Coping with a long soft dick as a teenager

[Pappy]

Originally posted by txquis@Oct 27 2004, 08:41 AM
I am not a show-er
and, it may not be surprising to know that most
of us "grow-ers" wish we could haul out
a 6-8 inch softie.

In fact, the guys in the school locker room
who *were* show-ers,
were applauded, not ridiculed.
They were legendary, in fact.

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The problem is when you haul out that 6-8 inch softie and it's actually a grower!!

 

[thirteenbyseven]

This probably can be posted on other threads but for me day one, gym class as a fourteen-year-old freshman in high school was a day I won't forget. I had managed to change quickly into my gym clothes unseen, shielded by a open locker door. That first day our class had been introduced to our short stocky gym teacher who's looks and demeanor reminded us all of Sargent Hulka from the movie Stripes. From his attitude, he apparently didn't think my tall gangly physique offered much potential to his other duties as the schools varsity wrestling coach. With a military bark he ordered us into the showers, implying if we didn't shower en masse it was the stockade.

O.K. From it's buried position, folded under my balls in my jockstrap, out came dick like a phallic accordian, flopping wildly as I raced into the steaming hot water of the group showers. Once there my heretofor humble athletic status was replaced with envy, awe and wonderment. I became "horsedick", "tripod" and "third-leg", all very cliche but my high school never had the reputation of graduating Pulitzer and Nobel Laureats. Though I am 100% hetero, hovering under the hot water took its toll- the damn thing began reeling out even longer. Withering under the remarks from my so-called buddies I retreated to my locker, which seemed to be the length of a football field away and past the coach's station.

Just as I reached the end of a row of lockers and began to make a right turn I came face to face with a newly familiar figure wearing a grey t-shirt, whistle hanging over an incipient beer belly, a perfectly round head with close-cropped hair. Sargent Hulka! He stopped dead in his tracks as if a UFO or other apparition had appeared before him. He stared straight ahead but his eyes darted wildly to my offending organ. In moments I had passed.

After that I always chose to believe I had risen a few degrees in his estimation.

 

[B_RoysToy]

Priceless, thirteenbyseven! Your description emphasizes how we so often let physical attributes dictate our feelings toward others. In the eyes of "Sargent Hulka" you instantly became worthy. How sad we, especially those in charge of young people, aren't able to show no discrepancy in our respect for all, regardless of their physical appearances.

BTW, you compose very well, with words creating vivid imagery. I can't help wondering what line of work you've chosen.

 

[Charles88]

I grew up having a long soft dick and it isn't always the best, but it isn't bad either. Yeah, it can get in the way when you play sports and on a day to day basis depending on how large you are soft. But the bright side is that you are more endowed than most of your peers. Which isn't something to boast about, but it could make some people feel better.

 

[13788]

suaige: the worst was being self conscious in the 8th grade, with all those great random erections that became really hard to hide. Grew from 3-4?? to 7.75 in abt a yr. after that never really anything. I was in track and cross country and indoor track that ll req. showering at school jr & sr yrs. It was not until less than a yr ago that I gave any real thought to it limp ave. 6".

I find wearing supportive underwear so you have a bugle and not a long snake, and wearing pleated or loose pants works well to conceal it fort the most part. And just keep it covered as much as you can. The people I showered with were pretty classy and the topic of sex and genitals was not foremost on our lists. Now, except for a few people who I talk with, I just brush it off as yeah its there. Like anything else in life. If I make it a non-issue why shouldn't others.

I think MOST IMPORTANT in dealing with it is keeping a BALANCED PERSPECTIVE. Teens can be vicious jerks or the nicest people you ever met, pick who you hang with, remember you are still every much a human as you were before. I.E. you did not become a walking penis rack remember all you other values, attributes and qualities. I lost this and it wasn't until I found them again that I was OK with it.

You know I just lied. The worst was I was molested by a guy who had a thing with my size starting at age 14. That is how I lost my perspective. Hopefully that was well ouside the norm. Other than that the rest is still true.

 

[ohmy66]

In fact, the guys in the school locker room
who *were* show-ers,
were applauded, not ridiculed.
They were legendary, in fact.

I agree with that. There was only one guy in my class who was in the 'advanced' category; it was mainly the thickness that first caught the attention. We didn't get the chance to see him erect.

 

[lorne]

I ended up rather large soft and found out early that it was far from average, it was very much a shock to me. Originally I was mistaken about what other people's sizes likely were since there was no nudity in the change rooms at my school and I didn't play a sport at the time that required showering. I thought i was a bit above the average size as I was height wise as well and figured it to be a case of proportions. I found out that what I thought was average was actually erect length and not soft which if it wasn't for seeing I truly wouldn't have believed it. I had actually had a fear my testicles were below average size because the majority of images I had to compare with were the sex ed diagrams in which the balls hung usually twice the distance the penis did, mine was the opposite the penis hung about twice the distance testicles would. To make things worse only images of an erect penis I had ever seen were 1 guy in an old porn mag I had found and he I would say was comparable to me hard at the time so thought nothing irregular. So once I found out and started being involved in school sports it was far from a secret. Most of the time guys seemed to not say anything or acknowledge it. I did a lot of skinny dipping at parties in which usually the only time guys ever said anything was after a couple drinks and most were jokes. It wasn't really a problem being big but gym shorts/basketball shorts were dangerous and the real problem was hiding it when it was erect. I did get called long lorne casually by some people as a joke, though there could have been worse it didnt bother me.

 

[jumbo747jet]

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