Do the smaller guys here get envious of all the hung guys praising each other in the “Show Off” section?

[FrankieGuile]

Thank you!

I read a lot about affirmative psychology for gay men, bullying and social validation and when I gave my answer, it was because, historically, we have had machismo ingrained in our Western culture, with the fallacy sold by the media that a man with a large penis is "more of a man", which is complete nonsense.

How many illustrious men were short and yet they were still heroes or examples acclaimed internationally! The same goes for penises. If this media nonsense says that all men with large penises should be hypermasculine, perhaps they shouldn't even be gay.

Furthermore, the vast majority of the population does not have a large penis. It is perverse to replicate this obsolete idea of "large penis, more important man", because it affects the self-esteem of men, gay or straight, who do not feel socially validated because of a lie, a media cliché with no logic whatsoever.

My answer is for men with small or medium penises to free themselves from this unnecessary burden created by this media idiocy devoid of logic.

I don't think it has anything to do with the "media." If you seek to lay blame, then lay it with men in general, particularly those who consume pornography and those who perpetuate the myth on certain threads on this site. In addition, rather than finding blame or feeling indignation, pivot to promoting the real markers of what makes a man a man.

 

[SmallKnowing]

I have accepted that I have a tiny dick. I have even taken pleasure with SPH but, I would not be telling the truth if I said I was not jealous when I see big cocks. I would love to have a big cock but I am happy with the little guy too.

AGREED. I used to think i was average but so many people i was with told me i was really small. i was jealous of Ex-boyfriends the girls had at first who were bigger and better. a couple of girlfriends said they couldn't feel me at all.... I'm 4 1/4 when fully hard but that's rare. generally im soft. so its more like 3 inches, soft, really skinny, small penis head, little balls, and i can't feel the girl... several GFs had me wear a big strap-on to compensate. now the size difference has become a kink and a turn on. that got me into sph and cuckolding...LOVE me tiny dick and PARTNERS THAT ARENT AFRAID TO VERVALIZE THEY CANT FEEL IT!

 

[Southeastern]

AGREED. I used to think i was average but so many people i was with told me i was really small. i was jealous of Ex-boyfriends the girls had at first who were bigger and better. a couple of girlfriends said they couldn't feel me at all.... I'm 4 1/4 when fully hard but that's rare. generally im soft. so its more like 3 inches, soft, really skinny, small penis head, little balls, and i can't feel the girl... several GFs had me wear a big strap-on to compensate. now the size difference has become a kink and a turn on. that got me into sph and cuckolding...LOVE me tiny dick and PARTNERS THAT ARENT AFRAID TO VERVALIZE THEY CANT FEEL IT!

I think it's rude when people comment on past boyfriends. If I were you, I'd just ignore it. For me, your penis is absolutely perfect.

 

[SmallKnowing]

i enjoy it! it's become a kink.

 

[cocklessman]

I admit that I have a small dick and I accept it. It's true that I sometimes envy people with big dicks. It's so cool.But I prefer people to look down on and despise my small dick.
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[FrankieGuile]

I think it's rude when people comment on past boyfriends. If I were you, I'd just ignore it. For me, your penis is absolutely perfect.

It's not only "rude," but it is make-believe. Only at the pestering of a man will a woman talk about past relationships in such a manner, and she'll do it to please his particular kink, as evidenced by many of the posts here. And the woman is rightly wary that such a man is obsessed with the penises of other men rather than her and, therefore, maybe not suitable as a mate.

 

[Southeastern]

It's not only "rude," but it is make-believe. Only at the pestering of a man will a woman talk about past relationships in such a manner, and she'll do it to please his particular kink, as evidenced by many of the posts here. And the woman is rightly wary that such a man is obsessed with the penises of other men rather than her and, therefore, maybe not suitable as a mate.

I totally agree with you.

 

[onesmallone]

AGREED. I used to think i was average but so many people i was with told me i was really small. i was jealous of Ex-boyfriends the girls had at first who were bigger and better. a couple of girlfriends said they couldn't feel me at all.... I'm 4 1/4 when fully hard but that's rare. generally im soft. so its more like 3 inches, soft, really skinny, small penis head, little balls, and i can't feel the girl... several GFs had me wear a big strap-on to compensate. now the size difference has become a kink and a turn on. that got me into sph and cuckolding...LOVE me tiny dick and PARTNERS THAT ARENT AFRAID TO VERVALIZE THEY CANT FEEL IT!

