For myself, I prefer to be a shower and even larger as a grower, not that I am. In actuality I'm a grower with a nice, thick dick that I wish was a tad longer erect. That doesn't mean I want to be freakishly huge, but just savor the feeling of mentally knowing, (mostly feeling) my large size of soft, flopping or beating around in my pants. Best feeling ever is when it hangs so heavy and moves around in loose crotch khakis with thin, loose boxers.
On someone else it doesn't really matter to me, as long as a guy who is a shower can grow to the size that sends me into euphoria when he puts it in me hard, which is at least a sweet 7 L x 6.5 G. My first time with the 7 x 6.5 I became addicted.