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[johnjohnston]

I listened to a bit of their podcast. Some interesting insights but nothing that I didn’t already know. And honestly, he’s not really in the world of “straight porn”. He’s still a queer porn performer. Getting a few hetero clips doesn’t really mean that you’ve legit crossed over and are within the world of straight porn.

But he’s definitely starting to try to actively detach from a “queer” image. From being fine with multiple sites referring to him as “straight”, to getting upset for being called out for bottoming off-camera and dating a guy. He’s definitely now trying to be seen as more of a “kinky ‘straight’ guy”. While I also understand that porn is just a game about money and ego and that fluidity, contradictions, hyper sexuality, masculine insecurities, contrasting places in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, commitment spectrum- these are all common in the porn industry. But his and a ton of guys’ actions and presentation does highlight “straight”/hetero-leaning/non-homo privilege, highlights how many of these dudes are willing to sellout and publicly distance from queerness for female and hetero appeal, highlights that a lot of these dudes see “gay” as a stepping stone or as something pathetic. You can’t participate in that stuff but also want to occasionally lean on your “queer pride” because you still mostly depend on gay porn and your queer male fans. But I suppose this is all par for the course when it comes to porn.

 

[johnjohnston]

I've listened to Dante on 2 podcasts now...one solo and one with Michael DelRay. Both were interesting hearing about the differences between the straight and gay sides of porn

The problem is now he’s trying to push the “I never messed around with guys before I started porn” stuff, which completely contradicts what he said when he first got into porn. He’s also pushing the “I don’t bottom for guys off camera” stuff, which a couple of dudes have disputed. While he clearly no longer wants to bottom for guys on camera because it’ll reduce his hetero opportunities. And he also clearly doesn’t want folks to know he’s had same-sex relationships. He’s definitely leaning into the “I’m just a freaky ‘straight’ guy who’ll mess around with whoever” narrative.

It’s just really hard to believe anything these porn performers put out there. I understand that this is a job. I also understand that sexuality, fluidity, hyper sensitive sexuality, queer and masculine insecurities, mental health struggles, trying to understand your place in the gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum- these are struggles for a lot of these guys. However, if you want real progress then hopping from persona to persona and rebuilding a new narrative every year and trying to reduce your queer image and not let people know how much you’re into your sex doesn’t help. You’re just playing the same old sociological games. Don’t expect people to take your whining or claims of “pride” or your stories seriously.

 

[Valerio023u]

Because is he embarrassed if someone say that he bottomed off camera? That's not something to be embarrassed about, and he still doesn't know that the majority of his audience is gay?

I thought he was bi, but if what you say is true than he is acting like those arrogant heteros

 

[johnjohnston]

I believe it was about a year ego when he claimed that he didn’t bottom for dudes off camera. And then a couple of guys (who apparently had sexual interactions with him outside of porn and OnlyFans) called him out for lying. He was unabashed about dating guys a few years ago. Now, he seems very secretive when it comes to his love life and his dating history.

There’s a lot of male porn performers who have snuffed out/manipulated their queer image in order to make sure that they get hetero and female acceptance. While there’s a handful of “straight presenting” guys who only do hetero porn but live a “queer lifestyle” off camera, some even have a whole ass boyfriend or are at least overall homo-leaning when it comes to the sexual, affection, romantic attachment, emotional investment, relationship contentment, commitment spectrum.

As someone who’s inherently pan-sexual, it is corny to see so many bi/pan/“guys who have experienced some fluidity” presenting dudes promoting gay shame, non-homo superiority, constantly playing ego games and coming up with ways to work the system and build whatever image that they want. But all of this is standard porn performer stuff. Many guys have done the same. This is still ultimately a hetero dominant world, there’s still a ton of internalized phobias and gay panic, men are often driven by their insecurities and ego, porn is a job, social media is pretty much a game for many folks, and many performers experience mental health struggles. This does make it easier to forgive or at least easier to accept that it is what it is.

 

[Diaz]

Reading some of the comments about him makes me feel a little disappointed with his behavior, because I am sure that if he had dated any famous Hollywood actor who was openly gay, he would not try to deny it, he would make sure that it was always mentioned in his interviews.

 

[johnjohnston]

At the end of the day, he’s just another attention and money whore who’s willing to sellout and create whatever image is needed for opportunities and ego. Like John Johnson, Wolf Hudson, Sergeant Miles, etc., he’s another guy who can’t quite make the full transition into hetero porn because the money and job opportunities aren’t consistent enough. So, they promote fake “bi pride” while still desperately and consistently looking for hetero and female approval, making sure that their image doesn’t come off “too gay” or like they’re too much into guys, and pretty much leaning on their “queerness” as a safety net. They all come off like insecure sellouts whose queerness is a matter of convenience.

I understand that sexuality is a very personalized thing and that many folks in porn contend with fluidity, contradictions, hyper sexuality, paraphiliacs, mental health struggles, internalized phobias, masculine insecurities, gay resentments, uncertainty about their place in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic attachment, emotional investment, commitment spectrum. However, don’t hype up your queer/bi/fluid/whatever pride for attention, status and money while still covertly promoting hetero superiority, gay relationship shame, bottom shame, homo inferiority. It’s such a tired pattern and predictable pattern when it comes to male porn performers. But these dudes do need to be called out.

