Damn Covid. What Do You Miss From Normal Times? What Will You Do Afterwards?

[Mephisto76]

As I am currently in confinement for the whole month of November, I was recently talking to friends about:

1. What do you mis the most (sexually) from pre-Covid times?
2. What will you do (sexually) once you are vaccinated?

For me, what I miss the most is being able to hook up, cruise, go to a gay sauna, hang out with friends in the public sauna. In general, to be around male sexual energy with or without the actual intention to have sex. That is what I miss the most. I have not been to a gay sauna since last December. Last summer I went to the “naked river” only twice, but was weary of getting close to anyone.

And what will I do after I am vaccinated? Like I told my doctor… I intend on making up for lost time. Get on PrEP again, and go wild. I think everyone will go a bit wild for the first few months.

How about others? What do you miss and what will you do after?

 

[Industrialsize]

I miss seeing my family.........

 

[Mephisto76]

I miss seeing my family.........

Don't get me wrong. With my family scattered in 3 different continents and having constant online chat and video, and anxiety of parents getting sick, etc etc I miss them too.
I was just fishing for the kinky angle of the sense of loss we (I) am going through...

 

[AnthonyAdkins]

Same thing I always do; try (and fail) to lose my virginity

 

[art]

I'm with you. I miss hanging out with gay friends... I miss just having a random nice guy unzip my jeans and suck my cock.I've got friends in LA I've been threatening to visit. That would be fun.

 

[nomju]

Non sexually, i miss not playing gigs with my band.
Sexually (sort of) i miss the gym. For the workout, but also for showing off my big soft dick in the showers.
But lock down has got us more sex. Bored with the TV now, we go to bed early, and fuck. That will end soon though, when our daughter comes home from university for Christmas.

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

I miss hitting all the lifestyle clubs and events me and my girl would go to. I miss all the MFF threesomes we would have.

 

[Player_01]

I had put on a lot of weight a couple years ago and then hurt back kinda bad in 2019 but was starting to get all that under control and was feeling good enough to put myself back out there at the beginning of 2020 after a long dry spell, thinking 2020 was going to be my year, and then Covid hit. So I'd like to go back to being a slut again

I miss seeing my family.........

I miss being able to leave my family I've been helping out my elderly parents and I'm wary of bringing home Covid. Before all this if I was feeling suffocated I could just leave town for a while, drive out of the state for a day trip, whatever. Blow off some steam, blowing a dude from Grindr. Anything. I can't really do that now.

I really hope one of the vaccines works and is available soon.

 

[Notaes]

I am married but Covid hasn’t changed my life much. I just want to fuck more as I get older and get all the pussy from my wife I can handle. She is pretty good about filling my needs as she knows me pretty well. I just want to maintain our closeness as a couple and fuck her real good! My cock aches for good pussy and usually she senses my desires. As I get older I just want to be a good man but keep my cock wet and fuck my brains out. Don’t want any regrets but my sex drive just keeps on ticking! My cock amazes me as I am approaching 68 years old. I just want to fuck more and more! Is this normal? I don’t know but I will take it. Want to see my family grow and see grandkids successful. Thank God for his blessings!

 

[TinyPrincess]

Strangely, I don't really miss sex.

Perhaps the urge will come back when it's possible to dance and have fun again.

 

[halcyondays]

I miss hanging out with the old gang - friends who get together every week or three for drinks and game night and occasionally attend festivals, restaurants and movies or theater together. We've been staying in touch via zoom but it's not the same. I look forward to picking up where we left off. Just having a normal social life again? Can't wait.

Via zoom I've seen more of my family (sibs) than ever, spread all over the country as we are. We haven't talked this much in years! Before covid it was the occasional text or phone call.

Sexually I miss pulling college lads who like worshiping my cock with their mouths before climbing on for a hot ride unbothered by the fact that I'm older than their fathers. That ended in early March. I also miss the younger wife of an older friend I've seen every week for several years with his permission. His health status is so precarious she cannot risk bringing covid home. She says we'll go off the rails if we ever get the all clear.

 

[xmarksbreakdownx]

I miss every fucking thing. LOL!

Once Covid is over I plan on joining some JO clubs, or going to some of the parties. I've had 8 months to build up the courage.

 

[ericbear]

I shall forever deeply miss Garry, who died early in this mess. Exactly my age, selfless and compassionate, he beat HIV for 4 long decades, strong and healthy, only to be consumed by covid in 4 short weeks.

I miss the ability to touch and hold others, whether to share our joy, commiserate our sorrows, or express our passion.

I miss Sunday afternoon beer bust at the gay bar, Underwear Sunday in particular.

I miss the big sex parties almost every weekend.

I miss the San Francisco street fairs.

I miss my life, such as it was.

This was supposed to be my blowout year, before I turn 60 in January. Oh, well...

 

[Mephisto76]

I am sorry for the passing of your friend.
I was recently talking to a psychologist who was explaining that we are all going through a collective mourning of the life we had. Hearing that hit me hard and got me thinking about the things I miss. You expressed it beautifully in your post: touching others (big bear hugs with the guys in my group of friends every time), underwear parties (My fav: Club Church in Amsterdam - so much fun), life outdoors, life!
I saw your photos and damn... How about you make next year your blowout year? I bet once we get vaccinated you will have lines of guys waiting to blow you. There is nothing hotter than a hot 60 year old hung hunk like you. Keep it up. There's still alot of guys out there who deserve to see you, feel you, and worship you.

I shall forever deeply miss Garry, who died early in this mess. Exactly my age, selfless and compassionate, he beat HIV for 4 long decades, strong and healthy, only to be consumed by covid in 4 short weeks.
I miss the ability to touch and hold others, whether to share our joy, commiserate our sorrows, or express our passion.
I miss Sunday afternoon beer bust at the gay bar, Underwear Sunday in particular.
I miss the big sex parties almost every weekend.
I miss the San Francisco street fairs.
I miss my life, such as it was.
This was supposed to be my blowout year, before I turn 60 in January. Oh, well...