Ever seen a "straight" friend or relative on Grindr or other gay app?

Saw my sons college roommate on Grindr one time when they came to visit. He was showing his face in his profile, but I recognized the tattoos. The roommate had a girlfriend and always made very homophobic comments. I message him (didn't share my face) and he didn't know who I was. He sent me nudes with a face pic so I knew it was him. He told me he had a girlfriend but said he has been secretly hooking up with guys. He said he liked older guys and wanted to hook up with me, but I was afraid to because I was afraid he couldn't keep his mouth shut.
Saw a typo in this...it was supposed to say he "wasn't" showing his face in his profile.
 
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Yes, I've seen on Grindr an ex collegue with no face pic but I recognized his body and tattoos. I always tough he was straight but on the description he said he was "straight curious". Now I think he is in incognito mode because I saved him as Favourite but say he's offline. Maybe he's bi.

And I've seen too a not-so-close-old-friend when both were not officially gay.
If at that time I knew who I was mabye things would be different now.
Maybe it would have been my first experience.
 
Wondering if anyone else has seen a "straight" friend or relative on Grindr. I was visiting my uncle's house and I opened Grindr at night and messaged a guy that was super close by. Neither of us had face pics on our profile, but we exchanged faceless nudes, cock and ass pics etc. Then he finally sent a face pic and it was my uncle, who is married still to my aunt. It was crazy. I freaked out and blocked him, but I'm pretty sure he figured it out cause he's been like a little weird and flirty around me and tried to spend time alone with me , invited me to the gym a lot etc. If it wasn't for my aunt, not gonna lie, I would go for it, he is hot and hung, but I couldn't do that to my aunt.
Did u ever hook up with him? How big is he
 
He was an ex, and we remained friends after the relationship ended. At one point, he decided he was straight and wanted to marry and have a family. Whatever, you do you. Instead of putting the effort in and finding someone compatible and then building a relationship, he settled for some money-hungry psycho with two children. They married within three months, and whenever he was in town, I would see him on Grindr. I confronted him about it, and he said he was horny and looking for inspiration for some solo relief. Bullshit. I reminded him that I had put miles on his ass when we were together, and he was after me like a dog in heat for years after. He might be telling people that he's straight, but not a single person believes him. Whatever his reason for it didn't matter. He made a commitment to her, and a very religious one at that. In case he forgot, I officiated and signed the marriage license.

One of her sons found him on Grindr. I hate to say it, but his niece and I ate popcorn while watching the fireworks.
“I had put miles on his ass” :joy: :joy: :joy:
 
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