 

[Valerio023u]

I believe it was about a year ego when he claimed that he didn’t bottom for dudes off camera. And then a couple of guys (who apparently had sexual interactions with him outside of porn and OnlyFans) called him out for lying. He was unabashed about dating guys a few years ago. Now, he seems very secretive when it comes to his love life and his dating history.

There’s a lot of male porn performers who have snuffed out/manipulated their queer image in order to make sure that they get hetero and female acceptance. While there’s a handful of “straight presenting” guys who only do hetero porn but live a “queer lifestyle” off camera, some even have a whole ass boyfriend or are at least overall homo-leaning when it comes to the sexual, affection, romantic attachment, emotional investment, relationship contentment, commitment spectrum.

As someone who’s inherently pan-sexual, it is corny to see so many bi/pan/“guys who have experienced some fluidity” presenting dudes promoting gay shame, non-homo superiority, constantly playing ego games and coming up with ways to work the system and build whatever image that they want. But all of this is standard porn performer stuff. Many guys have done the same. This is still ultimately a hetero dominant world, there’s still a ton of internalized phobias and gay panic, men are often driven by their insecurities and ego, porn is a job, social media is pretty much a game for many folks, and many performers experience mental health struggles. This does make it easier to forgive or at least easier to accept that it is what it is.

Exactly

 

[xis_dz]

I believe it was about a year ego when he claimed that he didn’t bottom for dudes off camera. And then a couple of guys (who apparently had sexual interactions with him outside of porn and OnlyFans) called him out for lying. He was unabashed about dating guys a few years ago. Now, he seems very secretive when it comes to his love life and his dating history.

There’s a lot of male porn performers who have snuffed out/manipulated their queer image in order to make sure that they get hetero and female acceptance. While there’s a handful of “straight presenting” guys who only do hetero porn but live a “queer lifestyle” off camera, some even have a whole ass boyfriend or are at least overall homo-leaning when it comes to the sexual, affection, romantic attachment, emotional investment, relationship contentment, commitment spectrum.

As someone who’s inherently pan-sexual, it is corny to see so many bi/pan/“guys who have experienced some fluidity” presenting dudes promoting gay shame, non-homo superiority, constantly playing ego games and coming up with ways to work the system and build whatever image that they want. But all of this is standard porn performer stuff. Many guys have done the same. This is still ultimately a hetero dominant world, there’s still a ton of internalized phobias and gay panic, men are often driven by their insecurities and ego, porn is a job, social media is pretty much a game for many folks, and many performers experience mental health struggles. This does make it easier to forgive or at least easier to accept that it is what it is.

Who made claims that they were his fwb if you don't mind saying?

 

[johnjohnston]

I don’t know about “FWB”. I believe it was a couple of fellow porn performers who called him out for lying about bottoming. It’s the porn industry. They’re all messing with each other on and off camera. So, that’s no big deal. What stood out was that he wanted to make it a point that people knew that he didn’t bottom for guys off camera. Now, he doesn’t seem to want to bottom even on camera any longer.

There’s a belief that bottoming for guys equates to being more likely contract STI’s, and there’s still the persistent nonsense that bottoming for guys is “more ‘gay” than topping or sucking dick. I am not here to control people’s sex lives and what they will and won’t do. But he’s clearly concerned with trying to craft an image that is “queer-ish” while also making sure that he doesn’t come off “too ‘gay”, too into dudes, too homo-romantic/homo-affectionate/homo relationship, in order to secure more hetero work and also for the sake of ego. Money, sociology, ego, fluidity, hyper sexuality, mental health struggles, internalized phobias, insecurities are always gonna be a driving force for men, especially in sex work. It all is what it is. Just don’t try to push your supposed “pride” when you’re still hella concerned with branding, image and ego.

 

[xis_dz]

I don’t know about “FWB”. I believe it was a couple of fellow porn performers who called him out for lying about bottoming. It’s the porn industry. They’re all messing with each other on and off camera. So, that’s no big deal. What stood out was that he wanted to make it a point that people knew that he didn’t bottom for guys off camera. Now, he doesn’t seem to want to bottom even on camera any longer.

There’s a belief that bottoming for guys equates to being more likely contract STI’s, and there’s still the persistent nonsense that bottoming for guys is “more ‘gay” than topping or sucking dick. I am not here to control people’s sex lives and what they will and won’t do. But he’s clearly concerned with trying to craft an image that is “queer-ish” while also making sure that he doesn’t come off “too ‘gay”, too into dudes, too homo-romantic/homo-affectionate/homo relationship, in order to secure more hetero work and also for the sake of ego. Money, sociology, ego, fluidity, hyper sexuality, mental health struggles, internalized phobias, insecurities are always gonna be a driving force for men, especially in sex work. It all is what it is. Just don’t try to push your supposed “pride” when you’re still hella concerned with branding, image and ego.

