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Could I Be Asexual (to A Degree)?

Discussion in 'Ask an Asexual Person' started by Its Not Even Big, May 5, 2020.

  1. Its Not Even Big

    Its Not Even Big Experimental Member

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    Hey guys (and gals!), I'm a guy in his 20s and while I have never been with anybody (so, that means I'm a virgin), I find bodies disgusting; this is mostly because of its functions, but it's not limited to that. Some visuals are really gross to me as well. I find feet to be super ugly. It dumbfounds me as to how men have a foot fetish. I just cannot stand to look at anyone else's feet but my own. As for bodies; I find certain hair disgusting such as armpit hair, and that is only the visual, so I'm not even talking about the horrible body odor that would be omitted from it, which I obviously find disgusting as well. Then I imagine a female farting which is just gross to me, and don't get me started on the idea of them dropping steamy logs in the pearly white toilets. (This goes for men, too, but I am not gay, so I focus on the opposite gender instead). I know: It's natural, but I don't care. It just turns me off so badly. But, here's the tricky part: I am addicted to porn. I jerk off quite frequently. I bring parts of this topic up sometimes and the guys just shrug it all off and/or they have a foot fetish.. (where is the puking emoticon?)
     
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    It's possible that you could be asexual, but it is also possible that you have not dealt with your emotions in a healthy way when it comes to the fantasy of human beings vs. the reality of them.
     
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    I am no expert in asexuality. I am not even sure if I identify as one.

    Personally, I too am aroused with consuming porn in whichever form it comes in, may it be visual, audio, text, etc. But when it comes to imagining myself having sex, or actually having sex, it's weird for me. I think the closest label for me to identify as is autochorissexual.

    Doing further reflection on myself and why participating in sex is off for me. I theorize that maybe I am still not comfortable with my own skin. Or maybe it is my insecurity that is getting in the way. Or maybe I am just too cautious and afraid to open up and sex is the ultimate form of opening up to someone for me.

    Whichever is the case, my gender, romantic and sexual identity is fluid like everyone else. And the more I try to understand it, the closer I get to my truth.

    In your case, human body repulsed you for some reason. And you can identify as whatever label you are comfortable with at the moment. But it doesn't have to be fixed.

    If you want to understand more about why human bodies repulsed you and end up identify as another label. That is perfectly okay. If you want to leave it as "human bodies repulse me and I identify as -------", it is also great.

    It is your life. Live your truth. Let your freak flag fly.
     
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    I definitely understand. Though for me, Im not as repulsed by the body (i do have episodes where the thought of the body makes me want to puke, which, can last a few months) but for me I feel fairly indifferent to both the male and female anatomy. It's a thing that exists and that's just that. Sure i think a penis or a vagina can be an appealing thing to look at it, but i don't really care for any physical action. You could be asexual or somewhere in that spectrum. It is quite possible. Aces can enjoy porn and have sex. Some are disgusted by the idea of porn and sex. It's a limitedly large spectrum
     
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  5. Scarletbegonia

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    By chance are you on the autism spectrum or have OCD or related issues? Because you seem to be disgusted by....everything.
    I cannot believe you have never been around a woman or girl passing gas. And why focus on using the toilet?


    I have fully fuzzy pits and they rarely are in a state where they smell, and I have a strong sense of smell. They can be ripe on multi day hikes without shower facilities, but I remember when they were shaved, the sweat just sat, and stank. Let it wick away!
     
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  6. Scarletbegonia

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    Neat. But this is ask an Asexual.
    I don’t answer in ask a gay man/bi man/straight man/man or trans. Why are you answering here?
     
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    You’re confusing being an alpha with being an asshole, dude. Nobody here is impressed. Move along.


    As for the OP, hard to tell based on what you said if you’re asexual or not. Some asexual people are sexually repulsed, others are not. I agree with mineaminea that you seem to objectify other people rather than take them holistically as human beings. This is kind of further supported by you talking about loving porn so much, which is absolutely just the objectification of people to get off.

    I see no signs of asexuality in what you said about yourself, that’s all I can really say for sure.
     
  8. Scarletbegonia

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    Ok, now that I’ve stopped laughing for a moment over that lovely posting, let’s talk about a supposed insult in his vitriol.
    “I can see why no one will fuck you.”

    As I’ve mentioned, I’m demisexual, attracted sexually after connection has been made.
    Once that connection is made, desire is there, and it’s not a once a week deal. ( except right now. Fuck Coronavirus)
    Connection turns my attraction lock.
    Someone who cannot get laid when they want to is an internet troll, I mean celibate.
    Very different.

    Asexuality as I understand its definition is a lack ( of many degrees) of sexual desire and impulse.
    There are shades in here. Not to throw any.

    In theory, asexuality isn’t a mental condition, but to be so repulsed by the gender you claim to have done attraction to does sound like therapist territory.
    It seems more is going on there.
    I wish you peace, OP.
     
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