For the first few years of dating my partner would complain about pain during sex when I went too deep. Her preferred position was on top because she could control the depth, almost any other position could end up causing her to yelp and push me away. It limited our options and created some unfortunate tension around our sex life.
While she says I’m the most well endowed sexual partner she’s ever had, she’s always had trouble with penetration due to a shallow vagina. She spoke to her gynecologist and friends and everybody just sort of shrugged and told her that she wasn’t getting turn on enough, which wasn’t particularly helpful advice. We looked into a device called the Ohnut, which is a rubber bumper you put around your cock to decrease the length, but it was prohibitively expensive to us at that time. We were young and horny so we muddled on in spite of the difficulties.
Eventually I floated the idea of using a vibrator, which she had never used before. She’s definitely not a prude, but for some reason she had always felt uneasy about owning one. I ordered a well reviewed and relatively inexpensive one from Amazon and we took it for a whirl.
It has completely changed our sex lives. When we use the vibrator, she’s able to take all of me and loves it. Her favorite position is doggy style, which in the first 5 years of dating, we’d only ever tried twice, (both times literally ended in tears). She loves when I hit her G spot. I’ve even noticed that she lusts after my dick and makes positive comment about my size, where her comments were previously more along the lines of “good for you but it’s not my cup of tea”, haha.
Thats all to say… fellas, don’t feel threatened by the robo-weiner. The vibrator is your pal.