in different ways. Guys I can fuck raw and can be more rough with, pussy feels great but most of the time needs a condom and you have to take it slower with most.
 
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Q: You wrote about showing off in the sauna and your experiences, how did it start? What was your first time?

A: *. *. *. *. The sauna and steam room are in a room that is next to the big shower room with 10 shower heads in the open with a handclapped curtain in the corner. I am open about walking around between the showers and the hooks for the towels, but I used one of the thin white standard towels they provided to wrap up for the sauna and steam room. I do cycles of steam/sauna to heat and sweat it out.

*. *. *. That day, I worked out and I was hitting the sauna more than the steam, I was trying to cut a little weight. I had been working at it maybe an hour or so and I had a good sweat going and had a wet spot with a big puddle below me. So my towel was soaked, and gross and I got a little relaxed and didn't have my towel wrapped/secured around my waist. I was more sitting on it with it draped across my lap. Which was not my normal style, but I was really going the distance and feeling the heat. then, the guy walked into the sauna and joined me.

THE guy, was in his early 20s(?) and he was good looking and I had my eye on his for a while. He was tall, ripped, good looking, dark red hair but it was the extras that got me. Huge back tattoo that went from his neck, filled his entire back, around his ass and down his legs. A continuous picture of an Asian-inspired coy pond with fish. It was cool and fit him really well. A bar in each nipple and a ring in his dick. I got the impression that he was x-military by his attitude.

When he walked into the sauna, he opened the door with his towel in his hand and sat down on the bench on the other end of the room and put his towel next to where he was sitting. I had my towel covering my dick but loosely across my lap wasn't going to hide anything and I could feel myself chubbing up. Starting to panic I wasn't sure what to do, so I froze and tried to will it away. After what felt like a million years, he turned to me and said, is that all sweat? Are you drinking water? He had never spoken to me, ever, and it really took me off guard. I answered him, confirmed it was sweat (mostly, but I took credit for the water too) and pointed to my frozen water bottle that I had been sipping on. We had some small talk about why I was doing it, and wrestling. Talking to him give me an opportunity to really look at him and take in all the eye candy. I lost control, and was chubbing up uncontrollably and the head of my dick was out of my towel. I panicked and made a dash for the showers, and was an unsuccessful mess of wet towel everywhere and boner pointing up. I bolted into the shower and let the cold water cool me down. After a while I was more presentable, wrapped the wet rag of a towel around me and went to the steam room to hide and avoid the humiliation of seeing him again by going into the sauna. I sat down with a squish sound of the wet towel sitting on the tile bench in the steam room. I sat for a few minutes in my shame and the sound of the sauna room door opening and closing broke the silence and he opened the door to the steam room. He didn't have a towel in his hand, but my water bottle. I left it in the sauna. he walked in the room, dick swinging and I couldn't help but lock my eyes on his dick and body and my reaction was immediate my dick started to get hard again right infront of him. He walked up to me with a grin on his face and said that I had left this in my rush out, I took my water bottle from his hand. He turned around and walked to the corner bench of the steam room and sat in the corner looking at me. The steam system kicked in and the jet engine sound broke the silence. He disappeared in the steam on the other side of the room and I took the opportunity while hidden to unwrap my towel and point my dick up and rewrap up. My dick was contained in my towel but rock hard. I was hoping giving it a minute would let it go down, but as the steam started to clear, I was noticeable. As his shape started to reappear on the other side of the room, he said, don't worry about it man, it happens to us all, no reason to panic about it. I responded with a 'thanks' and the fog was clearing I could see he had gotten a little thicker he reached down and gave his dick a back-hand-tug, and my dick started twitching rock hard. My towel was failing me and he commented and said, you can take it out, I think it wants out. I took off my wet towel and the weight of the wet towel hooked my head pulled my dick with a loud *slap* sound when it hit my stomach. He was hard and stroking and I joined him. We jerked our cocks on either side of the steam room and I was drooling pre-cum from my skin and I lightly jerked my dick not wanting to blow immediately. He jerked and played with his nipple bar and hard dick and silver ring bounced in his hand. I couldn't hold back and I came way too fast, big globs of cum shot out of my dick and hit the tile in the center of the room with a *wap, wap, wap, wap, wap* with every glob hitting the floor. He came right after me and I could hear his cum hit the floor.

I was spent, and I took my towel in my hand with my water bottle and walked back into the showers and put my towel in the laundry basket. I finished my shower and walked back into the room and he was standing there was a new towel, and handed it to me. 'that was fun' he said I replied with, 'it was needed, thanks'. He walked into the showers and I went to the locker room.
 
