Just curious whether the smaller guys get bothered by the way the hung guys have fun posting their dicks and complimenting each other, or if you have any other thoughts on it.
BBLiverpool
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I don’t think I have a small dick, but I don’t think it’s particularly huge either. I am in awe and somewhat envious of guys with huge dicks, it feels like everyone has one now looking at here and twitter. That said, I’ve mentioned in another thread, a big dick isn’t a guaranteed good fuck.
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I have accepted that I have a tiny dick. I have even taken pleasure with SPH but, I would not be telling the truth if I said I was not jealous when I see big cocks. I would love to have a big cock but I am happy with the little guy too.
Southeastern
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I don't think so, and if they are jealous of big penises, they are wasting time. Every human being is unique and perfect. People should forget these useless clichés dictated by society.
This site is not just about big cocks. Lovers, and contented possessors of smaller cocks, also have just as much fun posting their dicks and complements - to their own satisfaction in separate threads. As for the persons unhappy with their smaller size, who wouldn't want to show off, they wouldn't be bothered. They would participate in big cock admiration too.
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I wouldn't say that I'm bothered by it, but definitely very envious of the hung guys on here. I love to see their posts and read their stories of the attention they get having a big dick. I've always been a bit shy being small and I envy how confident hung guys are.
Stephenmass
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Personally, I think too much emphasis is on size. While maybe I can agree when you first see someone with a large penis, it's like geez that's pretty big. But beyond that it's yeah it's big but does he know how to use it. Smaller cocked guys, when flaccid can sometimes get surprisingly large when they are hard. Some not as much, but who cares. You have a large population of guys, some are smaller, some are medium, some are large, and a few hit that xtra large. In a bell curve most guys fall into the medium range I think. Have confidence with whatever you have because there are varying sizes out there. Being here and seeing large dicks or xtra large, or porn anywhere, gives an unrealistic view of what an average sized penis looks like. For those guys that are small, it's what you do with it. You learn that and your good to go! Some guys and gals are admitted size queens, to each their own. Some don't care what the other has. I personally don't care because I found the guy hot before he took off his jeans or whatever and I doubt that would change.
elklindoxxx
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My partner and I go with other couples. And there are men who are both bigger and smaller than me. Do I get bothered? I could care less.
Lol dude you have a huge dick (based on your gallery). I have to imagine it’s not super common for you not to have the bigger dick.
I agree with your answer in spirit, but my question is more geared toward the guys who have the experience of always or almost always being smaller than other guys they see online or in person. That’s just a different ballgame mentally.
I’m trying to understand their perspective better.
It sucks always being the smallest guy in the room. I feel so self conscious, embarrassed, envious, just a range of feelings at times. I'd love to be hung and confident just for a day to see what it must be like for you hung guys.
Southeastern
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You certainly have other attributes and qualities that they don't have. Don't let yourself be fooled by these silly cliches that the media sells. A penis doesn't define a man. What defines a man is his character.
True, everyone is unique, but not all are perfect. Some far from it. A few even make me almost wish they'd bring back aesthetic euthanasia.
I'm perfectly happy with my tiny tool. Wouldn't change it for the world. Why mess with perfection?
But I'll confess I'm totally in awe of some biguns, especially during MFM 3-ways. They can reach depths and heights my little one never could. I consider myself one helluva hunky dude but big cocks look so f*cking masculine. It's like seeing a dinghy next to an aircraft carrier.
Southeastern
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It's all about perspective. There are women and gays who complain about big penises because they hurt. Besides, the important thing is to know how to use it. It doesn't matter how big the magic wand is, what matters is knowing how to use it.True, everyone is unique, but not all are perfect. Some far from it. A few even make me almost wish they'd bring back aesthetic euthanasia.![:justkidding:]( ":justkidding:")
I'm perfectly happy with my tiny tool. Wouldn't change it for the world. Why mess with perfection?
But I'll confess I'm totally in awe of some biguns, especially during MFM 3-ways. They can reach depths and heights my little one never could. I consider myself one helluva hunky dude but big cocks look so f*cking masculine. It's like seeing a dinghy next to an aircraft carrier.
I have a small one. I don’t get bothered by it; but the way porn movies ‘teach’ you what’s best, it’s hard not to get jealous. Only after starting to have sex with other men, I started caring a little less. When a hung bottom begs you to put it in, it provides that much needed perspective
Rational truth-telling such as yours will invite cascades of invectives from those men either seeking small penis humiliation or desperate praise for their claims of prodigious members, but I applaud you. For the great majority of men who offer perfectly adequate equipment, but wish that offering was more significant, the encouragement to develop the character traits that mark masculinity is mostly and sadly lost. Such is the secret known by a minority of sexually successful men.
with a little 4in dick I definitely get jealous of the hung guys here...its shocking when i see a dick 2 to 3x my size. i wear a strapon dick sometimes to fuck after seeing how mugh bigger most guys are
Southeastern
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Thank you!
I read a lot about affirmative psychology for gay men, bullying and social validation and when I gave my answer, it was because, historically, we have had machismo ingrained in our Western culture, with the fallacy sold by the media that a man with a large penis is "more of a man", which is complete nonsense.
How many illustrious men were short and yet they were still heroes or examples acclaimed internationally! The same goes for penises. If this media nonsense says that all men with large penises should be hypermasculine, perhaps they shouldn't even be gay.
Furthermore, the vast majority of the population does not have a large penis. It is perverse to replicate this obsolete idea of "large penis, more important man", because it affects the self-esteem of men, gay or straight, who do not feel socially validated because of a lie, a media cliché with no logic whatsoever.
My answer is for men with small or medium penises to free themselves from this unnecessary burden created by this media idiocy devoid of logic.
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Be nice some of the guys with small cocks and asses post their goods.. especially twinks to low 30s
