Do you check the size of dick without measuring it to know if your ex had a bigger or smaller one?

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Question for women :)
Do you check the size of dick without measuring it to know if your ex had a bigger or smaller one?
If so how? Do you check the length by comparing it with your hand? Do you check the girth by putting your fingers around it? Do you have any other methods?
Do you do that always with new man? Do you admit it or do you do it secretly?
 
Question for women :)
Do you check the size of dick without measuring it to know if your ex had a bigger or smaller one?
If so how? Do you check the length by comparing it with your hand? Do you check the girth by putting your fingers around it? Do you have any other methods?
Do you do that always with new man? Do you admit it or do you do it secretly?
Not a woman here but... I think it's safe to say it's men that get "hung" up on dick comparisons. There's a whole genre of men on personal profiles wanting to "compare dicks".
 
This question (which has been asked so many times) confirms to me that I've been compared to other humans based solely on my involuntary anatomy.

The concern so many straight men have about what their sexual partners think about the aesthetic appeal of their anatomy is simple projection.

Dick size has so little relevance for me personally. Huge cock does not guarantee good sex for me. I've fucked obese dudes. Boney dudes. Buff dudes. Fem dudes. Beefy dudes. Dudes who are honestly kinda fuckin ugly imo. Noticing size difference? Sure. But notice how my descriptions didn't include dick size?? I try really fucking hard not to do things to people I don't want done to me. Thanks for the reality check. It definitely happens to me.. No doubt and I fuckin hate it.

I don't need to be in love with someone to cum.. But I can't get off with some selfish idiot who thinks porn is "educational".

Itty bitty little peen can make me cum hard . Long, thick dick can be absolutely tedious if the person it's attached to thinks having a lot of flesh dangling in front of their asshole is all they need to be good at fucking .

I'd definitely jerk off before fucking a guy with a huge cock who doesn't even try to understand how to communicate with me physically.

If I ever disappointed a dude for now being what he thought I was or compared me to, GOOD. Stay limp fuckboi.
 
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This question (which has been asked so many times) confirms to me that I've been compared to other humans based solely on my involuntary anatomy.

The concern so many straight men have about what their sexual partners think about the aesthetic appeal of their anatomy is simple projection.

Dick size has so little relevance for me personally. Huge cock does not guarantee good sex for me. I've fucked obese dudes. Boney dudes. Buff dudes. Fem dudes. Beefy dudes. Dudes who are honestly kinda fuckin ugly imo. Noticing size difference? Sure. But notice how my descriptions didn't include dick size?? I try really fucking hard not to do things to people I don't want done to me. Thanks for the reality check. It definitely happens to me.. No doubt and I fuckin hate it.

I don't need to be in love with someone to cum.. But I can't get off with some selfish idiot who thinks porn is "educational".

Itty bitty little peen can make me cum hard . Long, thick dick can be absolutely tedious if the person it's attached to thinks having a lot of flesh dangling in front of their asshole is all they need to be good at fucking .

I'd definitely jerk off before fucking a guy with a huge cock who doesn't even try to understand how to communicate with me physically.

If I ever disappointed a dude for now being what he thought I was or compared me to, GOOD. Stay limp fuckboi.
Well said,TnJ and rightfully so!
 
Question for women :)
Do you check the size of dick without measuring it to know if your ex had a bigger or smaller one?
If so how? Do you check the length by comparing it with your hand? Do you check the girth by putting your fingers around it? Do you have any other methods?
Do you do that always with new man? Do you admit it or do you do it secretly?
Boy, are you in for it! Just remember, you did it to yourself.
 
This question (which has been asked so many times) confirms to me that I've been compared to other humans based solely on my involuntary anatomy.

The concern so many straight men have about what their sexual partners think about the aesthetic appeal of their anatomy is simple projection.

Dick size has so little relevance for me personally. Huge cock does not guarantee good sex for me. I've fucked obese dudes. Boney dudes. Buff dudes. Fem dudes. Beefy dudes. Dudes who are honestly kinda fuckin ugly imo. Noticing size difference? Sure. But notice how my descriptions didn't include dick size?? I try really fucking hard not to do things to people I don't want done to me. Thanks for the reality check. It definitely happens to me.. No doubt and I fuckin hate it.

