Photo Derek martin - gorgeous fitness guy

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Being a high profile public figure/entertainer opens you up to public discussion, including aging and talks of lust over love. I’m curious how many would become fans/desire Derek if they were introduced to him now as opposed to years ago. I’m bi and one of my concerns is that once I’m no longer attracted will I want newer and younger unless we miraculously have built up some new bond. At a new phase I’ve yet to experience? The dad bod is cool and all, but that’s not what I “go gay” for. So I’m following watching his development and transformation.
 
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Being a high profile public figure/entertainer opens you up to public discussion, including aging and talks of lust over love. I’m curious how many would become fans/desire Derek if they were introduced to him now as opposed to years ago. I’m bi and one of my concerns is that once I’m no longer attracted will I want newer and younger unless we miraculously have built up some new bond. At a new phase I’ve yet to experience? The dad bod is cool and all, but that’s not what I “go gay” for. So I’m following watching his development and transformation.
Look at that handsome mug. Daddy’s gotta “POUNDDDDDDDDD” me into oblivion. He’s still got it. At least from where I’m standing. That smile of his! I’d get so weak, I’d give up my right arm, left nut and a whole lotta my stuff if he just flirted with me and asked me nicely.
 
Has he done anything with a guy ?

Interesting topic of discussion, actually, as theres deeper psychological underpinnings here. (I won't be offended if people TLDR this post.)

As people age, not only do their bodies change, but obviously their mental outlooks and tastes change as well.

I think there's some truth to the theory that everyone is (even if only subconsciously) looking for the 'Bigger Better Deal".

Most of the "Deek Aesthetic" pics are taken from when Derek was late teens/early 20s, and at peak physical perfection. As he aged, life caught up with him (again, physically and mentally), and his body changed.

And, as he changed over the years, so did his fans. Some still longed for "Peak Deek", and found other that fit their desired bill better, while others outlooks changed with him. (No judgement either way: peoples tastes are always personal!!)

For me? Said it before, but I'll say it again: I love seeing and remembering vintage pics/vids from DeekAesthetic! But I find currentDerek much more appealing to current me, both in his temperanent and his body evolution.

Sorry if I got off-topic, but the armchair psychologust on me finds this topic fascinating!
 
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Being a high profile public figure/entertainer opens you up to public discussion, including aging and talks of lust over love. I’m curious how many would become fans/desire Derek if they were introduced to him now as opposed to years ago. I’m bi and one of my concerns is that once I’m no longer attracted will I want newer and younger unless we miraculously have built up some new bond. At a new phase I’ve yet to experience? The dad bod is cool and all, but that’s not what I “go gay” for. So I’m following watching his development and transformation.
relationships are complicated. even if you do truly love someone, no longer being physically attracted to them is a valid deal breaker. or, maybe its not a deal breaker. or maybe you find something new thats attractive about them. or maybe youre attracted to their personality in the first place. its all a very personal thing, and you wont really know how you’d feel until youre in the situation yourself. my advice is just to not worry about it going into relationships. if things change for you, then its time for you to reassess things.
 
relationships are complicated. even if you do truly love someone, no longer being physically attracted to them is a valid deal breaker. or, maybe its not a deal breaker. or maybe you find something new thats attractive about them. or maybe youre attracted to their personality in the first place. its all a very personal thing, and you wont really know how you’d feel until youre in the situation yourself. my advice is just to not worry about it going into relationships. if things change for you, then its time for you to reassess things.
It just seems like such a vapid pursuit and makes me question do I really “like” guys if I want to friend zone them after the sexual attraction wanes. I feel the same for women but at least it’s not controversial to be with a woman, that’s an extra reason for me to break up if it’s a guy
 
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Being a high profile public figure/entertainer opens you up to public discussion, including aging and talks of lust over love. I’m curious how many would become fans/desire Derek if they were introduced to him now as opposed to years ago. I’m bi and one of my concerns is that once I’m no longer attracted will I want newer and younger unless we miraculously have built up some new bond. At a new phase I’ve yet to experience? The dad bod is cool and all, but that’s not what I “go gay” for. So I’m following watching his development and transformation.
he became so dilfy I think I'd be even more crazy for him if he was like that in the beginning
 
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