I have heard men say they tried being with a man and didn't like it, so they wouldn't do it again. So you could have a point about experimenting. Not sure how that conclusion was made tho. No one knows what goes on in private. Him showing his butt so much is pandering to gay men cause he know that's what we wanna see and he's doing that for us. How many women thinking and saying , ooh I wanna see what that hole look like?
A little extreme, but I agree with your point. If we willingly do something, we had to have thought about it to make the choice to do it. I hate the term gay 4 pay. It makes no sense to me. If you continue to have sex with men willingly, then you like it. Or maybe it's just me, but I'm not doing anything I don't wanna do just for the money. Especially if it's the complete opposite of what I'm into.