Cruising in the Gym Advice

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opinionman said:
The one in Dallas on Swiss Ave is a typical sex club. There is (or was) a weight lifting/gym area, which no one uses, tho' I did once, making sure anyone could see my jockstrap peeking out from my shorts.It's got small and med sized rooms, a sauna, a pool, a steam room an open shower with a hot tub. Guys just walk around cruising, usually wrapped in a towel. I myself wear a jockstrap. Guys are friendly enough and they're all there for the same reason, of course. I liked getting sucked off in the sauna... always had a thing for that.
I guess they're still in business.
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The one in Dallas is reminiscent of all of Dallas' cruising scene. People of the same background (racial, ethnic, body type, etc.) typically stay together and don't merge. People mainly walk around but don't do anything. And the ones that do, they don't want you to watch (in the public areas).

Now Club HOUSTON, that's a different story. For one, it's bigger. It's 2 stories. It attracts all different types of people and people are more open to play. It's cleaner. It's just an overall better experience.

Club Dallas I stayed about 2 hours, jerked myself of, and left. Club Houston, I stayed for 6 hours (until the sun came up), got plenty of play, and left happy.
 
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Treek said:
The one in Dallas is reminiscent of all of Dallas' cruising scene. People of the same background (racial, ethnic, body type, etc.) typically stay together and don't merge. People mainly walk around but don't do anything. And the ones that do, they don't want you to watch (in the public areas).

Now Club HOUSTON, that's a different story. For one, it's bigger. It's 2 stories. It attracts all different types of people and people are more open to play. It's cleaner. It's just an overall better experience.

Club Dallas I stayed about 2 hours, jerked myself of, and left. Club Houston, I stayed for 6 hours (until the sun came up), got plenty of play, and left happy.
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Too bad nothing like that is in San Antonio
 
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luke_ttx said:
That’s so hot. I’ve always wanted to visit a place like that but never had the balls to go. I’m DL and always afraid someone’s gonna see me
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I understand. The odds of someone seeing you are infinitesimal. Of Course, anyone you see would also be there for sex, tho I understand that for them it might not be as consequential as it would be for you. Such a shame we can't all be out in the open.
 
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luke_ttx said:
Too bad nothing like that is in San Antonio
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There is. The Z on Zarzamora. They’re open all week long, they have specials and everything. Busiest in the evening and weekends. It’s fun if you get a hottie. Or even if you just want a quick nut. Lmk if you have questions.
 
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The only cruising advise for public or private gyms is that if it doesn't happen organically for you, don't put effort. Once you put a concerted effort, you risk crossing a line or worse, making others uncomfortable. The temptation is very strong and especially after you have a good experience once. But if timing isn't right OR most importantly, you can't see or don't have very clear signs from the other party, leave it be and yes, go to a bath house. Trust you will have fun regardless.
 
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Pdm8705 said:
The only cruising advise for public or private gyms is that if it doesn't happen organically for you, don't put effort. Once you put a concerted effort, you risk crossing a line or worse, making others uncomfortable. The temptation is very strong and especially after you have a good experience once. But if timing isn't right OR most importantly, you can't see or don't have very clear signs from the other party, leave it be and yes, go to a bath house. Trust you will have fun regardless.
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The best advice, honestly
 
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Also, if you see other people cruising but they aren't engaging you, don't mess their vibe up. I know it effing sucks and especially if you're really into one or both of them but again, you'll get clear signs if they are game for you and if you don't see it, you gotta move on. Nothing worse than a dude not getting a hint. I've been on both sides so I know but the last thing I want to be is a creeper hanging around when he's not wanted and I know how frustrating it is when something almost happens but someone is getting in the way.
 
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Pdm8705 said:
Also, if you see other people cruising but they aren't engaging you, don't mess their vibe up. I know it effing sucks and especially if you're really into one or both of them but again, you'll get clear signs if they are game for you and if you don't see it, you gotta move on. Nothing worse than a dude not getting a hint. I've been on both sides so I know but the last thing I want to be is a creeper hanging around when he's not wanted and I know how frustrating it is when something almost happens but someone is getting in the way.
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I agree and disagree.
 
alwaysmale said:
Hey, guys. So today, I was leaving my gym and before I did, I saw something I've never seen there before. Usually, it's a lot of older guys and not very interesting, but I saw one guy at his locker totally nude, and he was just my tyoe. Athletic, masculine with a great ass and in fully disolay, Now when I see men like that nude in front of me, the first thing I want to do is get naked and join them. But I had a feeling that maybe doing this at a gym with a guy I didn't know would be reckless, so I just went on my way.

So what do you think, guys? Should I have said fuck it and gotten naked in front of him? How have you played off situations like this, and was it worth the risk? If I do see him again, I'd like to be prepared. Thanks.
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He was naked? What's the concern getting naked in front of him also? If he ignores you, too bad.. If not, well follow his vibe!
 
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