I don't need to be in love with someone to cum.. But I can't get off with some selfish idiot who thinks porn is "educational".

Itty bitty little peen can make me cum hard . Long, thick dick can be absolutely tedious if the person it's attached to thinks having a lot of flesh dangling in front of their asshole is all they need to be good at fucking .

I'd definitely jerk off before fucking a guy with a huge cock who doesn't even try to understand how to communicate with me physically.

If I ever disappointed a dude for now being what he thought I was or compared me to, GOOD. Stay limp fuckboi.
thanks, that's interesting point of view, I agree that there are more important things than dick size, but I just wanted to consider that issue in isolation to other more important things. I think human just compare things all the time unintentionally, because this is how our bran works, this is how we perceive reality, like comparing prices at the shop. Even in your post you compared sex quality, one guy is better than the other. This is how brain works, how we interpret events. It's normal.
 
And woman is aware she had different dick sizes in her pussy, how does she know that? if she doesn't do it intentionally, her brain subconsciously does it, it's just human nature
 
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not the same but maybe a similar example is women's breasts. For men big boobs are not so important, but women want to have big boobs, just like a guy wants to have a big penis, where for a woman penis size is not such an important issue.
 
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All kidding aside, I have never ever considered penis size when considering sleeping with a man. After the fourth or fifth time I actually thought all men were roughly the same size. So the questions become "Do you have a penis? Is is working? Then we're good."

I have been further educated since then.
 
All kidding aside, I have never ever considered penis size when considering sleeping with a man. After the fourth or fifth time I actually thought all men were roughly the same size. So the questions become "Do you have a penis? Is is working? Then we're good."

I have been further educated since then.
Your point is well taken :)
 
For men big boobs are not so important,
This just in from our Channel 5 research department...a survey of the world's entire male population found that nearly 100% of men would disagree with that sentiment if only they could stop laughing first.
 
This just in from our Channel 5 research department...a survey of the world's entire male population found that nearly 100% of men would disagree with that sentiment if only they could stop laughing first.
I wouldn't say it's decisive. I'll admit that I do prefer bigger boobs. But if I'm having sex, the woman's boob size is far from being the most important factor for my pleasure. At the top of the list would be the level of intimacy/connection I feel with her. Second would probably be her eagerness/enthusiasm to be with me.

Granted, A cups make titty fucking a bit more challenging. But would I look at them and feel sorry for not being like the F cups I've once played with? Definitely no! There is soooooooo many more fun things to do in the bedroom.
If the two partners are into one another, any size issues with any body part don't even cross their minds.
 
I wouldn't say it's decisive. I'll admit that I do prefer bigger boobs. But if I'm having sex, the woman's boob size is far from being the most important factor for my pleasure. At the top of the list would be the level of intimacy/connection I feel with her. Second would probably be her eagerness/enthusiasm to be with me.

Granted, A cups make titty fucking a bit more challenging. But would I look at them and feel sorry for not being like the F cups I've once played with? Definitely no! There is soooooooo many more fun things to do in the bedroom.
If the two partners are into one another, any size issues with any body part don't even cross their minds.
In other news, from our editorial desk...the significant decline in society's sense of humor may be related to an increased need to justify one's every remark on social media...more on this in our eleven o'clock hour.
 
My ex-wife was a very actively practicing conservative Muslim. I thought she would be 100% naive. When we got ready to do the deed as soon as my clothes came off. She said Is that all of it? I was shocked. I said I'm a grower. I am 5.5 x5. As soon as she sucked the head, she laughed that It is so big it's not going in.
When I got between her legs believe me I could not touch her walls and she is just 5ft 99lbs.

As bedroom life went on, she used to say "I can't feel you, whereas with my ex; all I felt was pain".

She subconsciously kept measuring me with her ex-husband. Go figure.