I'm more attracted to body, then face, then dick so I wouldn't really care about dick size. I rarely bottom but I like a nice dick but that doesn't necessarily mean size. I love jacking off a guy and giving blowjobs though. But I've met tops who would absolutely not touch a dick and bottoms who don't like their dicks played with. I always go for bottoms who like their dicks played with.
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I guess it depends on the circumstances surrounding the encounter. Sometimes a bottom will just want to be a hole. If all they are interested in is getting a cock inside of them, then I don't care about their cock because they don't. If it's more of a mutual thing where we're both after the same thing, then I like something average and above to play with.
1. Not at all. It’s just not my focus.
2. If anything, too big a distraction/turn off. Medium to small is best.
3. Ideally I like us to cum at the same time so his body tenses up when I’m about to shoot. It feels way more intense that way. So whether that’s me bringing him of or himself doesn’t really matter to me. It can be nice to have hands free for rough play though.
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I've always wondered if tops have an issue with their bottom being more endowed. From my own experience, most of the tops I've dealt with sexually were strict tops and they were only really enamored with my ass. I have had some tops that were attentive to my needs and would try to jerk me off while they were topping me.
love a well endowed bottom guy, on two levels really i guess, love having something big to play with and there is something about a more hung guy (or someone bigger physically) 'submitting' to my cock
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1. Do tops care, or even pay attention to bottom's dick size?
I don't care about their size but if they have a big size dick and hard that turn me on so much more
2. Do most guys like or at least, don't mind, average-sized dicks?
yes I think so. but as a top guy I'm ok with every bottom's dick size
3. Do tops mind jacking off their bottoms during sex or ever touching their dick and cumming together, especially during anal?
yes I do, I love to play with their dick during sex and I love to see them cumming without touching while I fuck them ,if it possible
btw sorry for my poor english
I don't care about their size but if they have a big size dick and hard that turn me on so much more
2. Do most guys like or at least, don't mind, average-sized dicks?
yes I think so. but as a top guy I'm ok with every bottom's dick size
3. Do tops mind jacking off their bottoms during sex or ever touching their dick and cumming together, especially during anal?
yes I do, I love to play with their dick during sex and I love to see them cumming without touching while I fuck them ,if it possible
btw sorry for my poor english
I love big dick bottoms. I like to hold their dick while fucking them from behind.
My husband cares so much we recently got married.
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1. Bottom's penis size is not important to me at all. In fact, smaller than mine is an extra turn-on. I'm more picky when it comes to his ass. But I do worry he's not aroused if his penis is soft while being fucked.
3. I don't touch the bottom's dick when fucking him. But I do like when he strokes himself, and we cum at the same time.
3. I don't touch the bottom's dick when fucking him. But I do like when he strokes himself, and we cum at the same time.
As a bottom with an average cock I'd be pretty annoyed if the top turned round and said I was too small! I love that my cock is at its hardest while I'm being fucked, and would only ask a top to stop wanking me so I can last longer without cumming.
If a top said a bottoms dick is too small, I’d wonder how much of a top he actually was.
As a bottom, I can only share my side of this and can confidently say most “total” tops don’t care. Vers tops would appreciate a large cock but I don’t think it’s an expectation. I’m below average so some tops are really turned on by the size difference as well.
I am not a "total top." That said,
1. I pay attention. I find topping a big-dick bottom very hot, even hotter if he is bigger than me, as instead of going about destroying other guy's holes, he is instead submitting to my dick to get his rocks off. I chalk this up to being a switch who loves a number of role reversals. I also prefer the guy bottoming to be hard. But would I turn away a bottom for not having a big dick or getting hard during? HELL NO! It's not a turn-off. I just like seeing a dick bounce while I'm inside him, so the more there is, the more I get to feel up/see.
2. A major reason why I am gay is because I love dicks, getting them off, sucking them, playing with them, touching them, etc., so I like average sizes too. I am more likely to bottom for a small/average dick than I ever am for a big one. I understand many guys that bottom want to be destroyed, but that is not me, lol. Furthermore, I'd rather have a dick I can fit into my mouth without having to have lockjaw and that I can use in some way.
3. Honestly, I feel like it is etiquette. I'm like, what's the purpose of a guy I'm messing with to have a dick if I can't/he doesn't ever play with/acknowledge it. You don't necessarily need to fuck anybody with it, but I feel a bit saddened if a gay man with a dick doesn't have some sort of relationship with it. Like, I'd take a second dick, lol. And though slightly off topic, I feel if you are in the small percentage of "total top" or gay men who does not like dick (well, anybody else's dick than your own), you should have no problem messing around or being with a cute ass transman cause you are essentially saying having a dick does not matter. If it matters that the guy(s) you are topping have a dick, acknowledge it, give it a grab; after all, you obviously like dicks.
It’s a nice bonus, but I don’t care if I’m not getting fucked. I’ve had a few great fuckbuds with micro dicks that more than compensated by being excellent bottoms.