I am right there with you.

 

[HairyHungMike]

Just curious whether the smaller guys get bothered by the way the hung guys have fun posting their dicks and complimenting each other, or if you have any other thoughts on it.

I would just guess that they aren't bothered by the bigger dicks, rather more envious. And if not envious, maybe they just like looking at them and get aroused.

 

[onesmallone]

I would just guess that they aren't bothered by the bigger dicks, rather more envious. And if not envious, maybe they just like looking at them and get aroused.

Nailed it.

 

[Nalyd4Slave]

'Other thoughts on it' category here.

I'm bang average in all the general human size departments, but I've never been great socially and sometimes I read about how guys with big dicks get offers through third person curiosity. It probably sometimes opens more doors than some hung dudes may realize. After a while just knowing you have a secret weapon that so many either want or want to have must give at least a small confidence boost which can then help a little in many areas of life.

It's not so much that I'm unhappy with my own dick, but sometimes it would be nice to stand out physically in any shape or form. In general sometimes I'm envious of guys who in some way or another 'stand out' in an attractiveness metric.

 

[deleted26824561]

Yo southeastern and love games please totally perv at my COMPLETELY SHAMELESS STRAIGHT TWO INCH COCK!!

 

[little_dick_princess]

As I'm still accepting my condition of course I'm envious, and also really turned on by hung guys praising each other and / or comparing themselves with me

 

[boycut92]

Just curious whether the smaller guys get bothered by the way the hung guys have fun posting their dicks and complimenting each other, or if you have any other thoughts on it.

That's a good question. I'm not small, but I'm smaller than most guys in here. The topic of big dick envy is interesting to me, cause I don't feel envy for hung guys. If anything, I'm envious of their partners lol. I feel some sort of admiration or awe regarding big dicks, they just look so appealing to me. If being outsized means I can awe at a bigger dick, I see no reason not to enjoy being outsized (hence no reason to feel envy as I'm comfortable in this position). I don't get bothered seeing hung guys flaunting their big cocks and exchanging appreciation. If I'm horny, I think that's really hot: watching hung men in their "big dick club" that is inaccessible to me being all cocky and confident about their endowments. Feeling like the only way for me to get closer to that world is by submitting since I don't have enough cock to join their club. Sometimes, the power that hung guys exhale turns me on a lot. However, if I'm not horny and I see guys just being cocky about their big cocks... it doesn't bother me, but sometimes I just find it funny (maybe sad?) how their lives seem to revolve around the fact that they're hung. Some guys talk about it like dick size is the only thing that matters, and it makes me wonder if they're trying to convince me or themselves about that.
I guess my point is: it's a fun kink, it makes me get off on the big cocks I see here, and the whole cocky talk can be sexy in the appropriate place and time. But there's more to life than that.

 

[Southeastern]

'Other thoughts on it' category here.

I'm bang average in all the general human size departments, but I've never been great socially and sometimes I read about how guys with big dicks get offers through third person curiosity. It probably sometimes opens more doors than some hung dudes may realize. After a while just knowing you have a secret weapon that so many either want or want to have must give at least a small confidence boost which can then help a little in many areas of life.

It's not so much that I'm unhappy with my own dick, but sometimes it would be nice to stand out physically in any shape or form. In general sometimes I'm envious of guys who in some way or another 'stand out' in an attractiveness metric.

They are just cliches sold by the media that people buy into without thinking. Forget them. There is no one person better than another. Each person is unique.

