Do gay male couples have anal sex everyday????
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From all the research I've seen (and yes, this research is out there), most queer male couples use anal as an addition to their sex life, not the main course. I'm sure there are some that do, but despite what porn would tell us - and we all know what a good gauge that is - oral, mutual masturbation, and the myriad other things queer guys get up to fill up most of the menu. This totally follows with most of the couples I know personally.
As for irrigating every time, I hope there aren't too many bottoms out there doing that. It's actually not good for your colon, and quickly makes you more likely to contract something.
As for irrigating every time, I hope there aren't too many bottoms out there doing that. It's actually not good for your colon, and quickly makes you more likely to contract something.
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Anal sex is not unique to the gay community. Heterosexuals engage in anal sex as well. Some straight men get off on anally penetrating their female partners. Some straight men get off on having their female partners anally penetrate them with a strap on penis. Conversely, there are many gay couples who don't engage in anal sex at all.
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My first guy (of the two) had a 5 incher (the second was way smaller, bit it still worked!). He was uncircumcised and was easily able to penetrate me, without lube. He'd pull the foreskin up over the head, as far as he could and then just press it against my opening. He sort of unraveled it into me.
Bizarre! I had no idea this was possible! There was no friction, when he pumped in and out, until the moment, at the very end, when he got bigger, thicker and harder and in the throes of orgasm, pushed in a little deeper. Maybe an inch of unlubricated penetration, that nearly made me have an orgasm.
I think he could have done that, every day and I could have gotten ready, after going to the bathroom, in the morning, then using the stream-feature, on the removable shower head, to just empty/rinse out, the rectum. Not a high-colonic, or anything, just a wash-out of the last 9 inches, or so.
Bizarre! I had no idea this was possible! There was no friction, when he pumped in and out, until the moment, at the very end, when he got bigger, thicker and harder and in the throes of orgasm, pushed in a little deeper. Maybe an inch of unlubricated penetration, that nearly made me have an orgasm.
I think he could have done that, every day and I could have gotten ready, after going to the bathroom, in the morning, then using the stream-feature, on the removable shower head, to just empty/rinse out, the rectum. Not a high-colonic, or anything, just a wash-out of the last 9 inches, or so.
I know a girl who gets it up the ass almost every night (from her husband) and from me a few times a month. She totally flushes out for him (a real deep clean). With me, she will do a lite clean just before she meets me since we never know for sure when we can meet. She is a total anal slut (I pat myself on the back for turning her into one) and would rather have it up her ass 8 out of 10 times. I know that keeping it too clean back there is not great for the bacteria that live in the lower intestinal tract, but he won't do her ass unless its cleaned out and she's hook on anal. She keeps a balanced diet and hasn't had any problems yet.
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You shoulda met any of my exes, but bottoms sing my song
I am sure they do! :biggrin:
Did they get fucked evrynight for a prolonged period of time? I know you require they be squeaky clean (I think I remember you saying in a thread a while back that you would obsreve the clean out process, well sans the actual expelling. It was back when I first joined) so did you notice if they had any issues with douching daily?
I know when I was with my ex in Sacrramento I did and I had horrid issues from it. Not the sex but the daily rinse out. I was wanting anal every day and he wanted me totally cleaned out. We were fucking 3 times a day or so. Rinsing out before each time.
I kept rinsing out the thin mucus layer that makes shitting not a dry painful ordeal. I would have to douche just to go, regardless of if we weere fucking or not. Not fun.It took a few months forr me to restore balance after we broke up.
Yet I am reading some people seem to have no issue at all.
What has been your experience Mr. Bb?
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B_Nicodemous
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Aha! Found the quote if yours I was mentioning in my post Bb!
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My memory ROCKS!!!!! That was from almost a year back (11/15/2010)
SO my q remains Mr. Bb: Unless they were a string of one or a couple nighters, when you were in LTR did you fuck everyday, with the same bottom, and if you did you require (as it seems you do) them to do a full clean out, and did they have any complications form that done the line?
EDIT: I think this was one of the first times we interacted with each other, as you were responding to my post! I don't know if it was the very first (even MY awesome memory has limits!)
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Nice to know some pays attention
The above advice is spot-on. Douche with water (not the chemicals they put in enemas), hold until you simply cannot any longer, then let go on the toilet. Repeat this at least one more time.
Drying time is essential; nothing less than an hour will do, but longer is better. You must allow all the water to either be completely eliminated or absorbed, otherwise you'll get leakage, which ain't pretty.
In a different forum, a female member (who enjoys a good butt-fucking), suggests fasting most of the day prior but eating a hearty meal a hour or two before (for energy). That sounded like a great idea.
Though I have zero interest in scat, I have been known to supervise a wash-out in the interest of making sure it's done properly (especially with a guy with less experience). I leave, of course, during the actual release.
Yeah...I'm really that much of a controlling Dom
My memory ROCKS!!!!! That was from almost a year back (11/15/2010)
SO my q remains Mr. Bb: Unless they were a string of one or a couple nighters, when you were in LTR did you fuck everyday, with the same bottom, and if you did you require (as it seems you do) them to do a full clean out, and did they have any complications form that done the line?