Thanks for the question, [name],

This is where my experience is limited. I'm in a regular 3-way now, but 4-way rare for me. The one time I am referencing is a sauna experience. Pre-covid, Y sauna. I had a group going and we were all jerking off. It was one of the first times I really had a group going and there was a little bit more touching than normal. Four of us (including me) were in the sauna, jerking off. Hands started to reaching and I jerked a few guys off and they jerked me off. I guess I touched all three others, we kinda switched off. It was really open so we all knew we were not being careful, but it was cool. Two of the guys sucked a little bit, and I got head for a few seconds. I would say there was a few minutes of this sucking/jacking and then we all jerked ourselves off.
 
Q: With so much direct body contact in wrestling I know occasional boners happen. Any repeat offenders that your huge bulge gets them hard? Are there any interesting boner situations that you, teammates you spare, or opponents have experienced? Thanks for looking at this.

A: It does happen, but not in a porn way. there are plenty of videos out there where you can see guys get a chub, mostly what you are seeing is a guy's dick getting out of place in their singlet. There are a few guys that I know that consistently chub up a little during a match, it just happens. You are concentrating on what you are doing, there isn't much else going on.

Younger guys bone up, I did, mostly during practice. It happens and you deal with it. It usually happens when you first start in the sport and you are not used to being in a singlet.

Mind games happen during a match, you want your opponent to break concentration for just a second and you have the advantage. Tons of videos online of matches where guys are standing with the junk right in a guy's face. Just trying to intimidate them. I have done it, I will admit it. In hs I was not performing well during a match and I was readjusting myself, and right infront of him I reached down my singlet and pulled my dick to point up. I was soft, but it looked like I had a hard on, I saw him look and it broke his concentration for just a fraction of a second and I had him. Kicked his ass and won. Coach saw what I did, told me not to do it again.
 
Q:What Makes me an Alpha Man":
A: I'm an alpha. end of story.

but if you need evidence: people naturally follow me. i can fuck almost anyone i want, with consent. i can cum and keep fucking. big uncut cock, good at fucking pussy and ass. started fucking at 15, never date one person; ive always had people in rotation. already proved my swimmers work on the first try at 19. I fuck guys, i fuck girls, i eat ass and pussy, i jerk my cock, i recognize my whole sexuality. I make sure my partners feel good and enjoy their experience with me. Im safe when i need to be and fuck raw with people i trust and get consent from both. i dominate in my sport, and lead my team. i use my brains, brawn, and body to make money. ive never been ashamed of my body or being naked. my thick uncut cock sets me apart from other guys. never been ashamed to show my cock or have a bulge.

im an alpha.
 
Q: Have you ever been caught by the cops or a security guard? what happened?

A: twice.

1. I was **, sheriff walked up on me and a girl fucking in my car. I was balls deep in pussy and about to cum he taps on the window, shines his light in the car and starts asking questions. Im inside her while having a conversation with the sheriff and freaking out but hard and i didnt realize it but i was still fucking her while talking to the officer, just slowly. he asked me to get out of the car and get my ID. So i ended up standing naked next to my car wearing a condom talking to a cop. he recognized my name, checked in with the girl i was with to make sure she was okay, told us to finish up and take her home. The officer got back in his car drove off and i did what i was told. finished her off and took her home

2. my parents house backs up to NPS land. it has trails we cut, but it is completely undeveloped. In all my years running our trails ive never seen anyone. One afternoon i put on my shoes, left my shorts at home, and went for a run. About 3 miles in i see someone on the trail ahead of me and going in the same direction. it was a NPS ranger. Without a thought in my head i stop running and start a conversation with him. About a minute in the conversation i remember im only wearing shoes. the realization must have shown on my face, he asked if i free hiked often. I told him the truth, ive been doing it for years. he was cool about it. told me to be careful and i kept going.
 
Q: I’m super attracted to the smell of dick and balls if you don’t mind could you describe the smell of your cock and maybe times where the smell was strong?

A: Wow, I've always said I will answer any question so here goes: I will be honest, I can be a pig sometimes and not shower, but I try to keep my dick clean. I hate deodorant, and use it only when I have to. I can skip showers for an entire weekend after running, working out, going out. After sex or jerking off, I will wipe cum off and miss spots and just go about my day. But I keep my dick clean, I wash it off after sex or jerking off. If someone is going down on me, I don't ever want my dick to be nasty. Balls on the other hand are sweaty if i'm not careful can smell just as strong as my pits. It can rub off on my shorts when I go commando and I have been able to smell them across the room. But times when my cock really smelled bad: after practice, with sweat and rewearing workout clothes it can smell sweaty. I wear condoms, so I've been told it can taste/smell like latex and lube sometimes and once had a guy go down on me shortly after I fucked a girl and he said it tasted like pussy.