Do straight guys notice in gym or locker room gay men are checking them out?

Nah, not really, as long as they’re discreet and subtle about it. I honestly don’t care. The only time it gets uncomfortable is when someone’s being super weird about it—like staring too much or kind of following me around. That’s when it feels creepy. But if it’s just a quick glance or something I don’t even notice, whatever. Also, to be honest, sometimes someone’s looking at you, and they might not even be gay, so it’s not worth overthinking.