Then what do you make of the experience @jaynoel recently related in this thread?There’s no such thing as heterophobia
Or of a gay guy I know who runs a temp office and tells me he tries to only place gay male applicants in jobs and rejects straights “oh he’ll be fine, he’s got a wife and kids, he’ll land on his feet” ? Or two friends of mine here in West Hollywood who are servers and proudly tell me how they put awful things in the food for straight customers and intentionally give them bad service, “to show them to keep out of our Weho” ? You really think all this stuff is isolated to a few outlier gays that only @jaynoel and I just happen to know?
Obviously, as I repeated to @bigboaster above, I never said heterophobia is as prevalent or violent as the various homophobias can be. Nonetheless, it exists, and it only feeds toxicity. Hate is hate.