Expanding Hotwife Situation Responsibly

[BrockInBrooklyn]

After about a year of flirting with the idea, I allowed my wife to start having sex with a friend a few months ago. Now she’s introduced the idea of seeking out additional guys to try out in the situation.

Question for those who’ve had similar situations: How do you explore new setups and guys and still stop it from getting out of control?

 

[Mr Ed in Mass]

as in separate encounters or a gangbang ?

 

[BrockInBrooklyn]

as in separate encounters or a gangbang ?

We’ve only talked about separate encounters.

 

[925638]

As in stop her from getting out of control and fucking "too many" guys or do you mean making sure she's comfortable and safe?

 

[BrockInBrooklyn]

As in stop her from getting out of control and fucking "too many" guys or do you mean making sure she's comfortable and safe?

We’ve only talked about including guys we know and trust at this point.

It’s really more the first—stopping it from going out of control and including everyone we know and never slowing down.

 

[925638]

We’ve only talked about including guys we know and trust at this point.

It’s really more the first—stopping it from going out of control and including everyone we know and never slowing down.

I guess she would have to be aware of what she ultimately hopes to gain in fucking new guys. I'm interested to see where this goes.

 

[BrockInBrooklyn]

I guess she would have to be aware of what she ultimately hopes to gain in fucking new guys. I'm interested to see where this goes.

I hear you.

I guess we need to do more fleshing out before actually including more.

 

[Mr Ed in Mass]

I think it would be important to get guys you can trust to keep it to themselves if that 's the direction you chose

 

[Mike hung]

After about a year of flirting with the idea, I allowed my wife to start having sex with a friend a few months ago. Now she’s introduced the idea of seeking out additional guys to try out in the situation.

Question for those who’ve had similar situations: How do you explore new setups and guys and still stop it from getting out of control?

So are you doing this together as in yourself watching? Or just letting her go with other guys by herself?

 

[BrockInBrooklyn]

So are you doing this together as in yourself watching? Or just letting her go with other guys by herself?

So far she has only had sex with this one guy, who we are friends with. But she’s had sex with him many times. Sometimes I’m there watching, sometimes I’m not but I get told about it, pictures, etc.

 

[NautiRogue]

As long as she's not getting romantically involved with her bulls, what would be the problem with her fucking as many guys as she wants, regardless of the number?

I say give her a full hall pass and have fun with it! It's so hot to watch your wife enjoying herself or to know that she's out fucking another guy, guys, couples, etc.

Let your wife experience all the pleasure that she craves!

 

[BrockInBrooklyn]

As long as she's not getting romantically involved with her bulls, what would be the problem with her fucking as many guys as she wants, regardless of the number?

I’d assume that, as with almost anything, too much of it is a bad thing, regardless of the attachment. If it starts to distract from regular life, work, friends, vacations, etc., it is a problem.

She and I are both very excited with the inclusion of our friend, and both very intrigued by including more. However, I’m just nervous that the excitement could get out of hand and random sex will take over our lives.

 

[NautiRogue]

I’d assume that, as with almost anything, too much of it is a bad thing, regardless of the attachment. If it starts to distract from regular life, work, friends, vacations, etc., it is a problem.

She and I are both very excited with the inclusion of our friend, and both very intrigued by including more. However, I’m just nervous that the excitement could get out of hand and random sex will take over our lives.

Do you anticipate that she might be interested in letting her hotwifing grow to the point you fear?

 

[BrockInBrooklyn]

Do you anticipate that she might be interested in letting her hotwifing grow to the point you fear?

My concern isn’t only with her. It’s with me too. I’m nervous that I could get so into it that I could keep wanting it to grow, keep finding and suggesting more guys.

 

[bigbucky]

heck if she is going to fuck all these guys, you need to be fucking some add'l pussy.

 

[BrockInBrooklyn]

heck if she is going to fuck all these guys, you need to be fucking some add'l pussy.

Lol. If I were interested, I’m sure there would be no problem with us including that.

 

[Mr Ed in Mass]

How many guys are you currently talking about ? and how many eventually ?

 

[BrockInBrooklyn]

How many guys are you currently talking about ? and how many eventually ?

She’s currently having sex with one. We have discussed about five other potential guys who we know. But we’ve also discussed opening it up to basically any random guy who happens to be interested.

 

[Mr Ed in Mass]

How old are you guys to put it into perspective ?

 

[BrockInBrooklyn]

How old are you guys to put it into perspective ?

I’m 34. My wife is 28. Our friend she’s been having sex with is 30