Do gay male couples have anal sex everyday????

[1373263]

How do you have anal sex every day? If sex is 2-3 times a day, after two days my ass will be gaping.

It comes up again and again about "anal makes you loose". Maybe if you are rough and insensitive about it, but my experience in both positions is that if taken gently and gradually, taking a big cock will over time improve muscle tone and allow the bottom to grip and pulse while being fucked- things that drive tops wild.
BF and I have sex at least once a day and usually twice, and we are both vers, so one of us will be taking the other at least once daily. No drama, just a rinse with warm water only in the shower. We rarely have issues now, but when I first took him I had problems as he was long and girthy enough to disturb my bend and there would be a little mess if he went balls- deep. It quickly went away, not sure if my "bend" moved up, rectum stretched or I got better at cleaning right up there. The urgency issue went away quickly as muscle tone grew and I've had no repeats.
He took a lot while longer to get used to me as someone new to taking cock; I coached him past the wanting to expel stage and he can take me without issue now, initially he was convinced his arse was broken (and quite upset) as his perception of "full" was different and there were some messy days where I made him take clean underwear, but no repeats. I recall the same thing when I first stated using a dildo but I had no-one to guide me and I was really worried I had dome permanent damage, but looking back it wasn't any different from a stomach upset.

 

[AgHarley]

It comes up again and again about "anal makes you loose". Maybe if you are rough and insensitive about it, but my experience in both positions is that if taken gently and gradually, taking a big cock will over time improve muscle tone and allow the bottom to grip and pulse while being fucked- things that drive tops wild.
BF and I have sex at least once a day and usually twice, and we are both vers, so one of us will be taking the other at least once daily. No drama, just a rinse with warm water only in the shower. We rarely have issues now, but when I first took him I had problems as he was long and girthy enough to disturb my bend and there would be a little mess if he went balls- deep. It quickly went away, not sure if my "bend" moved up, rectum stretched or I got better at cleaning right up there. The urgency issue went away quickly as muscle tone grew and I've had no repeats.
He took a lot while longer to get used to me as someone new to taking cock; I coached him past the wanting to expel stage and he can take me without issue now, initially he was convinced his arse was broken (and quite upset) as his perception of "full" was different and there were some messy days where I made him take clean underwear, but no repeats. I recall the same thing when I first stated using a dildo but I had no-one to guide me and I was really worried I had dome permanent damage, but looking back it wasn't any different from a stomach upset.

So interesting. Thank you for sharing your story.

 

[Jlatinochub]

My husband and I have sex almost everyday, but it is not anal everyday. We frot and mutually masturbate together as well. Oral is the other thing we do

 

[deleted1074483]

yes pretty much we have full anal sex every day, just back from holiday and we were having sex 3/4 times a day some days. There are days we don't feel like it and just cuddle or do other stuff. If i've been a bit rough one night then he may need a day off from full penetration or me to just be super gentle with him but we always agree ahead or 'in the moment' if we're going to be a bit rougher than usual.

some posts talk of the hassle of being 'clean', and i see this written a lot, no you do not need to douche at all/every day if you're a bottom - you just need a good diet of 'clean' food, lots of water etc, if you eat shit then your ass will be less clean and more shitty. Very occasionally with my current bf there is a bit of something but its less than once every 2/3 months (if that, honestly can't recall last time) so really not a problem and the bf has been happy to fuck impromptu when occasion arises.

With all my lt ex's its been the same they've not douched and there's not really ever been an issue.

I'm just very horny every day and love topping my bf or whomever i'm with at the time and i love the intimacy it brings.

 

[cedarizzo]

The first boyfriend fucked me pretty much everyday at least once, sometimes more. This was long before I knew anything about cleaning out. Accidents happened, but they were rare. After him, I didn't get fucked as much.

Rarely with the 2nd boyfriend.

The 3rd boyfriend I did it on a more regular basis, still didn't know about cleaning out, but he was 6" at most on a good day. But he was also the best top I had ever been with.

The 4th boyfriend and I started strong with the anal sex. But a few years in, that slowed down a lot. This is also when I learned about cleaning out. It became a problem because he expected me to clean out each time he was going to fuck me. I finally told him it really ruined the moment when he would start complaining about cleaning out. Eventually anal sex only happened once a year for the last 3 or 4 years of our relationship. It was no longer fun with him.