Oof, yeah this is a recurring issue for me. I’d say 3/4 out of all sexual encounters I’ve had, my girth has been an issue. My length is quite a challenge already, but my girth is usually the main hurdle. If it’s a one-time hookup, usually it doesn’t or can’t go further than being jerked off and some oral.
Some see my girth and call off any penetration whatsoever, but some do give it a try, and it’s half and half on whether we’re successful. One-time hookups usually never have the patience for me to try and loosen them up and get them relaxed. They usually say they’re ready too quickly, then I line up my long fat dick with their hole, push in slowly, it’s too tight, they say it hurts, and we quit.
And that’s just the partner-based issues haha. There’s also the trial and error of finding condoms, cock rings, and sex toys that can reasonably accommodate all this thick meat. Still haven’t found any that I feel really do the job in a way that nicely balances function and comfort.
I love my girth personally, but it’s honestly impractical. No one really needs a penis to be as thick as mine lol, and there are guys even thicker than me here, no idea how they manage haha
