Do Tops Care About A Bottom's Dick Size?

[deleted4931171]

There are actually three questions I got:

1. Do tops care, or even pay attention to bottom's dick size?
I know this probably seems like an unnecessary question, but even as a bottom, I've had insecurities about my size. I'm a grower and I have an average size of about 6 inches when erect, but I'm a bit smaller at about 3-4 inches when I'm flaccid. I was just curious to know what tops make of a bottom's dick size.

2. Do most guys like or at least, don't mind, average-sized dicks?
I like bigger dicks myself, but is it ever really a genuine turn-off for people who do,

3. Do tops mind jacking off their bottoms during sex or ever touching their dick and cumming together, especially during anal?

 

[dfw051980]

1. NO as a top I don't care but i'm more turned on if he's hung.
But its definitely not a requirement.

2. Average is great!

3. And i love jerking off my bottoms dick while i fuck him.

 

[deleted6209261]

From experience I would think a good proportion of tops do. It’s usually the only thing they care about when messaging me in apps. My guess is that they’re not really total tops as they advertise themselves as, and are actually vers oriented.

I have however had many tops who are over in the speed of light the minute I send them an ass pic

 

[Rockinroadster]

Size isn’t an issue for me at all. I don’t care if he’s 6 or 10 or 4 inches when hard. But I definitely love a bottom that enjoys being jerked off/can stay hard while i fuck them. Tops who don’t enjoy jerking off their bottoms are usually only in it for themselves

 

[SkiCop]

i do love me a big dick bottom but it is not a requirement.
I love jacking my bottom while we fuck but usually let him take over as we get closer.
cumming at the same time is amazing.....

 

[dancinfool]

I love playing with my husband’s cock during sex! He’s average, too, but that’s never been an issue for me. He loves my big dick and I get off on that, but I’m certainly not turned off that he’s not above average. The power dynamic/dominance does more for me than the specific size of the bottom. If the sex is great and you have a good connection it doesn’t really matter

 

[deleted1074483]

There are actually three questions I got:

1. Do tops care, or even pay attention to bottom's dick size?
I know this probably seems like an unnecessary question, but even as a bottom, I've had insecurities about my size. I'm a grower and I have an average size of about 6 inches when erect, but I'm a bit smaller at about 3-4 inches when I'm flaccid. I was just curious to know what tops make of a bottom's dick size.

Personally no, the bottoms dick size isn't the key consideration for me, its nice to have something to play with, suck on, look at, so a micro penis might be a bit small, but if the guy has a good body, great tight ass and is a decent guy (which he would be by the time we got to that) then all good

2. Do most guys like or at least, don't mind, average-sized dicks?
I like bigger dicks myself, but is it ever really a genuine turn-off for people who do,

my current bf is smaller hard than my flaccid dick and no its not a turn off, and he's got enough for me to play with.

3. Do tops mind jacking off their bottoms during sex or ever touching their dick and cumming together, especially during anal?

i will play with my bottom guys dick whilst we fuck, especially if he's riding me or we're doing doggy where its easy to get at

 

[Dean_abc]

1. I personally don't care. I've met people who would say it's a turn on, but it's never been a turn off for me.

2. I believe it all comes down to personal preference. Most people I've met said they'd rather average ones.

3. I love playing with my bottom's dick while we're fucking! And I can tell they usually like it, too.

 

[jaybee0560]

There are actually three questions I got:

1. Do tops care, or even pay attention to bottom's dick size?
I know this probably seems like an unnecessary question, but even as a bottom, I've had insecurities about my size. I'm a grower and I have an average size of about 6 inches when erect, but I'm a bit smaller at about 3-4 inches when I'm flaccid. I was just curious to know what tops make of a bottom's dick size.

2. Do most guys like or at least, don't mind, average-sized dicks?
I like bigger dicks myself, but is it ever really a genuine turn-off for people who do,

3. Do tops mind jacking off their bottoms during sex or ever touching their dick and cumming together, especially during anal?

Guess - ,much like most of the posts here so far, dont really care .. more interested in whether its a nice looking dick than how enormous it is .. hugely oral so .. I've gotta want to suck it but - happy with an average size dick as a big one .. if they are tiny then there is less chance I will want to blow it - but happy to fuck a guy with a smaller dick and a nice arse.