 

[Southeastern]

That's a good question. I'm not small, but I'm smaller than most guys in here. The topic of big dick envy is interesting to me, cause I don't feel envy for hung guys. If anything, I'm envious of their partners lol. I feel some sort of admiration or awe regarding big dicks, they just look so appealing to me. If being outsized means I can awe at a bigger dick, I see no reason not to enjoy being outsized (hence no reason to feel envy as I'm comfortable in this position). I don't get bothered seeing hung guys flaunting their big cocks and exchanging appreciation. If I'm horny, I think that's really hot: watching hung men in their "big dick club" that is inaccessible to me being all cocky and confident about their endowments. Feeling like the only way for me to get closer to that world is by submitting since I don't have enough cock to join their club. Sometimes, the power that hung guys exhale turns me on a lot. However, if I'm not horny and I see guys just being cocky about their big cocks... it doesn't bother me, but sometimes I just find it funny (maybe sad?) how their lives seem to revolve around the fact that they're hung. Some guys talk about it like dick size is the only thing that matters, and it makes me wonder if they're trying to convince me or themselves about that.
I guess my point is: it's a fun kink, it makes me get off on the big cocks I see here, and the whole cocky talk can be sexy in the appropriate place and time. But there's more to life than that.

Good point!

 

[deleted26824561]

IM A STRAIGHT LAD USED TO BE FRIGHTENED TO FUCK OF GETTING MY TINY LITTLE TWO INCH COCK OUT AS A KID!! NOW I WANNA BE MADE TO BE PROUD OF BEING HUNG LIKE A TWO YEAR OLD TODDLER!!

 

[Scott8361]

I find big cocks turn me on. It doesn't bother me seeing them shown off or flaunted. Do I envy them? Sure! Do I wish I had one myself? ABSOLUTELY! I especially envy girthy thick ones! I love them!

As I've gotten older I find my bi side getting stronger. My envy and admiration of big cocks turns into a craving to see, serve, and pleasure them. Seeing them shown off and compared, talked about, and bragged about on LPSG is why I am here!

I know we all can't have one, it's what makes them special! I find my thin cock serves a purpose to make bigger guys understand how lucky they are. Without our smaller dicks, theirs wouldn't be considered big!

 

[boycut92]

I find big cocks turn me on. It doesn't bother me seeing them shown off or flaunted. Do I envy them? Sure! Do I wish I had one myself? ABSOLUTELY! I especially envy girthy thick ones! I love them!

As I've gotten older I find my bi side getting stronger. My envy and admiration of big cocks turns into a craving to see, serve, and pleasure them. Seeing them shown off and compared, talked about, and bragged about on LPSG is why I am here!

I know we all can't have one, it's what makes them special! I find my thin cock serves a purpose to make bigger guys understand how lucky they are. Without our smaller dicks, theirs wouldn't be considered big!

You have a very good point: what makes big cocks special is not their size, is the comparison against smaller ones.

I also like your take on how envy turns into admiration. Even for guys who don't consider themselves gay or bi, admiring and praising well hung guys is a way to overcome insecurities or feelings of inadequacy: the realization that you can marvel at someone else's dick without feeling like there's something wrong with yours can be freeing. In my experience, turning the negative feeling of envy into something positive like admiration helped me feel more positive about the whole thing and allowed me to start enjoying it: dick size became a big turn on to me. I no longer envy big dick guys nor wish mine was bigger: my size gives me great pleasure when I'm outsized and get to praise hung guys for their endowment. Allowing myself to crave cock also helps as I get to play with big cocks despite not having one (an advantage for gay and bi guys, but straight guys can also benefit from it if they open their minds).

 

[Southeastern]

You have a very good point: what makes big cocks special is not their size, is the comparison against smaller ones.

I also like your take on how envy turns into admiration. Even for guys who don't consider themselves gay or bi, admiring and praising well hung guys is a way to overcome insecurities or feelings of inadequacy: the realization that you can marvel at someone else's dick without feeling like there's something wrong with yours can be freeing. In my experience, turning the negative feeling of envy into something positive like admiration helped me feel more positive about the whole thing and allowed me to start enjoying it: dick size became a big turn on to me. I no longer envy big dick guys nor wish mine was bigger: my size gives me great pleasure when I'm outsized and get to praise hung guys for their endowment. Allowing myself to crave cock also helps as I get to play with big cocks despite not having one (an advantage for gay and bi guys, but straight guys can also benefit from it if they open their minds).

I liked your comment. You appreciate guys with big penises, but you know that you are not inferior to them and you don't let it become an obsession for you. That's it. All sizes are perfect; there is no size superior to another.