freedomm
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I don't think Dante's sexuality matters to me at all. Why does it matter to some people though? Gotta love him though.
.It doesn’t matter. I’ve already said many times that I don’t care about his or anyone else’s sexuality. I recognize porn is a job. I recognize porn performers mostly offer personas rather than their real selves. And I also recognize that perhaps most porn performers/sex workers are in the bi/pan spectrum, or experience degrees of fluidity and hyper-sexuality, or are generally in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum.
I was talking less about about sexualities and more about how some guys are willing to sellout or queer erase or shield gay relationships for the sake of ego and opportunities and “straight” appeal. I was talking about the industry’s “straight” worship, non homo privilege, masculine privilege, internalized phobias and gay shaming. I was talking about using people and demographics as stepping stones and feeling perfectly fine doing so because you admit to some degree of queerness. The conversation I was having was not merely about someone’s “sexuality”. But y’all love to take nuanced conversations and make them basic to maintain fantasy.
Nice manYou guys are talking like he's some terrible person. I pretty sure he's still a relatively nice guy. Anyways
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Lucky girl who gets to see him in that bathroom like that
It doesn’t matter. I’ve already said many times that I don’t care about his or anyone else’s sexuality. I recognize porn is a job. I recognize porn performers mostly offer personas rather than their real selves. And I also recognize that perhaps most porn performers/sex workers are in the bi/pan spectrum, or experience degrees of fluidity and hyper-sexuality, or are generally in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum.
I was talking less about about sexualities and more about how some guys are willing to sellout or queer erase or shield gay relationships for the sake of ego and opportunities and “straight” appeal. I was talking about the industry’s “straight” worship, non homo privilege, masculine privilege, internalized phobias and gay shaming. I was talking about using people and demographics as stepping stones and feeling perfectly fine doing so because you admit to some degree of queerness. The conversation I was having was not merely about someone’s “sexuality”. But y’all love to take nuanced conversations and make them basic to maintain fantasy.
It's pretty reductive to assume sex workers are broken. It's just as plausible that he enjoys sex work, and makes more money doing it than working a 9-5. Not to mention the freedom of being able to make your own schedule, and not be bound by your employers rules. As sex positive as this forum is I get frustrated with comments like yours because it's incredibly small minded and puritanical. Working in the sex industry doesn't mean you are broken, less than, abused, or mentally ill. It's a subtle way of othering sex workers as lower than you.Some of y'all out here acting like he's this horrible person because he doesn't identify as strictly gay. Jesus...he's a fucking sex worker! All these people are broken in some way, otherwise they wouldn't be sex workers. Dante was & still is one of the less messy porn stars I've seen in the last several years but the fact is, he's not getting any younger & has shit to think about/sort out. Stop overthinking everything.