 

[indyfrat79]

The size of the bottom's dick isn't so important but the hardness is. I'm so turned off if I'm fucking a guy and I just look down and see a sad limp dick. I appreciate that some guys like poppers but I hate it when then overdo them and can't get hard. The bottom's dick is a huge turn on for me. I like to jack him as I fuck him - lets me know that he enjoys. My dream bottom is super hairy with an all natural bush and uncut cock. I turns me own knowing that I can suck a load from his uncut dick after I cum in him.

 

[Udyrbear]

Love to read this!
Size is not importan but a hung bottom is a plus for me, love jerking then off white fucking
Or just see his huge cock bouncing in each trust
But its not a must

 

[dfw051980]

I’m so over tops being scared of dick, like it’s gonna make them more gay. It’s 2021... time to get over that internatilized homophobia and give into the cock u desperately want lol.

I get that some hung guys out there that only want their dick worshipped, ok cool. But there are some that genuinely act scared to touch a cock even though they consider themselves gay...smh.

I love to top but I love to see, jerk, and suck dick too.

 

[chrisrobin]

me: 5" and Asian - so as western society dictates I should be sub/bottom

best fuck I've had and still miss: a white guy, total bottom twink, solid 11" and double/triple my girth. PA on it. Wasn't too difficult to be fucking / sucking him at the same time since he was so big.

On topic: No I don't care.
White bottom smaller than me: I win because you're pathetic and smaller than my small Asian cock
White bottom more hung than me: I win though you're bigger and still submit to my small Asian cock

Be more than willing to submit your your small Asian cock, when it gets in my asshole it will still feel like a huge rocket just ready to explode.

 

[fakboi]

I don't care about the size if you're as big or bigger than me (15 cm or 5.9055 inches). Then I care more about the shape. I will jack a bottom off and I absolutely will suck him. I'd love to hold a bear can dick but then I won't be able to suck him and giving bj is a higher priority for me. And yes, I will jack off a bottom while fucking him.

 

[10285021]

me: 5" and Asian - so as western society dictates I should be sub/bottom

best fuck I've had and still miss: a white guy, total bottom twink, solid 11" and double/triple my girth. PA on it. Wasn't too difficult to be fucking / sucking him at the same time since he was so big.

On topic: No I don't care.
White bottom smaller than me: I win because you're pathetic and smaller than my small Asian cock
White bottom more hung than me: I win though you're bigger and still submit to my small Asian cock

This attitude is SUCH a turn on! Love it!

 

[51arledge]

I love it when my bottom has a big dick! My 2 favorite long term FBs both had 8"+, so it was always an extra bit of fun with them. But I've also had regular and long term FBs with small cock. Two of them always said, "Don't worry about my dick. Your fucking will make me shoot!"

 

[HorseHung40's]

I confess that I do like a big dicked bottom. Don't know why. Just do.

 

[dogstar101]

In one word: No.

Tops pretty much could care less About size.. In fact nearly all the tops I know are the least interested in jacking or sucking dick. A bottom’s job is to take dick... nothing more nothing less

Sounds like all the tops you know are a bunch of dicks.

 

[P.J.9]

I confess that I do like a big dicked bottom. Don't know why. Just do.

Hot. I’m a big dick bottom sexy

 

[hunGreek]

There are actually three questions I got:

1. Do tops care, or even pay attention to bottom's dick size?

2. Do most guys like or at least, don't mind, average-sized dicks?

3. Do tops mind jacking off their bottoms during sex or ever touching their dick and cumming together, especially during anal?

1. i definitely do pay attention to the btms dick, and its a huge turn-on to 69, and blow a nicely shaped and large dick prior to fucking. if the guy is really huge and significanly larger than me i might get intimidated and unable to fuck him tho.

2. cant say about most guys, but according to this website, average is 6 inches which is a perfectly fine size for a cock. what i DO care more than the dimensions is its cleanliness,smell, excessive hairs, and overal shape and balance.

3. i personaly love playing with the btms dick, sucking it while fucking him, kissing and genarly sharing the experience. i hate doggy style as i find it demeaning to the btm.