EDIT: I think this was one of the first times we interacted with each other, as you were responding to my post! I don't know if it was the very first (even MY awesome memory has limits!)
That sounds really hot. And I dont want to come off like a jerk giving you a hard time for your claiming to be 90% straight; Im just wondering, if this is who you are 10% of the time; what the fuck are you up to the other 90%?
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I can say for us anal sex is not important and it does not happen very often. Oral sex is more enjoyable to us.
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One ex, a lovely Venezuelan with whom I lived for four years when we were in our 20s, springs most immediately to mind. He was a ravenous bottom, and we fucked very nearly every night for the first year or so that we were together (out of four, total), then several times weekly after that. If he douched then he did it very discretely, because I never saw any evidence of it, but he did take two showers a day. I recall him being sparkling clean and fresh both inside and out.
Another hungry-hole ex, whom I met on my 35th birthday, rinsed out when he felt it was required, but not every time necessarily. He always showered before sex, too.
I've personally always preferred duration over frequency; instead of fucking 3-4 times per day, I more enjoy once for an extended period (between one and two hours when I was younger, over three hours now). Obviously you've seen that extreme douching to the extent you were doing it is harmful.
Anyone really concerned about this should eat a lot more active-culture yogurt. It helps keep everything balanced in the digestive system naturally.
None of my LTRs would have found it appropriate for me to supervise a wash-out; the dynamics of our relationships were always pretty vanilla. I always reserved the extreme stuff for one-off hook-ups and short-term FBs. As I've been single now (since 2004), and I've met a lot more freaks (in a good sense), I've become spoiled and have progressed from top to Dom. Administering a douch is much more a Dom thing than a top thing. Most guys I meet online arrive all prepped, however, if I meet a guy in a bar he usually isn't spotless and needs a rinse.
In all the years I've been fucking ass, I've never heard a bottom complain about douching.
BTW: you get an extra ten points for remembering that post. I wouldn't have known where to look :redface:
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Yeah. Once i was done with him, it too about 2 1/2 moths of yogurt, and tons of soluble fiber in the beginning then the reg balance of soluble and insoluble fiber to get back to normal.
Why the soluble? Well take an over ripe banana, open it a bit, and squeeze out, notice the residue? I NEEDED that just to supplement the mucus membrane that was depleted. Then later a regular balance of sol and insol fiber was fine. Horrid first month though.
No I would never rinse out to that extreme ever again. But what did I know? I was nineteen, for crying out loud! What pisses me off now, is that we were only doing pure vanilla stuff, and I would have been fine with the one rinse a day if that. Especially seeing as he didn't last long. FFS definitely not long enough to worry about jostling anything loose
! Yeah it was that minute man jerk I mentioned in the other thread. *sigh*I know my body's natural rhythm enough to be like your two ex's. If I KNOW I have a chance of more deep exploration or extreme play, then I will do a serious clean out. Course it helps that I only see my Guy every two months, so a deep clean for him is pretty much a given :tongue:! But if we lived together I think if he wanted to fuck me every day (and I would love that) then a high fiber diet and just avoiding the time span of, oh say 3am to 7 am (TMI alert: I go every day, usually at 4am. Who needs an alarm clock) then for regular play, I wouldn't worry too much. A quick shower and attention to my hole, would be fine, with the occasional rectum only quick rinse thrown in (as needed and as much as my body will allow).
Then we could have the deep clean out for the marathon fucks that I would want on the weekends, ya know, the ones that we'd definitely be venturing away for the more vanilla-y sex and possibly into things that one would want a "no doubt in my mind" squeaky clean hole:biggrin1:
EDIT: Oh I nearly forgot! Bb, my memory, as I have said in various forums, and blogs, is damn near frightening at times, lol! But before you give me the full ten points let me break down how I remembered:
Huh, i think he mentioned this. When did he? Recently? Noooo... When I first joined? Yeah that seems right. What did he say.Something bout fastidiousness. He observed. Said he was that hard-assed or something. Why did he say that? OH! He supervised the clean out! But not the release part.
Then I posted.
When I had the time I went to my earliest post and skimmed back till i found it.
Really not that remarkable.:redface: But thanks for the points!
How many did I get to begin with, as these were "an extra ten points"?:wink:
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The OP is asking if having to "douche/clean" everyday, tiresome... Not if the actual anal sex everyday is tiresome.
If I was in a relationship, I would like to play with my partner everyday... But as I am bottom, I do think it would be a bit of a hassle to prepare myself every night... It usually takes over 30 minutes for me, but it's often worth it ;-)
If I was in a relationship, I would like to play with my partner everyday... But as I am bottom, I do think it would be a bit of a hassle to prepare myself every night... It usually takes over 30 minutes for me, but it's often worth it ;-)
Not just every day, I belive, every second!! And did you know that everytime a hetrosexual couple has anal sex, which has happened once or twice in the history of humanity, a baby panda dies. That`s why there are so many pandas left.... Becausehetro sexuals don`t have anal... Yea...
Did that reply match the seriousness of the question, or do I have to try even harder?
Did that reply match the seriousness of the question, or do I have to try even harder?