I agree, I like Dante but he is hella obsessed with branding. I did see an interview he did where he said bottoming is not something he does any more bc of the prep time required. I was just side eyeing the hell out of that lol. Don't get me started on how he quickly detached himself from MDR as soon as everyone started speculating that they were together. Lmao. Poor M...

 

[johnjohnston]

He was rolling with Aspen for a while. Now, it appears he’s distanced from him as well. It seems like he always needs a (damaged) male performer sidekick in his corner to hype him up and fuck girls on camera with him. While he also wants to make sure it doesn’t come off like a relationship and that neither dude comes off “too ‘gay”/too into guys.

The more time he spends in the industry the more he comes off like a user and manipulator that’s almost entirely driven by insecurities, ego, image and money. Oh well. Not the first, won’t be the last.

 

[johnjohnston]

John Johnson/Ace Rockwood pretty much used a drug addled Criss Strokes to help gain him an in into hetero porn. Once he started his site, he completely dismissed his previous gay porn past and his previous “gay” identity, all while him and Criss were fuck buddies (and maybe legit boyfriends) off camera. Then when he was no longer making much money off of his hetero site, he suddenly wanted to be “queer presenting” again, just in time for Criss to get kicked out of “mainstream” hetero porn. While there’s plenty of other guys who have indulged a lot of nonsense and manipulation.

Like I said, I understand that this is ultimately a business. While there’s still plenty of male homophobia in general and including in sex work. And a lot of people in this industry contend with fluidity, contradictions, hyper sexuality, paraphiliacs, insecurities, drug addiction, mental health struggles, trying to grasp their place in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic attachment, emotional investment, relationship contentment, commitment spectrum. But there’s just too much shadiness, manipulation, selling out, leeching and gay shaming to take any of these guys seriously.

 

[xis_dz]

He was rolling with Aspen for a while. Now, it appears he’s distanced from him as well. It seems like he always needs a (damaged) male performer sidekick in his corner to hype him up and fuck girls on camera with him. While he also wants to make sure it doesn’t come off like a relationship and that neither dude comes off “too ‘gay”/too into guys.

The more time he spends in the industry the more he comes off like a user and manipulator that’s almost entirely driven by insecurities, ego, image and money. Oh well. Not the first, won’t be the last.

Yes, he definitely did this with Aspen too. These guys fall for him and he leaves them in the dust like it's nothing.

 

[KTOSLosek]

Didn't knew Dante is that bad and vile.
Was sure he's nice and cool

 

[Diaz]

He reminds me of Vadim Black's behavior a few years ago, when he realizes that it will start to negatively affect his career, he will backtrack.

 

[xis_dz]

He reminds me of Vadim Black's behavior a few years ago, when he realizes that it will start to negatively affect his career, he will backtrack.

This. he is way too self aware , but in a calculating way. It has worked for him career wise, but he definitely allows certain things to be collateral damage in the process.

 

[Valerio023u]

Yes, he definitely did this with Aspen too. These guys fall for him and he leaves them in the dust like it's nothing.

Also I think he did the same to Michael delray, they were everywhere together, now they don't even interact (if I'm not wrong).

I'm disappointed but not surprised.

I really hate when people who identify as "fluid" come up with this straight sensibility shit.
Like... If have sex with other guys in private, if you bottom, if you date with a guy, that doesn't matter, being a bottom or doing those things in private doesn't make you more or less gay

 

[johnjohnston]

A few years ago when he was constantly whining about women not wanting to work with him and was trying to use male homophobia to boost his profile and turn himself into a victim, I could tell he was on some sneaky and manipulative shit. So, nothing he’s done since has surprised me.

Both in and out of porn/sex work: Everyone has their own sexuality and sexual journey and their own degrees of experience or non experience with fluidity. Everyone has their own dimensions and traumas and struggles and mental health and psychology. Everyone has their own motivations and ambitions. Everyone has their own place in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic attachment, emotional investment, relationship comfort, commitment spectrum. Male homophobia, internalized phobias, toxic masculinity, queer insecurities, gay panic, the fragility of the male ego, hetero dominance, sociology, money- these will always be things that guide men and effect what they do and how they present themselves. All of this is why I don’t take people that seriously but especially in the porn world. People are a mess.

It is what it is. For a lot of guys their career, status, ego, fitting more into the “straight world” and female approval matters a lot to them. And they will use their degrees of “queerness” as a stepping stone and pretty much leech off of “gays” until they what they want. And then suddenly it’s “I never messed around with guys before porn”, “I don’t bottom”, “I’ve never had a romantic attachment to my sex”, “I’ve never had any same-sex relationships”… if they don’t become full-on homophobic and gay panic-y. We’ve unfortunately seen this type of insecurities and selling out and leeching time and time again.

 

[johnjohnston]

I really hate when people who identify as "fluid" come up with this straight sensibility shit.

A lot of guys want to be “out” and take whatever social and financial advantage of “queerness” they can. But they still emulate “straight’ fuck-boy” energy, still see the world through a hetero-dominant prism, still get panic-y when it comes to the word “gay” or coming off “too ‘gay”, still promote homo insecurities/non-homo superiority. Yet, they expect folks to praise and worship them because of their looks and because they admit to somewhat being into dudes.

 

[Rei Hino]

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